Ingqina kumtshato indima noxanduva yakhe

Mhlawumbi umntu ibalulekileyo iqela lomtshato emva umtshakazi kunye nomkhwenyana amangqina abo kufutshane ukutshata lonke ixesha leeholide. Ingakumbi lenkathazo, kodwa azukileyo kakhulu kwaye mnandi indima yobungqina kumtshato.

Imisebenzi e iqashiso ubungqina, ngoko oko kuza kuba mnandi Kwathi ezinye nabo abahlobo okanye izalamane omnye umtshakazi lowo. Sithatha imisebenzi yabo ubungqina kumtshato kufuneka kakuhle phambi kokuba mbhiyozo. Umzekelo, umsebenzi wayo kukuncedisa kukhetho zamasiko ngenxa nomtshakazi, kwakunye ekulungiseleleni iziganeko yomtshato. Kakade ke, umntu ufuna i zabakhaphi, ngoko ndandimncedisa yonke imiba ye- ngokwabo. Umnqophiso walo - ukuxhasa ukuziphatha intombi yakhe, nto leyo ngokuqinisekileyo uvalo kakhulu ngaphambi komtshato wabo.

ubungqina nje umtshato unoxanduva mbutho zeziganeko pre-lomtshato ezifana iqela bachelorette. Kufuneka sizame kwisiganeko yaphunyuzwa fun kwakunye elungileyo bachelorette iqela nomtshakazi ndiya kuyaphula ukusuka kokukhathazeka pre-umtshato balahle uchulumanco ngokungeyomfuneko.

Phezu kwamagxa yobungqina i enjalo ukulungiselela mzuzu lomtshato ukukuhlawulela umdla. Kuza kufuneka ukuba azame ukuvavanya ukuba umyeni wadlula bezonwabisa inkanuko. Khetha andibaweli nemisebenzi ukuba ube lingqina kumtshato ngendlela yokuba yonke ngentlawulelo wathabatha imizuzu ngaphantsi kwe mathathu. inkululeko kakhulu lomtshakazi okukruqulayo kwaye kuyakhathaza kwaye izisa iindwendwe nesithukuthezi.

Usuku pre-lomtshato, ingqina kufuneka uzilungiselele kakuhle handbag wakho kuyo yonke kwafuneka ukuba sikwazi ukulungisa nayiphi na ingxaki. Isethi standard luquka: ngomsonto (emhlophe) ngenaliti, bulavochek eziliqela, hairpins, ongenakubonakala, ikama, isipili, iitawuli (emanzi neyomileyo), ibe luthuthu yokuqaba okanye lip isilungiseleli seglosi. Olu hlobo iseti ye "likaxakeka" uya kukhawuleza kukhokelela ngubo okanye ukubunjwa lomtshakazi ukuze xa kuthe likaxakeka ezintsonkothileyo.

Ngomhla uloyiso ubungqina kumtshato lomtshakazi uyeza kuqala, ukunceda umhlobo kunye yokunxiba iinwele. uya kugxothwa Xa umyeni, ingqina ethwele intlawulelo, umzobo phezu uncedo kwezinye abahlobo lomtshakazi.

Phambi kokuba uhambo ukuya kunobhala, ingqina kufuneka ikhangelwe, azizaliswanga olityelweyo ngokukhawuleza ukuba honeymooners yokundwendwela, nemisesane lomtshato, champagne, iiglasi kunye nezinye izinto ezincinci. Kwaye emva kokuphela inkqubo yobhaliso, xa zonke iindwendwe ziya lokubulisa sibini, amangqina kufuneka ube ukulungele ukunceda ixesha lomtshakazi ukuba "ukulahla" yeentyatyambo apho aya kukunika Siyavuyisana.

Xa isibini ushiye igumbi, zidla ndihlanjwe ezinamagqabi rose, epha kunye imali. Esi senzo kufuneka kwakhona ukulungiselela amangqina kwangaphambili ngokuhambisa iindwendwe izixhaso kunye "bakha" kuzo ukwenzela ukuba zenze kwindlela. Kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuba iindwendwe ezifuna ukuba ukuphosa iintyatyambo iintyatyambo phezulu kunye eziinkozo kunye neelekese - phantsi ezinyaweni abaselula.

Akuyomfuneko ukuba uphumle ubungqina ngexesha zesidlo. Kufuneka aqinisekise ukuba zonke iindwendwe babekwa ngokwetafile, ngokunjalo, ukunceda lo mtshakazi ukuba amkele izipho, amalungiselelo indawo apho umntu ukubeka okwethutyana phantsi izipho zabo zomtshato.

Kakade ke, kuya kufuneka uzilungiselele halala kwi kumtshato yobungqina, ukuze nibe nokusulungeka, nobubele kunye yokuqala. Kunyanzelekile kunye namangqina abathatha inxaxheba kukhuphiswano ezahlukeneyo nemidlalo, leyo Ihlela toastmaster. Aqunte imisebenzi amangqina kuphela emva kokuba onke kwimibhiyozo yamsitho.

In ephithizelayo pre-kumtshato yobungqina kufuneka ufumane ixesha lokulungiselela baziqwebela isinxibo endilisekileyo. Isinxibo (okanye okufanayo) kufuneka ibe kunokuba oluhle, kodwa akukho tyala musa ukufuna ukuba akhuphisane toilet umtshakazi lowo.