Indlela igama unyana okanye intombi

Iindaba ukuba kid mkhaya uza ngokukhawuleza, ngexesha engena ngalala yonke sibini. Xa intloko abazali ngoko nangoko kulahlwa imibuzo emininzi: indlela baziphathe unina elizayo, ukuba babhaliswe, indlela ukumelana nomsebenzi. Ngokuzimeleyo kukho umbuzo obalulekileyo kakhulu, efanelekileyo kubo bonke ngaphandle kokukhetha: bobabini ambize okanye intombi? In search of impendulo ekunene shtudiruet iincwadi ezahlukeneyo malunga nomba yokukhetha igama, ngokuhlalutya ixabiso ukhetho nganye, yaye wakuthanda zidityaniswe layo kunye negama kunye patronymic. Abanye abazali bazama ukuba igama umntwana ngaphambi kokuba azalwe, ukuba abe nako ukusombulula ngqo kuye ngegama. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba baqonde into igama kwiimvuthuluka efanelekileyo, ungabona kuphela oko, oko kukuthi, emva kokuzalwa. Ke yena enye khetho ngokulinganayo babe unelungelo lokuphila, kwaye kufuneka sithembele intuition yazo kulo mbandela.

Kukho indlela umdla ukunceda isigqibo indlela igama unyana okanye intombi ngexa lokukhulelwa. Kuba oku kufuneka ukuba umama okhulelweyo uzive kamnandi baby itshukumo yakho: Kucetyiswa ukuba ukukhetha ixesha lula yaye uthethe usana, ebiza amagama ahlukeneyo kwaye ebuza ukuba ngaba inguqulelo olucetywayo iimvuthuluka oyithandayo. Ukuba umntwana umzuzu othile namhlanje bachukumiseka ngenkuthalo, oko kuthathwa ukuba wanyula igama lakhe. Kakade ke, asinakukwazi ezinkulu ngokupheleleyo malunga nale nkqubo, funda ukuba igama njani okanye intombi, kodwa kwimeko apho abazali nzima ukuba bakhethe amagama aliqela, oko kunokuba luncedo gqitha.

Kwezinye iintsapho kukho isiko amagama abantwana amagama zabazali. Isazinzulu owaziwayo Boris Higir oye wachitha ixesha elininzi efunda impembelelo kwegama lomlinganiswa ngalo, ufumanisa ukuba kule meko umntwana usemngciphekweni ukufumana indalo ezinokugqabhuka, utyekelo kokudakumba kunye ethukile breakdowns. Uthi ukuba igama uyise wabiza unyana okanye intombi yakhe igama lonina (kodwa kwimeko umfana echaphazelekayo), ukongeza nefuthe elibi umlinganiswa somntwana, igama kwandisa amathuba yongquzulwano ngokusisigxina kunye naye kunye nokungabikho ukuqonda. Nangona amava abantu abaninzi bazi ngaphezu kwesinye Alexander Alexandrovich, okanye Prokofiev, uthi ulwalamano olukhethekileyo phakathi igama elifanayo yaye patronymic kunye ngeempawu ezimbi akafumaneki. Nangona, Kakade ke, loo nto yinto ithuba ukucinga ngayo, kodwa imvisiswano umntwana akuxhomekekanga kulo ...

Khumbula ukuba ukuze kubiza njani unyana wakhe, ikamva lixhomekeke abazukulwana patronymic, ngoko ke ukukhetha igama umfana ukuba kuyiwe ngocoselelo ngaphezu for girls. Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuba oko enxulumene kunye negama (kule meko ke akukho mfuneko ukuba nethemba lokuba uya kukwazi ukuyitshintsha, ezifana intombazana emva kokuba umtshato). Nangona kunjalo, akukho nokuba ngubani sikhethelwe ukuba igama, ngokuba unyana okanye intombi, kungakuhle ukuba iyavisisana igama patronymic. Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba isithethe zoqhagamshelwano patronymic ugugile, kodwa ke kucacile ukuba kwilizwe lethu, oku unyango Akukabonakali ke ekuphumeni bokusetyenziswa, ngoko ke kufuneka singalahlekani indibanisela layo kunye negama.

Maxa wambi abazali abatsha kumbono walo ebizwa unyana okanye intombi, ezama ukunyanzela gogo asanda kubalwa kunye nezalamane ezikude. Kwezinye iintsapho, iimfazwe ezinkulu zenzeka ukweyisela elide kunye nezikhalazo kunye. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, uMama noTata ukuba bafikelele kwisivumelwano phakathi kwabo, yaye izimvo zabanye ingqalelo kuphela nje umnqweno, kodwa isikhokelo inyathelo, yaye ngokucacileyo ukuba wonke umntu uyazi ukuba umba igama abazali kuphela isigqibo.

Kukho intabalala uncwadi utoliko lamagama. Siveza ulwazi oluninzi umdla ukwazi, kodwa kufuneka singalahlekani ingqiqo nikuyeke igama ngumntu omthandayo ngenxa yayo ixabiso into awuzali. Kwakhona, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ibuyisela kulisiko amagama abantwana somthi.