Abantwana ephupheni. Kuba ngcono okanye okubi?

Abantwana - iintyatyambo zobomi. Kukhona neze umntu ongenayo uncuma, ujonge indlela abantwana romp phezu yokudlalela. Kuhle ke ukuba uphuphe abantwana? Oko bekuya kuthetha: ulonwabo okanye elizayo iingxaki? Ethetha iincwadi Help phupha.

Okokuqala, kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo koko abantwana ebuthongweni babo. iziphene Strong nokuba intle okanye, ukuba ziyafana bantu ngokoqobo okanye engaziwayo. Apha, phantse yonke into aya kukhunjulwa, banokuzuza ukutyhilwa kwalo. Inye into esiqiniseke ngayo yile: Ukuba unyana waphupha iphupha, ngoko, nokuba isini kunye nobudala kubazali, oko kuthetha kuphela ukukhathalela unyana wakhe nto engaphaya.

ukutolikwa amnandi usinika Iphupha Freud kaThixo. Uthi abantwana ephupheni - oko luphawu zangasese. Ukuba ke umntwana oyinkwenkwe, le ndoda imela amalungu obudoda, ukuba imazi - ababhinqileyo. Ubuthongo, ngubani siluthantamisile iphupha abantwana, mhlawumbi, ukuba abanelisekanga ngokwesondo ebomini yaye ecinga ukuba amalungu esini. Ukuba ubuthongo uyandohlwaya ezinye besini womntwana, oku kwakhona wayethetha loluthando self-ukuzanelisa, kwaye ukuba besini esifanayo - le olungaka ukuba ubufanasini, kwaye xa ugcina umntwana, ufuna ukwenza eyakhe.

Dream Miller, phezu koko, idibanisa abantwana ixhala ntle. Umzekelo, ukuba abantwana ephupheni entle okunempilo, liqinisekile lokuchuma, ulonwabo konke ukutyeba. Ukuba ulala ephupheni nabantwana exakekile, oko kuthetha ukuba sifumana indlela yayo kwimibandela uthando kunye noshishino. Kodwa kwanabantwana bedanduluka ephupheni - umqondiso Qiniseka yobubi, qiniseka ukuba ukundwendwela ukulala kwixesha elizayo. Umntwana ufile ephupheni yinkxalabo.

Amaxabiso kakhulu HIV kunika ukutyhilwa kwephupha esoteric kunye iphupha nokutyhilwa Tsvetkov. Ophatha yokuqala waphupha abantwana nesimo sengqondo esihle nobubele kwabanye ukulala kunye lwesibini - uxolo nenkqubela.

Kude emibi ezininzi ingafumaneka kwincwadi ephupheni ka Vanga. Ngokusekelwe kulo, oonyana ephupheni zange izinto ziya kuhamba kakuhle: abantwana badlale - iingxaki ezincinane, bakhale - ukuya kweMfazwe Yehlabathi II, abantwana abakhubazekileyo - ukuba kukho intlekele yendalo, ukudlala nabantwana - ukukhangela ngokungeyompumelelo ukuba umsebenzi. Akuqhelekanga ukuba kukhanya yindlela akuboni njengabantwana kunokubangela ezininzi unxulumano ezimbi. Oku kube ngenxa yabantwana ngokwayo Vanga (ebinazo kakhulu nzima, ukuba kunako ukwenzeka, ukuba kuthi ukuba oko), kodwa oku bexabana esinye isihloko.

Dream Ukutolikwa Deyvida Loffa ukhokela ukutyhilwa ifanelekileyo kakhulu njenge yokwenene. Ngokutsho kuDavide, abantwana ephupheni - kubonisa ubomi bethu ngokwenyani. Kunye neengcinga zethu. Akubuzwa dream utoliko kunye nabantwana iya kuxhomekeka ngokupheleleyo kwi iwonga kunye nemisebenzi yabantwana ngexesha ubuthongo. Xa ujonga ezi amaphupha avela lo mbono, kusenokuba kakhulu ngokuzithemba ukuba ukuwachaza uya kakhulu ngokusondeleyo utshatise inyaniso.

Leading phezulu, kuba kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba uninzi ukutolika amaphupha ebandakanya abantwana, lunikezelwa sphere ngokweemvakalelo, kwaye ulele ityala kuphela omnye (Dream Book Vanga) - neengxaki zehlabathi. Ngoko abo sikhwele akrotyiswe abantwana ephupheni, unako phantse nto yakuzixhalisa malunga nayo, ngaphandle kokuba le ntlekele kokusingqongileyo ukuba, ukuba zenzeke, ayikho ncam kwixa elizayo.