Iingcinga esilawulayo: ukuba ayeke indlela ukucinga ngabantu

, Nemvelo nikhetha oqhelekileyo ngalinye rhoqo into ukucinga ngayo. Oku kuphela yogis bakhanyiselwa okanye iimonki sihlale ukwimeko ekhethekileyo (Nirvana) ezinjalo, xa le nkqubo upheliswe ngokupheleleyo. intloko yethu rhoqo igcwele zonke iintlobo iimbono, yaye inkoliso yabo - ukuba ingcinga zabanye abantu. Kwaye edibene umsebenzi, usapho, ulwalamano, ubuhlobo, njl Hayi zimbi, xa ngaba ezi ngcinga eyakhayo uthelekiso okanye nohlalutyo izenzo kunye namagama abanye abantu bakaThixo ukutyhala ukuba isenzo ngempumelelo ngakumbi esithubeni. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba bazise umonakalo kuphela: umzekelo, xa zinxulumene ex-amadoda, abafazi, amakhwenkwe, umphathi owayesakuba (ngubani kwixesha elidlulileyo ugxothiwe ngokungenabulungisa). Ukuqhubeka ndicinga iziganeko ezidlulileyo kunye nabantu ezinxulumene nazo - oko ixesha ulahle, ibonisa ukuba ithatha amandla yokuziphatha ngokwasemzimbeni. Ngoko ke kungcono ukuba ucinge ukuba ayeke indlela ukucinga abantu okwangoku ohlala engabalulekanga. Qaphela ukuba ungenza balahle loo nto, ukuba kuphela ukwenza ezinye iinzame engqondweni nasemoyeni.

Indlela ukuyeka ukucinga ngabanye: zangaphambili abathandi

Women - ukuba romantic ngakumbi nangokweemvakalelo. Batyekele ukugcina iinkumbulo elide kobudlelwane elidlulileyo, uqhagamshelo, kunye iinoveli. Abakwazi ukuthatha yimini ngokwahlukana nangoko silibale ugxeka-boyfriend. Njengomgaqo, ndacinga le nto ixesha elide kwi intloko kukujikeleza yomfazi, ingakumbi xa ithe yayekwa. Iinkumbulo idla ukubandakanya iintlanganiso achukumisayo yothando, utyelelo edibeneyo, lovemaking, dinners nezinye mathuba abasondeleyo. Kangangethuba, umfazi nokuba uyakholiswa kubo, kodwa ke ezi ngcinga abe kanti izifaka kakhulu ukuba intlungu osithelisayo, bebona ukuba akasayi kumka. Makube njalo, ukuba ixesha akupheli i "umtyiso engqondweni." Indlela ukuyeka ukucinga nomyeni wakhe, owathi, umzekelo, wamnika waya kwelinye? Ndiyavuma, ukuba kunzima ukukwenza, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba akunakwenzeka. Kwanele kwezo zihlandlo xa ufuna ukuba bacinge malunga yangaphambili, switsha into enye. Kwaye musa engqondweni, kodwa practice. Umzekelo, uyakwazi kakhulu kuvuka kwaye uqala ukwenza ukucocwa, funda iincwadi umdla okanye yiya abahlobo bakho, kodwa banxibe izinxibo nje uye ngaphandle. Emva koko uya kuba yedwa iingcinga zakhe enzima, kwaye kwindawo yoluntu, bonke ngumphunga. Le ndlela (replacement therapy) kufuneka zisetyenziswe ngalo lonke ixesha xa uziva ukuba ingqondo yakho iye ubunzima kwi "ummandla owalelweyo". Le ndlela efanelekileyo xa ufuna ukwazi ukuba ayeke indlela ukucinga ngayo lo mfo.

Enye indlela - kukufumana ikuba elungileyo okanye ukuzonwabisa. Kuthiwa ukuba uncedo olukhulu, ekubeni zonke izibonelelo ngengqondo umhlambi into entsha. Hayi nangoko, Kakade, kodwa ngokuthe ngcembe emva koko ekugqibeleni wacinga malunga ayisendim zangaphambili loo nto.

Indlela ukuyeka ukucinga malunga nabantu ngokubanzi? Ukuze wenze oku, kufuneka kuqala utshintshe kakhulu ngokwayo. Umzekelo, baqale baqonde kwaye uhloniphe nombhalo wenkqu yakhe, ukuba babulele nothando ngenxa nje wena. Ezi iingcinga enokukhokelela ekubeni ukukhuliswa ukuzithemba kwaye, ngenxa yoko, yokuba omnye umntu ebomini, izimvo kunye nezenzo akukho kuphinda kuba namandla phezu kwenu. Indlela ukuyeka ukucinga ebantwini? Ngokupheleleyo balahle ezi ngcinga akwenzeki, kodwa kufuneka lungabi lubi nezonakalisayo.