Ubudlelwane, Wedding
Beautiful intetho kumtshato. intetho Ukuvuma young
umcimbi Wedding iye ngokwemveli yanxulunyaniswa lokuvuyisana kunye nezipho kushada. Kwaye oku kuyinyaniso. Eneneni, ngexesha lomtshato kubo izandi mass uqeqesho, amazwi amnandi, kunye thowusti. Nakuba kunjalo, kuza umzuzu xa izibini abaselula kufuneka ukufumana waphakama etafileni, achole microphone ukubonga. Bani ukuba ziyalungiswa? It uceba elihle intetho kumtshato? Yintoni na ndithi ngeli nyathelo, uya kufunda kweli nqaku.
Kutheni na ukuba bathi kushada
Ekuhambeni babetshata abo batshatayo ukuba, njengoko bathi, ukuba impendulo yakho iindwendwe, usapho, abahlobo, nabo kunye nabo. Umcimbi kuphela benze oko baphulaphule imibuliso, kodwa isiphelo nje ukuthetha amazwi ombulelo kwabo bonke ababekho ukuba Siyavuyisana, izipho, Vuyani, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba oku kubalulekile kubo abatyelele bashiya into yonke, weza celebration. Kakade, umtshakazi nomyeni idla ukubulela abazali bam yonke inceba nothando ukuba babeke kuzo.
Ezi abasandul umtshato linokubizwa ngokuba mzuzu kakhulu ezichukumisayo namnandi. Kwaye ukuze kube amahle nethembakeleyo, kufuneka phambili ukuze ndibonise itekisi baberhabaxa kwaye, kakade, ziqukwe kule meko jikelele mibhiyozo. Imizekelo zicelo ezahlukeneyo ziya kuqwalaselwa ngezantsi.
njani ubonga?
Kukho iinketho ezininzi zokuthetha njani amazwi ombulelo ukuya iindwendwe kunye nezalamane. Umzekelo, kunokuba imibongo ezintle, yenza ezenziwe ngumntu lowo ukuba ekuqaleni ingqwalasela. Okanye ungathi iprozi, kodwa kuya kuvakala zendalo kunye ngokusuka entliziyweni. Ekuqaleni ukubukeka uguqulelo zokuvuma umbulelo, umzekelo ngohlobo ingoma. Ngelo xesha likwazi ukufeza bona 'ukutshata, kwaye imvumi zobungcali okanye imvumi.
Phakathi kwezinye izinto, intetho sihle emtshatweni nga zixhaswe zochuku amnandi ezifana idiploma eyi imbasa. Ngoxa uyakwazi ukwenza ukusebenzisa udidi funny kunye erenkini. Umzekelo: "Lo Mqulu ukwenzela ukuncedisa kwimfundo intombi yakhe," "Molteno ukuba nesibindi kwi edabini ukuze ziqwalaselwe intombi yakhe": "Isatifikethi lokuqeqesha unyana wakhe," njalo-njalo ...
Bulelani Kumnandi abazali
Ngabantu bokuqala bafanelwe nje amazwi ombulelo, kodwa isaphetha ephantsi abazali. Zenza ngawe, phakamisa, ulale ngokwaneleyo ebusuku, kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi ukuba nokuphendula yonke zihlandlo yombutho ukuba umtshato ezizayo.
Beautiful intetho emtshatweni - yindlela enkulu enkosi unyoko ngenxa yento yonke abayenzileyo. Kuyenzeka ngolu hlobo: acinge okanye ngetoaster unika umqondiso iimvumi, kwaye lomculo wayeka, ngoko ke umtshakazi nomyeni ume. Okulandelayo, intetho iqala umtshakazi: "Ngalo mhla oluphawulekayo ndingathanda ukubulela umama ukuba ngoncedo lwakhe Ndazalwa. Kuba ububele bakhe kunye nothando. Kuyinto ngenxa ngemizamo yakhe, ndiya kuma phambi kwakho namhla. Enkosi wena, sithandwa sam! "
Emva koko atyekela kwicala likayise yaye uthi: "Ngale mini Ndifuna ukunibulela, utata wam! Kuba oko zisoloko kunye nenkxaso lo mama. Kuba oko usoloko nelinabemi igxalaba babo yegorha xa luyimfuneko. Enkosi wena waqubuda! "Ngenxa yale isibheno unako ukuviwa, kwaye unina. Kumtshato wentombi okanye unyana - le yenye iingongoma eziphambili. Ngomhla nokuqulunqwa enjalo intetho kufuneka ungalibali.
Intetho kwi emsithweni; ityala kuba abazali umyeni
Emva laconic yakhe, kodwa ezaliswe ingqiqo enkulu intetho umtshakazi wavakalisa amazwi ombulelo emtshatweni abazali umyeni '- kunzima futhi lenkathazo. Ngoko ke, ngalo mhla Ndifuna ukunibulela (igama patronymic zabazali nendoda) ukulungiselela uncedo ngokukhawuleza ekusombululeni ezininzi imiba bombutho. Enkosi ngenkxaso kunye noncedo yakho ngokupheleleyo. "
Ngaphezu koko, ngokutsho umtshakazi imeko uhleli esihlalweni sakhe. Ngoku intetho ukwamkeleka kumtshato - kukukhathalela yendoda yakhe. Kungcono ninikane yokuqala kubazali bakhe, wathi: "Yintoni na Umama wakho okuthandayo noTata! Ndivuya kakhulu ukuba ndize ukuxhasa kum kule mzuzu ebalulekileyo nekulula. Enkosi ngokuba aziintanga kuwe, wafunda waza wancedisa ezinyaweni zakhe. Ngaphandle kuwe, bendiya kuba akuphumelelanga. Ubusoloko ecaleni lam, kuxhaswe kwaye ikhuselwe. Namhlanje, mna ukuba intsapho yam, endakuwisela baya kuyinyamekela umfanekiso wakho kunye ngokufana. Ndiyabulela ngokuba yonke into! "
intetho Ukwamkelwa abazali umtshakazi lowo
Emva kokuba umyeni kuya kufuneka imbeko bakhe ngabazali bakhe, kufuneka babuyele unina noyise lomtshakazi: "endimthandayo (igama patronymic yabazali)! Ngale mini sunny, mna ngovuyo ndifuna ukubulela ngenxa ngemizamo ozenzileyo ngexesha imfundo intombi yakho. Kubulela kuwe, ndadibana ke ndathandana nalo sidalwa enomtsalane (igama umtshakazi likaThixo). She - ongcono okulungileyo nayo ebomini. Enkosi ngokunceda ukuba amalungiselelo kulo mthendeleko; ngokuba uthando, inkathalo kunye nothando. mawaqubude kuwe. "
Ngawaphi amazwi ombulelo ku unina intombi yakhe uthi?
Amaninzi ukuphendula yindumiso ngokunyanisekileyo ngabazali babo ababathandayo ukwenza senzo ngokulingana. Umzekelo, oku kuba unina emtshatweni yentombi:
"Enkosi kakhulu indumiso yakho nentliziyo amagama nice! Ndiyavuya endandihlala ukubona ixesha xa intombi yam iya Mandibulele ukuba yonke into. Kakade ke, njengoko nayiphi usapho lugqityiwe kwaye ngaphandle olahlwa. Kodwa ndingathanda ukuyenza kangangoko encinane kangangoko kunokwenzeka ebomini bakho. Wonwabe yaye gcina izinto zakho. Council and love you! "
Ngawaphi amazwi ubawo wathi kunyana wakhe?
Impendulo igama elide enyanisekileyo imibulelo abantwana babo ziya kuba intetho ingenakulibaleka kumtshato unyana kayise wakhe. Ngokomzekelo, ukuze athi:
"Unyana wam oyintanda! Ndiyavuya endandihlala ukubona namhla emangalisayo. Namhlanje uba umntu losapho, yaye umntu ngonobumba omkhulu. Khumbula kwaye Kuxabise onke amacebiso ukuba yake kuwe. Makhe luncedo kuwe amava am ntle. Thina kunye nonina, yena, ndithembisa ukuxhasa ze akuncede xa nisaqala ubomi bakho ndawonye. Council nabakuthandayo! ".
athetha ngayo uyise ezizezinye wakhe kumtshato unyana wakhe: "Nyana wam! Ndiyawuncoma kule emangalisayo kuthi sonke umhla - ngemini yokuzeka lwakho. Ndininqwenelela ulonwabo olukhulu, uthando kunye nempumelelo kuyo yonke imicimbi yosapho. Vumela igcina wena nentsapho yakho nomthetheli. Usinda! "
Amazwi ombulelo abazali isonka kunye netyuwa
Ukuba iqela wedding yakho kwenzelwa bonke meko yemveli apho abazali thaca wena isonka kunye netyuwa, akuyi kufuneka ungalibali ukubulela ngenxa kuyo. Sinikezela imizekelo kule ntetho. Umtshakazi nomyeni kunye bathi: "umama wethu oyintanda, oyintanda kunye notata! Thatha igama umbulelo wethu osuka ngenxa yokuba osemqoka kuthi, thina thaca esi sonka emangalisayo. Le womgubo ocoliweyo, siye wakha ndingcamle kunye. thembisa ukuba bethandana kwaye ungaze uyilibale ngawe, usapho lwethu! "
Enye intetho sihle kumtshato ngothando abo batshatayo 'kubazali bethu! Me kunye nomfazi wam ndikubulele nemfudumalo othe wasinika esi sonka yomtshato. thembisa ukuba sokuthanda nokuxabisa omnye komnye, kanye njengoko siyithe thaca phambi kwethu esi sipho. Siyathemba ukuba akuyi kuwushiya ngamaxesha anzima kwaye kuya kusoloko kunye nathi. "
Ukubulela intetho evela iindwendwe entsha
Umbulelo okhethekileyo uya ku esi sibini zinyanzelekile ukuxelela iindwendwe zakhe, yena weza kwavuyiswana waza wabanika ezininzi izipho. Umzekelo intetho ukwamkelwa: "iindwendwe wethu othandekayo! Sivuya kakhulu ukuba weza emtshatweni wethu. Siyabulela ngokuba amazwi enhle lokuhlonipha amahle olunentsingiselo, izipho kunye nezinye nokwenzelelela. Sivuyile futhi bakuhloniphe! Enkosi nto unayo! "
Nantsi enye batshatayo umbuzo kumtshato, wathetha abamenyiweyo:
"Samkela zonke iindwendwe bahlanganisana apha. Thina holide namhlanje - a ngomhla womtshato elimisiweyo. Ngeli xesha, sifuna ukuxelela kubulela kakhulu oko ungakucelanga ulibele ngathi, akukho ndawo ntoni, bona bevuyisana, wanika kobuqhetseba bamazwi nice nobubele kuwe. Umbulelo okhethekileyo Ndingathanda ukuba bathi abo bantu abathatha ngqo kuyilo nokucwangciswa emtshatweni. Ngaphandle kwazo bekuya zange ajike hlula yethu. Enkosi nonke! "
Impendulo yenye neendwendwe congratulation
Impendulo amazwi olumnandi ebulela ukutshata, kuya kuxoxwa ngazo njengondwendwe emtshatweni. Umzekelo, kusenokuba ugxa okanye iqela iqabane. Uthi: "Ndiyabulela kuwe ngenxa amagama emnandi ephuma isibini emangalisayo. Ndiyazi ukuba unalo ixesha elide kakhulu, phantse ukususela ebuntwaneni. Ubusoloko abantu emangalisayo: uxabiso nentlonelo ngenxa amadoda awo amakhulu, zifanelekile yaye uthembekile, wabelane zakutshanje kunye nabahlobo babo, uzukile nabantwana babo ababathandayo. Siyavuyisana nawe umtshato wenu. Sinqwenela ukuba uhlale indlela, yaye ukutshintshela lonke ulwazi lwabo nezakhono abantwana bakho nabazukulwana. "
Ngawaphi amagama ukuze ukhethe wedding umhlobo?
Noko ke, kusenokunyanzeleka ukuba umshado na wena kunye nomhlobo wakho. Masithi zimenyiwe ukuba zize kwesi siganeko emangalisayo, yaye ngaxa lithile, siyavuyisana kwenzeka ukuba yayinguwe kwafuneka ukuba ukupheka intetho yokuvuyisana kumtshato lomhlobo. Ngoko ke, ungakwazi besithi: "Aba (igama umyeni) kunye sweet (igama umtshakazi likaThixo)! Ndiyavuya mna ndafumana emtshatweni wakho. Le yimini elimangalisayo nobabini, leyo ndifuna sininqwenelela ulonwabo, impumelelo, umthombo obungapheliyo uthando, uvuyo, kunye nempumelelo. "
Into eyenzeka kweli bali: Amazwi lombulelo - kuyinto ngaphandle apho umntu akakwazi ukwenza nayiphi yamsitho. intetho Ukwamkelwa uya kukuvuyela ukuva abantu abadala kunye nabantwana. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - bacebe kakuhle ngendima yenu, ukuba alungiselele ukuba umhlobo, intombi lomtshato, kwakunye ukuthatha unonophelo ezimnandi abazali, izalamane kunye neendwendwe.
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