Umngani weqiniso

Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba umhlobo othembekileyo ngaphezu nantoni na. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bathi abahlobo akukho mfuneko ngenxa yokuba omthandayo. Kodwa ke, enyanisweni, ngokuba ozithandayo okanye ozithandayo thina, nathi, ube ngumhlobo, ngoko akukho namnye kufuphi nabo. umhlobo othembekileyo ungaze kumaxesha anzima, wayeya ndiyaqonda ngawe kufuneka wobubuyisela ngeli xesha ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, le ngxaki idla kukuba basoloko abahlobo ngendlela abasemzini, nto leyo kwixesha elithile lobomi okuthile. Ubuhlobo - kufuneka ibe ubomi, kungekhona okwethutyana.

Indlela uvuyo kakhulu ukusinika abahlobo ukuba ukuxhasa nokunceda ngamaxesha myoli prisutstviem.Cheloveku wabo rhoqo ungathanda idealize indawo yazo, ukuba kubona umhlobo abantu abangengabo kakhulu nayo. Kwaye ngoko ke enzima namava ukungcatshwa ngakwicala abo bamkelwa emphefumlweni. Nangona abantu bathi umhlobo othembekileyo akuthethi kumngcatsha, thina le nto kakhulu uyavuma. Abahlobo aba abantu kakhulu, nazo zonke izinto zayo kunye neengxaki. Kwaye kwizalathisi engundoqo inyaniso ubuhlobo - ukukwazi ukuxolela, nokuba emva kweminyaka emininzi.

Kanye kubaluleke kangakanani inkxaso enye kwenye ngamaxesha anzima wabhala, ababhali abaninzi kunye iimbongi, ethetha kumxholo ewolo, umhlobo ezintle, njl .. Kodwa ke umzekeliso inomdla umbhali omkhulu Oscar Wilde kaThixo "esingelwe Umhlobo" .Pritcha luqala nesibakala sokuba amaGrike akumgangatho ophezulu eyonwabisayo waqalisa ukuthetha ngayo ubuhlobo. Ngoko ke, lo idada, i Rat Water and Linnet ndithi wangcatshwa ngumhlobo. Ke wona umlomo wabangendawo yokugqibela iWilde ethumela ibali lakhe. Kudala-dala kwakukho wahlala uhlobo umfana ogama Hans. Uninzi konke wayemthanda emyezweni wakhe omncinane ngeentyatyambo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, indoda elungileyo onjalo ube nabahlobo abaninzi. Noko ke, oko ingqalelo i-Big Miller ekufuphi. Nangona yokuba waye esisityebi kunene, ubuhlobo lakhe kukuba lonke ixesha ukha emyezweni Hans isipha enkulu iintyatyambo, abuthele iziqhamo ngakumbi aye ekhaya. Kwaye ke wachaza ukuba oku konke zokugaya ukuba abahlobo bokwenene kufuneka Wababela bonke. Noko ke, yena swi pfuna Hans, ndize kumbona engqeleni ebusika wamema Hans ekhayeni lakhe, ukuba ubuhlobo babo kuye hayi ubunzima ngenxa umona uhlobo umfanyana amahlwempu. weza Spring, Miller wagqiba ukuya Hans ukuba iintyatyambo. umhlobo esingelwe Hans wanika Miller yonke esisengobozini iintyatyambo, kodwa wayeza bathengise ngazo, akubuyise ikiriva wam, ngenxa yokuba ebusika, waba tight, yaye akakunyamekela oko. Rich Miller wathi amphe ikiriva yakhe eyaphukileyo, leyo Hans ngovuyo uza ukulungisa, kuba utya ibhodi entsha kraca. Nangona kunjalo, i "abathembekileyo" Miller wamcela ukuba ukulungisa kophahla lwakhe le bhodi. UHans wavuma, waza waqalisa ukwenza izicelo ngakumbi nangakumbi, kwaye umsebenzi awawenzela alahlele egadini yakhe. Decoupling sisondele kakhulu. umntwana Miller kaThixo wayesifa, waza wacela uHans ukuya kugqirha, nangona uqhwithela ezoyikekayo. Kwaye Ndandibuhlungu nkqu isibane, kuba itakane ungakwazi ukwahlukana naye; waza ngokupheleleyo entsha. NoHans, nangona imozulu embi, kodwa wayenza kugqirha, kodwa wafa kwindlela umva. Emngcwabeni lusizi umntu elihlwempu zonke ngenxa yokuba okulungileyo kakhulu kwaye yonke wayeyoliswa kakhulu ngaye. Kodwa ngakumbi buhlungu Miller, ngokuba kwaba Hans ngumntu osondeleyo ehlabathini, waba umgangatho umhlobo esiya ukumnika ikiriva.

Tale-mzekeliso iWilde ayikwazanga ukuba beze nayiphi na indlela ngumxholo kweli nqaku. Kufuneka ukwazi ukwahlula abahlobo bokwenene kwabo phantsi owazenza nakwiyiphi kwaye uyakonwabela ububele. Ke aba bantu, ngelishwa, liya lisiba ngakumbi nangakumbi. Abantu bayalibala ukuba kwihlabathi, kodwa iimfuno zabo, kukho kwakhona ubuhlobo, uthando, ukubuya. Ngapha koko, abo bakwaziyo ukubona zonke iimpawu ngasentla kubizwa ngokuba abahlobo bokwenene.