Kumyk wedding - iseti amasiko nezithethe

Kumyk lomtshato, njengazo zonke imibhiyozo ezizwe Mpuma, iindwendwe ezahlukeneyo, ukudanisa fun nokucula. Ngomhla isidlo ukumenywa kuzo zonke belali. Noko ke, asiyiyo phawu kuphela umtshato, ephawulekayo kakhulu ngakumbi kukuba imibhiyozo zomtshato ezizodwa engenziwa iinyanga ezimbalwa emva kokuba umkhosi elililo.

Umyeni elizayo ishiya indlu kayise bahlala ixesha elithile abahlobo abasondeleyo usapho iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba batshate. Sami Kumyk womtshato luqala indlela ekulungiselelwa ngayo ukutya, ikhaya uhombiso umyeni abazali '(oko kukuthi kwindawo engundoqo ye msitho kwenzeka kuyo). Ngeli xesha iindwendwe kuza, bezise zonke iindidi zeziphiwo ngenxa abaselula. Emva koko yoyigodusa ngokombhinqo womtshakazi. Wangena kwikhaya intombazana eselula liyasuswa isikhafu entloko. Eli siko into efana kakhulu yomsitho womtshato, "kususwe izigqubuthelo," ezithandwayo phakathi kwezizwe Slavic. Lubonisa ukwahlukana kubomi ungakhathaliyo girlish kwaye utshintsho kwintsapho entsha. Shoot abazali umyeni kufuneka itshefu okanye ngabantu abayinqobo ophethe lonke eli mbhiyozo.

Umyeni, elingumthombo, ubhiyozela nuptials yayo indlu nabahlobo. Apha Imikhosi mahle kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kukho kwakhona aphathe onesisa, itheyibhile lomtshato umhombiso ngezandla zakhe, ukudanisa nomculo.

Emva kwexesha elithile emva kokuba betshatile, umyeni yena nabantu ukutyelela ngokusemthethweni ukuze endlwini kayise. Ngokutsho isiko, indoda ulutsha ukongeza kula matyelelo abakwazi ukuhlangabezana kunye nabazali babo nabazalwana abadala. Ekunye nomfazi wakhe, kufuneka ubone okuthiwa mfihlakalo.

Emva kokugqitywa kwalo mkhosi wayebambe esinye izithethe ibalulekileyo, engumqondiso amaqabane yobudlelane nentsapho yakhe. It sikuko yokuba intombazana kwexesha elithile emva kokuba betshatile, kunye nabahlobo bakhe igumbi iqukiwe kwezoqoqosho-mthetho endlwini apho izalamane umyeni wakhe ukuba alinde. Nganye kwezi umfazi oselula sindiwole. Ubukho ngabafazi, bona, anike intombazana uwathandabuze, nto leyo uhlobo bakhuselwe ufuzisela ukuchuma. Sweet njengokuba umfazi oselula kunika zonke izalamane ababhinqileyo elimnandi, kwaye abazali umyeni ithumela ityali encinane ukufunda imithandazo.

isiko Okulandelayo, ngaphandle apho ayikwazi ukwenza Kumyk yamsitho, liqulethe igama "yokulanda amanzi", emva kokuba yenziwe ukuba umfazi wakhe bavumelekile ukuya ngaphandle endlwini yendoda yakhe. Lo Ungumyeni mcimbi ilungiselela izipho: pouches, izikhafu ezimfakamfele, iilekese njalo njalo. Ngosuku lo msitho amagqabi aselula emanzini, kunye nabahlobo, izalamane kunye nezihlobo. Endleleni, imibhiyozo ngumtyholwa wamnikela ukuba okukhona ezazilungiselwe ngaphambili, kunye ashishinayo eyokuqala isipho ilungileyo. Akuba eze ngamandla, uzama ukufumana amanzi, kunye nobukho guys bazama ngandlela zonke ukuba ukunqanda oko. Ukoyisa yonke imiqobo, kufuneka amanzi imiphanda yonke.

Eli siko kuvavanya unyamezelo, umonde, ukuthobeka kunye zoshishino izakhono amaqabane abaselula. Emva kwentlanganiso ukuba ufumana imvume yokuba aphume nokuya iziganeko zabahlali ezahlukeneyo.

Emva izithethe ngasentla iqala uthotho ngotyelelo ukutshata ngokwemizalwane yabo entsha. Njengokuba kubhaliwe ngasentla, Kumyk ukutshatisa ziqhutywa ezindlwini ezimbini. Umnini wendlu apho umyeni Kwadlula kwimibhiyozo, unelungelo kubiza yokuqala kwintsapho yakhe abaselula. Kuphela emva kolu tyelelo, esi sibini ziqala ukuba bameme zonke izalamane.

Ezithandwa kakhulu kwaye lyubymv abantu Kumyk batyelele abazali benkosikazi yakhe. Xa weza kubatyelela, umyeni mfana Yayizimele phantsi imali ngelaphu elungiselelwe Tiffany. Umhlobo umyeni, yena, zama ukuthatha cwaka endlwini lomtshakazi into exabisekileyo.