Ntoni ikhala?

Ukuba umntwana ezizibikayo, nomama wam nabo bonke ekhaya nangoko ukushiya yonke into yaye ngokukhawuleza ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni itakane iyazigqabhuza iinyembezi. Kufanele kube njalo. Ngapha koko, kuphela umntwana omncinci ukulila kwakhe bazise omdala iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo. Ekhala xa walambayo, ukuba kukho into ekukhathazayo okanye nje ndidikwe kwaye ifuna ingqalelo. Makhe sibone ukuba yintoni na le grudnichka Umntwana okhalayo.

Izinto ezibangela ikhala

Small, osanda kuzalwa, umntwana nangoku nako ukuthetha. Kodwa ukunxibelelana nehlabathi, ukunxibelelana iminqweno zabo neemvakalelo unako. Kwaye sonxibelelwano kuqhubeka ngoncedo lokukhala. Kungenxa yale imvakalelo banokufunda ukuba umntwana ufuna ngalo mzuzu. Mhlawumbi bafuna ukuhoywa okanye ifuna ingqalelo yezonyango. Funda kutheni ekhala umntwana, zithini izizathu?

Okokuqala, ukuba grudnichok ekhala nokuhlaba, oko kuthetha ukuba unokuba walamba. Le ikhala elikhulu kakhulu kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo iqala ngesiquphe, kungekho sizathu. Eyaneleyo yokunika iintsana ukutya (ibele okanye ibhotile kunye ingono sahlutha sisonka), ime iqala umdla othile ukuba adle.

Okwesibini, usana ngoncedo iinyembezi izama ukutsalela ingqalelo ngokwabo. Mhlawumbi uyabhoreka kwaye udinwe zonke izinto zokudlala. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuva ivumba sikanina nokuva ubushushu yomzimba wakhe.

Okwesithathu, umntwana ezizibikayo, xa kubanda, okanye, icala, nabo lusongelweyo eziqhiyeni, kwaye kushushu. Kwaye ngoko xelela lobushushu ithole grudnichka.

Okwesine, uya kukhala ukuba into kubuhlungu. Mhlawumbi umntwana ukubetha okanye ubuxoki nzima. Ngokomzekelo, xa ilweyile lusongelweyo eziqhiyeni, nto leyo ibeka uxinizelelo olukhulu esikhumbeni. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko ezininzi kakhulu. Ndixelele kakhulu, kwezinye iimeko, abazali kufuneka ukuhlola imeko ukuze athathe amanyathelo ezingxamisekileyo.

Ukukhala? Yenza inkxalabo

Xa umntwana ekhala, yaye ngamanye amaxesha olitshijolo, ungakhathazeki. Thina nje kufuneka ukuqonda unobangela inkathazo zokuyilungisa. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha xa abazali kufuneka imbopheleleko kunye ingqalelo ukuba ziphonononge imeko ze athathe amanyathelo engxamisekileyo.

Ukuba umntwana lowo lobushushu eliphezulu, yaye oku sikhatshwa ngezwi elikhulu, kufuneka kwangoko wazise phantsi lobushushu ubize inqwelo yezigulana. Kuba iintsana yingozi ukuba xa ukukhala umzimba oluhlaza, kunye iziphelo baba kubanda. Ukuba umntwana uyakhala ende, ukuba ke ukomiwa kunye ukutswina, ukugabha livela, yaye wamtshicela ngaphandle ubisi undigested, ngokukhawuleza zeemviwo unyango kunye nokulaliswa esibhedlele.

Abazali kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ikhala akayeki ngaphezu kwemizuzu eli-15. Kufuneka kwakhona sinikele ingqalelo fontanelle. Ukuba kwehlele kwaye eliguquguqukayo ngamandla - ukufowunela yokurhaxwa kweentsana.

Ageza nokukhala

Oomama abaninzi bafumanisa ukuba abantwana babo bayalila kwaye azele iinyembezi emva ukuhlamba. Enyanisweni, impendulo icacile, kwaye phezu komhlaba. Kwiimveku amanzi - kwindawo eqhelekileyo. Bayakuthanda amanzi, bathanda ukuba kuyo, ukuqubha bahlambe. Emanzini, abantwana sokwehlisa ukhululeke, apho baziva ayakhuselwa. Ukuba umntwana ekhala emva ukuhlamba, ngoko nje akazange afune ukuba ukuphazamisa le nkqubo amnandi.

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba emva ukuhlamba usana unakho kukhala xa emkhenkceni. Kwakhona Awukwazi ngaphandle yokuba oomama abaninzi ahlambe ngokufanelekileyo iintsana zabo. Child ngoxa ngokuhlamba ukuba ukoyika okanye amava iimvakalelo angazithandiyo ezifana isepha wangena amehlo akhe waza pinched kubo. Agree mizwa ekhathazayo. Njani ukuba ukhale!

Ngokufutshane, oomama kufuneka ukuba siziqaphele usana lwakho. A ukunyamezelana, yaye uya kufunda ukuqonda ulwimi ekhethekileyo umntu osanda engengowamazibulo, nto leyo lubonakaliswa ekhala.