Wenza njani amantombazane ukufikisa?

Xa intombazana evela ledada elibi iba nenkuku yamanzi? Khumbula ukuba yenzeka kaninzi kangakanani, ekuqaleni kwaba nzima, oko ndandihlekwa esikolweni, waza waqalisa iinguqu. Kwaye ekupheleni yesikolo ntombazana aphezulu iba okweqanda. Kutheni le nto isenzeka? A "fault" kuyo yonke (nakuba ayilo tyala, kodwa kunoko a merit) yi ukufikisa emantombazaneni.

Abazali kufuneka uyazi ukuba oko kusenzeka ngesiquphe konyaka okanye emibini. Ngokutsho iingcali, ukufikisa amantombazana Wasolula isithuba seminyaka 8-10 waza wagqitywa ngokusisigxina.

Isigaba sokuqala - kwiminyaka 7-8. Hayi, ukufikisa amantombazana kwixesha lokuqala ayibonakali emehlweni ezibangela uqala ukusebenza kancinci. Utshintsho kwenzeka nto ngaphandle kunokuba kakuhle ngaphakathi. Iqala ekhula isibeleko, amaqanda, kodwa phambi kokuba imbonakalo neempawu zesini zasesekondari, Kakade ke, kude.

Ngeli xesha, kubalulekile inguqu ngokwasengqondweni, kunokuba emzimbeni. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukulungiselela intombazana indima yakhe elizayo - indima ye-lady esobukhomokazi, yaye, mhlawumbi, unina entsapho. Kakade ke, loo yoqeqesho ukuba kuqhutywa yi intetho yindinisa uphuhliso ngesondo kunye nendima yabafazi eluntwini. Kubalulekile ukuba wenze ngokusebenzisa umdlalo, oko kukuthi, ngendlela playful. Funda Fairy Iintsomi intombi kwaye iphupha lakhe, ukuze ngokunxulumana inkosazana, okanye ukukhuthaza umdla wakhe kubomi sikanina, ezifana ukukhethwa isinxibo, izihlangu, zokuthambisa. Amantombazana, nawe, unako ukuthenga zokuthambisa. Kodwa, Kakade, abantwana ezizodwa. Into efana "Little nentsomi" andiswa ngomlebe isilungiseleli seglosi. Oko kukuthi, kuyimfuneko ukuba kungafundiswa ezingqondweni kukho iimpawu intwazana indima yesini.

Ithuba elandelayo, nezibonakalisa amantombazana ukufikisa ziqala eneminyaka engama-10. ngqo ngakumbi ngelo ubudala, yaye uyaqhubeka ukuya kwiminyaka 12-13. Yeyona kade, kodwa utshintsha kodwa imbonakalo. Qala ukwandisa kancinane umhlaza webele. Nokuba kubonakala ngathi nje iindumbisa lula, eseyiphantse sikakrebe emehlweni kodwa ekhoyo. Ukwandisa kunye kwiLibia, ukutshintsha iihomoni. Kodwa musani kuvela iinwele zikawonke wonke kunye amakhwapha. Kodwa mbile amantombazana kule zeephiriyodi ngokusondeleyo ezinxulumene nokukhula. amathambo ezingenangqondo kunye ngokungenamlinganiselo ikhula. Ngaphezu koko, isantya ezahlukeneyo yale nkqubo. Kuqala kwinto zonke, lukhule amalungu kunye namathambo ebusweni uze -tulovische. Kwenzeka ntoni ngenxa yoko? Girl uba ezifanayo unodoli emboxo angenzi ngathi. Ngenxa yoko ibinzana malunga eli dada libi. Ukongeza, isikhumba uba kutyetyiswa ngenxa yotshintsho kumanqanaba hormone. Isikhumba engakhuli ngokukhawuleza njengoko imilenze, ke ngoko, ukunciphisa amathuba neentanda ulusu kunye namanqaku ukuzolula, inxaxheba uqala ukusebenza amadlala sebaceous, benza kube kutyetyiswa. Kwelinye icala - oku kuhle, kuba yonke into ecinga ukuba indalo, kodwa ngenxa yobuhle ayikhangeleki nomtsalane kakhulu. Kwiimeko ezinjalo ke kungcono ukuba ukuphatha izithambiso ulusu ezizodwa lotions ulusu elivisayo, kwaye ukuhlamba ngesepha namanzi.

Nceda uqaphele ukuba uphuhliso ngokwesondo kwabantwana - amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana - lazo. Amantombazana uya kongeza ukukhula, kunye namakhwenkwe kunye bahlale esikolweni. Kodwa iyedlula. Ekupheleni yesikolo, kunye namakhwenkwe namantombazana ahambelana, kodwa ukuba amantombazana emva koko phantse musa ukukhula, nina makhwenkwe, le nkqubo iyaqhubeka. Ngoko ke, amadoda kunabanye kwabasetyhini, kwaye xa uthelekisa baphumeleleyo emva kweminyaka 3-5, umahluko ekukhuleni sele kubonakala.

Isigaba sesithathu, leyo ubonakalise nokwanda ngokwesini amantombazana - ukusuka kwiminyaka eli-13 ukuya ku-17. Oko ngeli xesha, kuza ixesha lokuqala, amabele ikhula ngamandla kuvela iinwele zikawonke wonke kunye amakhwapha. Enyanisweni, ngeli thuba ukudalwa amantombazana kwaye iba nenkuku yamanzi. Bakholelwa ukuba xa eneminyaka eyi-18 sele ifikelele ukufikisa kwaye ikulungele ukuba zizale. Ngako oko imitshato vumela ukusuka kweli phakade.