Cacisa ukuba yintoni into! amaphupha imela - yintoni ntoni oko?

Nesitshetshe ekuqondeni uninzi lwethu - yeyona nto eqhelekileyo yesifundo zasekhitshini ingaphakathi. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye ngayo nenye (unofficial) isihloko - luphawu lokubulala, oko intsimbi ebandayo. Inqaku lethu enikelwe intsingiselo yamaphupha. Kutheni liphupha ngemela kwaye kufuneka ibe yintoni? Siyazi ngoko nangoko!

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Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa Ngokwengcamango ezaziwa ngemela ekhitshini inxulunyaniswa ndlongo, olukumgangatho kakhulu kakhulu ekusonjululweni yeemfazwe, iingxwabangxwaba, imilo. Ngelo xesha nye isetyenziswa izanuse noosiyazi kwizithethe zabo gobe. Ngokubanzi amaphupho apho ubona nezitshetshe fanekisela iziganeko kunokuba udakumbile elizayo. Ngokufutshane, banalo kwingqikelelo elibi kakhulu. Ntoni? Makhe sibone ukuba kwenzeke!

Kwafuneka imela! Kutheni?

Imela amaphupho ezahlukeneyo zamatyala. Noko ke, ngokutsho Gustav Phupha Ukutolikwa Miller, woyika amaphupha ezinjalo kuba zililize ekungekho nzuzo ngayo. Nayiphi na imeko ukuba baqikelele ukuba zihlala ixesha elide kakhulu. Ngokukodwa, Miller utolike eli phupha njengoko intwasahlobo ilahleko, ingxabano ngokwahlukana elizayo. Ukongeza, i-nzulu sesinye abambalwa kwincwadi yakhe iphupha waphendula umbuzo malunga ngumhlwa iphupha imela okanye zinxitywa nge ubudala! Impendulo kukuba uthetha malunga ilahleko kukuba abahlobo, ezimbi usapho kunye nethemba ezilahlekileyo okanye ukuba unomdla ngeziphumo iziganeko.

Lidla abantu nifune Dreams ezahlukeneyo Ulwazi malunga yintoni amaphupha imela eyaphukileyo. Sinokubanceda ufumanise malunga naloo nto, ngoko musa ukuchitha ixesha lakho ukukhangela incwadi phupha. Oku kubonisa ukuba phambi maqhinga abanenzondo ezayo iintshukumo anibufanele kwenu. Wena ngokungxamisekileyo kufuneka ukuba basebenze kuyo zabo self-ukuphucuka. Phela, uSigmund Freud unika eli phupha utoliko: kukho imiqobo enzima uthando entsha ukuthandana. Kukho ingozi yokuba ukuziphatha wakho unako konke ukuya ngaphaya koko kuvumelekile. Musa onyhwalaza ngokwakho ukuba ahlale umsulwa. Elona xesha ucinge kwakhona!

Yintoni iphupha ukubulala ngemela?

Oku mhlawumbi ngomnye amaphupha zixhaphakileyo yabantu abadala. Xa nokutyhilwa kwalo jikelele, yena ucebisa ukuba anyamekele impilo yabo, kwakunye bahlole ngakumbi ebantwini indlela ngeenxa zonke kuwe. Ukuba wenza ukubulala umntu ngemela - ulungele imfazwe ezinkulu utshaba ebomini! Uya kuba nako ukubonisa zonke iimpawu zomntu, ngokunjalo ukubeka wonke "ezishelfini".

Ukuba iphupho abaxhokrozwe ngemela ngasemva - silumke ngokwenyani. Okulandelayo kuwe umntu indelelo yaye ukhohlakele, Yayizimele phantsi owazenza yokuziphatha kunye nothando. Kufuneka bathethe nabani malunga iingcinga, iimvakalelo, amava, kunye nemisebenzi yabo ezicwangcisiweyo.

Ucinga ntoni, yintoni imela iphupha, wahlatywa akunjalo na, akunjalo? Yinto elula! Yeyona nto eqhelekileyo isilumkiso: kwakho ezininzi iintshaba. Qaphela. Kakade ke, ukuba asikulungiseleli ukukubulala, kodwa uya kakubi ubomi kuluhlu lwabantu abaziwa ngokungahlawuli. Enye utoliko zilandelayo: iya kuba ngumhlobo wakho, esasaza ngawe okanye intlebendwane phakathi ezi ntshaba. Nangona ngokwenene yonke into zisiba ngcono: mhlawumbi yinto nje intlebendwane inobutshijolo kwelinye icala nangokobukhwele bakho.