Fumana umsi: uphawu. Yintoni endiyilindele ukuba ndiyifumele iqela ehlathini?

Akusiyo imfihlo ukuba ummese ungomnye wamathuluzi endala kunazo zonke ezenziwe ngumntu. Namhlanje udlala indima yeso sixhobo esibaluleke kakhulu sekhaya kunye neyunithi eyingozi yensimbi ebandayo, abaninzi abantu baphatha le ngongoma. Kwaye xa bebona esitrato, bazama ukujikeleza: abantu bayesaba ukuba ukufunyanwa akuthembisi nto enhle. Kule nqaku siza kuzama ukuphendula umbuzo othi: "Kuthekani ukuba ndifumene ummese?". Kwakhona, iimpawu ezisisiseko ezinxulumene nayo ziya kuqwalaselwa.

Iimpawu zomthi

Akuzona zonke izinto ezithintekayo eziphathekayo. Kubonakala ngathi, yintoni na ingozi enokuthi i-penknife encinci, ifaneleke kuphela ekuloleni amapensele, ukususa i-chewing gum kwiintsikelelo zodwa, okanye ukugxotha izikhonkwane eziqinileyo? Yintoni esinokuyithetha ngesixhobo esilungiselelwe ukusika isonka, okanye malunga nento leyo inkosi isebenzisa ngayo, ngokuphambathisa izinto ezibonakalayo ezikhuni? Ingozi ekhoyo! Ukuqhubeka okulungileyo - kungenjalo. Ookhokho bethu bakuqonda oku, basebenzisa isicu njengento enamandla. Ngokomzekelo, wabekwa ebusaneni ngaphambi kokuba ubhaptizwe: nabani na ongakhange abukeke kakuhle kwiqabane liza kukhawuleza. Isixhobo sasihlanganiswe eludongeni lweenkomo ukukhusela imfuyo kwizifo, kwaye abafazi abakhulelweyo bawufihla phantsi komqubo, becinga ukuba unokubakhusela ebusuku ebusuku kwimpembelelo yamandla emidemoni.

Ngexesha elinye, ezinye iimvakalelo zavela kumntu, ukuba ingayifumana isela. Umqondiso uthe kungcono ukuba ungayithathi ngesandla, kuba awaziwa ngubani le nto eyayikuyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba inkosi yakhe ingumbulali owabulala abangenacala, ngoko amandla angenayo ngokusebenzisa isibhamu aya kutshintshwa kumntu owamfumene. Ookhokho bethu bayazi apho bafumana khona ummese. Baqiniseke ukuba ukufumana okunjalo, kungeniswa endlwini, kuzisa iingxaki kunye neengxaki, ukugula kunye nephupha elibi ekhaya.

Uphi umsi?

Zama ukuchazela imiqondiso enxulumene nomsi, qwa lasela indawo apho ufumene khona. Ngokuqhelekileyo, indawo ezinjalo ziyimimandla kunye neebhanki zomlambo, apho amakhowa angayilahla khona. Kule meko, ukufumana kufaka iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeengxaki: ukulahleka kwemali, ukuxabana, ukuhlukana, ukugula. Ngelinye igama, iphakheji epheleleyo "zonke iintlobo zobomi." Enye into enokuqinisekileyo: iingxaki emva kwakho aziyi kutshabalalisa ukuba awukuthinteli umtya. Ubuncinane, oku kuboniswa ngumqondiso. Ngoko, emva kokubona into enjalo, baleka kuloo ndawo ngokukhawuleza.

Kubi kakhulu ukufumana umntu omnye ummese kungekhona kwindalo okanye izitrato zesixeko, kodwa kwikhaya lakho: emva kwekhabethe, phantsi kwetafile yecala lokulala, kunye nokunye okunjalo. Inokwenzeka ukuba, yaphonswa kuwe, emva kokubangela ukuba i-spoilage into ethile ebukhali. Kule meko, kufuneka usebenze ngokufanelekileyo: izifo zengqondo zikwacebisa ukuba ugobe ngokucokisekileyo ummese kwiphakethi, ngaphandle kokuchukumisa ngezandla zakho, uze ungcwatye kude nekhaya. Ukubuya, hlamba izandla zakho ngamanzi angcwele, ufafaze zonke i-nook kunye nekhranny yezindlu, izindonga kunye nomgangatho. Ukongezelela, khanyisa ikhandlela lecawa uze uhambe nayo ngamagumbi. Yeka kuphela kwezo ndawo apho i-wick iqalisa "i-hers" - mawushise yonke imimoya emibi ephuma endlwini yakho.

Fumana kwihlathi

Ukuba umntu unobungqineli, ngoko nawuphi na uphawu olungathathwa ngaphandle kwesilinganiselo. Fumana ummese ehlathini, umzekelo, uphakamisela ukulahlekelwa yinto ebalulekileyo kuwe, ukuhlukana nomthandayo. Kunzima kakhulu ukuba ufumene umxholo. Kule meko, unokulahlekelwa yindlu yakho - oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa ukuba iqela lilokhu. Ukongeza, into eyinqumayo efumaneka ehlathini ihlala ikunika iingxaki zendalo ehlukile. Kungaba ubunzima bezemali, ukungavumelani nabalingane, ukusetyenziswa kwesifo esingapheliyo njalo njalo.

Omdala okanye omtsha?

Ngendlela, imeko yezinto ezifunyenweyo ibaluleke kakhulu. Ngoko, umkhwa omtsha nelobukhali ngumqondiso wezilingo ezinzima eziza kudibana ngokukhawuleza endleleni yomntu. I-arsenal efunyenwe ibonakala iyilumkisa: khangela, ungazicima! Ngelo xesha, i-blade ephukile ibonisa ukuba izicwangciso ozibethembayo zizithemba ngokukhawuleza. Umntwana akayi kulungiswa ukuba abe yinene. Ukuba igazi linokugquma - esi sisilumkiso sokuhlukana kumthande wakho. Kwaye akuyi kwenzeka kwinqanaba lakho, kukunyanzelisa ukuba uphalaze iinyembezi ezininzi.

Ngaba kulungile ukuba ukhethe?

Omnye uloyiko lokufumana into eyingozi kwindlela yakhe, kwaye omnye umntu uzama ukufumana isela - uphawu aluyikwesabisi. Kungenzeka ukuba umntu onjalo ungumqokeleli wezibhamu zasendulo. Kwaye ukukhangela i-arsenal yamandulo yindlela yobomi bomntu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umntu oqhelekileyo obona umkhwa endleleni, kungcono ukudlula. Kulula ukwenza ukuba ukufumana kulula, kudala okanye kuphulwe. Kwaye kufuneka uyenze ntoni, xa ubona ngeso lesiso ukuba ufumene into eyimfuneko yamandulo? Ukuze uzikhusele kumandla angalunganga kumnini wangaphambili, qwalasela iingcebiso ezixhamlayo.

Ukuba ufuna ukuhamba ...

Fumana i-knife-into embi. Ngoko ke, ukufuna ukuthatha i-arsenal ekhaya lakho, yenza amasiko ambalwa alula: baya kukukhusela kwimpembelelo engafanelekanga. Okokuqala, uthabathe umsikazi emhlabathini, uqoqe imali leyo kwindawo ayelele kuyo. Ngaloo ndlela, ugqiba ukujongana nemimoya emnyama, ukuthenga into oyifunayo. Emva koko, uqala ubomi obutsha ezandleni zakho, ulahlekelwe yi-aura yakhe yangaphambili. Kwezinye iintlanga, lo mkhosi awuyikucoca kuphela umsi, kodwa uyaguqulela into into evuyisayo - into eyayizondla inhlanhla. Iphupha lomnini walo mkhuhlane obandayo lizaliseka ngokuqinisekileyo, kwaye ithemba liza kuzaliseka.

Iyona nkxalabo kwaye inkolelo-zincwadi inikwe enye indlela yokuyicombulula ingxaki - funda umthandazo othi "uBawo wethu" ngaphezu kwezinto ezifunyenweyo, ufefe ngamanzi angcwele uze uphendule iingelosi, uzicele ukuba zikhusele emandleni amnyama. Ukongezelela, ukucocekisa into engendawo yamandla, inganciphisa emlanjeni ngoku kunye nokukhawuleza kwangoku okanye entwasahlobo. Bathi amanzi asusa ngokupheleleyo ukungabikho komsebenzi.

Ixabiso lokulahleka

Ukulahlekelwa iteksi elincinci okanye elikhulu nalo libi. Kwindoda, ukunyamalala kwalo mqondiso kukubonakalisa ingozi ebomini bakhe. Okukhethwa ngokukhethekileyo yiyo nkolelo kumazwe aseScandinavia, ukusuka apho kwafika kumazwe aseRashiya. IiVikings ezinzulu, kwaye emva kwazo iinkosana zaseMoscow, zayesaba lo mqondiso njengomlilo. Kwiintsuku ezindala, ubukho naziphi na izixhobo ezikufutshane ubomi obuqinisekisiwe kumnini wayo. Xa yaphela, iqhawe lixhala: akukho nto ingamkhusela. Ngoko ke, nanamhlanje, ukulahlekelwa ngumkhwa womntu kuyisixwayiso sengozi esondeleyo. Ngokumalunga nabafazi, ukulahleka okunjalo kubonakalisa iingxaki zeentsapho kunye neengxaki zempilo.

Silinganise impembelelo yecala

Kwaye ekugqibeleni ndiyakuthanda ukukuxelela ukuba wenzeni ukuba ufumana umkhwa obukhali endlwini, uqiniseke ukuba ubhedu. Ungakwazi ukuthobela umonakalo ngezenzo ezilula:

• Gubhoza umzimba ngetyuwa uze uhlanza ngamanzi afudumele, ngelixa ucinga ukuba amandla amandla ahamba njani kunye nokuhamba.
• Phuma ehlahleni, ubeke iimpahla ezicocekileyo. Hlanganisa zakho iinwele.
• Vula zonke iifestile ezivulekileyo kwaye uvule umlilo kwi-St John's wort.
• Qala ukucoca: kuqala usula zonke izibuko ngendlela ehamba ngayo, uhlambe umgangatho ngamanzi apho ulwandle lutyuwa luchithwa khona.
• Khanyisa ikhandlela ngokuyidlulisela emnyango wangaphambili: ukusuka kwesokudla ukuya kwesobunxele. Okokuqala cwangcisa umgca kwinqanaba lemehlo, ngoko-kwindawo yokukhiya kunye nesibambo. Hamba ngekhandlela zonke iikona zekhaya.
• Geza izandla zakho kwaye ungacingi ngokubi kwakhona. Emva kwakho konke, njengoko uyazi, iingcamango ezimbi zibonakala.

Njengoko sele uqondayo, ezinye iingxaki zilindele umntu ukuba "unethamsanqa" ukufumana ummese: lo mqondiso awubi. Ngoko ke, xa ubona into esitalatweni, bhetele uhambe. Ukuba awukholelwa kumatshini, unokukhusela ngokukhuselekileyo umpu. Kuphela ukungaqiniseki kukukusindisa kwimpembelelo yamandla omnyama.