Indlela izilumle umntwana ekuguleni: amacebiso aluncedo

Ingcamango yanamhlanje wemfundo lubonisa abazali zoqhagamshelwano kakhulu olusenyongweni kunye usana. Ukunxiba ngendlela ngenkwitshi ergoryukzake, breastfeeds kwimfuno kunye nokulala kunye nomntwana ebhedini enye kube kuxhomekeke kwebala, isingqi kunye amanyathelo kwentliziyo abadala. Kungekudala kuza ixesha apho umntwana kube nzima emzimbeni ukuba babekho. Ufuna uncedo ukuze uyeke ngumkhwa ingalala ezingalweni umama okanye utata, kodwa njani? Uyilumle umntwana ekuguleni isindululo unokuba nayiphi na ubudala, eyona nto ukuba oku kuya kufuna - umonde kunye guquki.

sezifo Eminent kunye wengqondo zenkulungwane lokugqibela, uGqr Bendzhamin Spok, umsebenzi wakhe kubonisa le ndlela ilandelayo izilumle abantwana silale ezingalweni zakhe; nje ezingangeniyo yosana apho umntwana uzama ukuba balale. Abazali abaye basebenzisa ngempumelelo le ezilula kunye namaqhinga nzima unit. Uninzi lwabantu abaqhelekileyo engenako ukumelana umntwana ekhala ngabomvu indlwana ngaphezu kwemizuzu emihlanu.

Indlela izilumle umntwana ekuguleni, hayi ukuzenzakalisa yena ingqondo yakhe ukuhlola umonde abamelwane isiqingatha seyure "ikonsathi"? Kwabo balindele nje kongezwe sengcebiso kakhulu elula: musa ukujinga. Ukuyidla sindululo ukugula umntwana kwiimeko ezininzi lula ukulala indlwana. Kakade ke, ukuba epheleleyo, eyomileyo kwaye zisempilweni.

Indlela ukuba usana ukulala? Ngaphandle gungqa ukulala abantwana lunokwenzeka kwaye bhetele, kuba abanye oogqirha babantwana musa bathandabuze ukuba behlunguzela kuyingozi ubuchopho wosana olo. ndayibeka nje umntwana kulala, bayigubungele ngengubo yaye le pacifier (ukuba iyadika). Cula ingoma, amtyhaphaza ukukhanya okuqaqambileyo, eshiya nightlight efakiwe. Oluvunjululweyo, ngokuba alunakuzola kunye poguliv grudnichok encinane ubuthongo.

Iingxaki ziqala xa kwiimvuthuluka kwesisu okanye ezikhoyo kuba zisaqala. Yena akayi abalali, ngelizwi esilusizi, ukuvuka ebusuku, yaye lifuna inxaxheba. Kwaye xa ixesha enzima phezu, abazali kwakhona Umbuzo ngulo: izilumle njani umntwana ekuguleni motion. Ngethamsanqa, le ndlela kwanokulubeka ebhedini kukho enye: Ukulala kunye nomama wakhe. Esililini omnye unina wosana iwela belele ngokukhawuleza, ingakumbi ukuba amnike ibele okanye nje abeke esiswini wakhe dlalisa elele. Kubalulekile ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba silale ubusuku bonke. Qiniseka ukuba bayeke ibe bezalwa kamsinya nje iwela ubuthongo. Kungenjalo uyilumle ke ukuba ingalali kunye nabazali babo.

Xa umntwana omdala ngaphezu konyaka omnye, uyakwazi ukuza izithethe lokulala. Funda ibali lakho olithandayo elilula, bacule lullaby. Abanye abantwana ezifana projektha ukukhanya ebusuku okanye ukuhamba-elektroniki ukuba iprojekthi umfanekiso loonobumba fun kwi Isilingi iindonga. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezi zokudlala baxhotyiswa iimpawu umculo.

Xa abantwana abadala ngaphezu kweenyanga ezintandathu kukho izinto zokudlala abazithandayo. Beka enye teddy ebhedini kunye nomntwana wakho, nokuba uthe inxulunyaniswa bubuthongo.

Enye iqhekeza iingcebiso "izilumle njani umntwana ekuguleni" - ukuzama kuye ukuba okuvelayo ngaphezulu ngemini. Ukuhamba, imidlalo esebenzayo, ukuhlamba elide sokuhlambela kunye zokudlala - kwaye sele toddler udiniwe t amehlo, elalimi intloko kwi into ethambileyo (isofa, nomluko okanye ibhere ozithandayo). Kubalulekile ukuba ukuphoswa ngalo mzuzu, uhlale phantsi ecaleni kwakhe ndaza ndaqalisa ngobunono nangesandla intloko. Le ndlela enemisebenzi ukuba asindise abazali abaninzi abantwana abadala-up of gungqa ezingalweni zakhe.

massage Gentle zemilenze kwaye emva kokuba balale obuzolileyo umama okanye ilizwi kabawo, ukucula into sleepy, nceda umntwana wakho ngaphandle iingxaki ukungena ebukumkanini Morpheus.

Enye ingxaki - ukuba usana kusetyenziswa ukulala emini kuphela isitulo esinamavili. Ikakhulukazi ebusika, xa umahluko komoya ukubanda olufudumeleyo kunye nemozulu welifu enyanzela amehlo zosana ivaliwe ngoko nangoko xa ungena esitratweni. Aba bantwana kunzima ukubeka ukulala emini ekhaya, yaye emva sokuthatha - ithuba elikhulu ukuba umama ukuba ixesha lokuba enze into zijikeleze indlu. Umbuzo indlela izilumle umntwana buyo kukunyikimiswa, impendulo ilula: uhambo, xa usana iyasebenza siphaphile. Kwaye ngoko ke ukuhamba akuyi iyihlanganise bubuthongo. Kakade ke, kufuneka ubeke isitulo esinamavili kwindawo ehleli kwaye musa sukela ukubeka umntwana nkqo, kanye njengoko yena Uyazamla. Bonisa umntwana wakho ukuba ukudlala nabanye abantwana, njengoko kukumagobo akhethe nemiqhathane, ewe nantoni na, ukuze ugcine ingqalelo yakhe yaye ungavumeli kuwa zibe kwimeko komqamelo.