Okokuqala: ntoni na?

Xa ndandineminyaka eli-(15) iminyaka ubudala-11 (9) 14 amantombazana kukho iimpawu zokuqala lokufikisa, ezisetyenziswa imiqondiso malunga nokuqalisa kukuba aqale. Ezi mpawu ziquka:

• Jump ebukhali ekukhuleni, abanye ke ubunzima;
• uphuhliso unamadlala mammary;
• amakhwapha kunye nokukhula iinwele zikawonke wonke;
• ukonakala eli eluswini, ukuvela izinduna.

Waqalwa zonke ezi zinguquko ivela - ngenyanga yokuqala. Okokuqala - umgca phakathi esakhula, baqalisa kwisigaba esitsha kubomi intombazana. Yena uba umfazi.

Okokuqala - exesheni lokuqala

Kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo kwesi siganeko baphathwa ngokwahlukileyo. Ngokomzekelo, kumazwe Muslim ivela ibhiyozelwa yonke intsapho. amantombazana Little ndisemncinane kakhulu ukwazi ukuba yintoni okokuqala, kuba ngumhla ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini babo, yaye silindele loo mini inkulu. Xa inkcubeko naseMpuma nayiphi na intombi kunye ophambili ebuntwaneni emtshatweni, ukuzalwa abantwana, inkonzo indoda yakhe. Xa impucuko Koloni ayamkelwa ukuthengisa kuyo. Nangona kunjalo engathandekiyo omnye kakhulu, xa intombazana ayiyazi into okokuqala - oko kuyinto eqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo yaye kwenzeka ntoni kubafazi bonke. Ngamanye amaxesha ukungabikho semgangathweni kolwazi malunga nalo mba ubalulekileyo kunokukhokelela nemiphumo engathandekiyo: intombazana, ukufumana ngegazi lakhe kwimpahla, uyoyika ngoku, ndicinga ukuba kukho into engalunganga, kodwa ukwabelana kunye abadala yena akavumeli ukuba neentloni. Ngoko ke, oogqirha kunye kwengqondo nokucebisa oomama ethile kwiminyaka 9 ngolwimi efikelelekayo ukuxelela intombi yakhe malunga iimpawu komzimba umzimba imazi, ukuba kwixa elizayo ukuba kwenzeka kuye, ze aqale - oku sisiqalo kwisigaba esitsha ebomini bakhe, indlela bazive ngayo baze balungiselele. Oku kubalulekile kuba amantombazana iinyanga ezimbalwa phambi kokuba ixesha lokuqala sexesheni bangafumana nezolo iintlungu esiswini, leucorrhea ngokugqithiseleyo (discharged from zangasese), imbonakalo induna. Kunjalo, kunye ekuqaleni uphuhliso yokuqala ngesondo sexesheni ze intombazana ayipheli: kuthatha iminyaka ukuba abe ngumfazi epheleleyo kwaye akwazi ukunika uzale abantwana ngaphandle iingxaki.

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Ekuqaleni, ngokuba amantombazana amaninzi ubude sexesheni phakathi kweentsuku 28-30, kwaye menses (iintsuku sexesheni) becala kuhlala phakathi kwiintsuku ezi-3 ukuya ku-5. Nakuba kunjalo, ama-50% kuphela amantombazana nangoko umjikelo eqhelekileyo, abanye ke nganye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa, nkqu kweminyaka emva okokuqala. Yintoni na? Pathology? Kungenzeka - hayi, nangona kusenokubakho ngaphandle. Kakade ke, xa oku kuqhubeka emva konyaka, oku kufuneka kube kudala inkxalabo, kwaye abazali kufuneka ubone ugqirha. Yindlala okanye, icala, ukuya exesheni enzima kakhulu nawo isizathu sokuba uvavanyo lonyango. Njengokuba sibonile ngentla apha, ngethuba ukuqala okokuqala - Zinjengeqhezu ukusuka kwiminyaka-9 ukuya kowe-15, ngoko ke, le ngaphambili okanye, icala, okokuqala lwamva alarm. Ukoyika uhambo ukuya ugqirha. Mhlawumbi intombazane akukho ngxaki, kodwa kulunge yakhe, kufuneka ukuseka isizathu sexesheni ngaphambi okanye emva kwexesha.