Zininzi iingcomo kunye neengcebiso malunga nokuba nini kunye nendlela yokuzisa ukutya komntwana, ngezinye ilahleko. Wonke umntu uthi indlela yakhe kuphela echanileyo neyinyaniso! Ungaziqonda phi na inyaniso? Kubonakala ngathi kufanelekile ukugxotha ekubeni siyizilwanyana. Kuvakala ukuba yinto engcolileyo, kungcono ukubeka endaweni yexesha - izilwanyana, kodwa kholwa, akukho nto iguquka kulo. Singabantwana bomhlaba, kwaye nguye onokusondla. Ngandlela-thile ookhokho bethu basinda ngaphandle kwezimbiza ezimnandi ze "Hines" okanye "Agusha", ngaphandle kweengcebiso zoogqirha kunye nezondlo. Ngendlela, kuze kube namhlanje bonke abantu beklasini bahlala (iimonke, umzekelo). Abaxhatshazwa ngumbuzo wendlela yokuzisa umntwana ukutya. Banandipha nje ukubeleka kwaye benze ngendlela.
Umbuzo wokuba ufanelekile ukunika umzami umzame into esiyidlayo ingumpikiswano. Nangona ... Jonga umntwana wakho kungekhona njengomama, kodwa njengomntu ongaphandle. Umntwana ubamba yonke into emlonyeni wakhe, uzama "kwizinyo," axoxise aze aphumelele ekuzalweni. Awumangalisi? Mhlawumbi ngokwemvelo wanikezwa ithuba lokufunda ukutya kuqala, ukuze aphile. Ngaba sinelungelo lokumnciphisa oku? Ngendlela, phawula ukuba igama eliphambili "ukuzama", oku kubalulekile. Ukutya okuphambili komntwana ubisi (ngoko kuvezwa ngendalo), nokuba unina akanalo. Ngoko ke, ukuqaliswa kokuncedisa ukutya kwintsana, ngokusemgangathweni, akufanele kuxutyushwa. Ukutya kwabo okuyinhloko ubisi. Ngoku malunga nokukhwela, okanye kunoko, malunga nethuba lokuzama. Ngokutsho kwamabali oogogo, unina nomntwana wakhe bahlala kunye nabo bonke etafileni enye (badla kwikombe enye eRashiya), badla baze bavumele konke bazama umntwana wakhe. Nguye oye wagqiba ekubeni wayethanda okanye ayithandi, nokuba wayefuna okanye cha. Umbuzo wendlela yokwazisa ukunyusa komntwana kwakungekho nje ukuma. Kwaye ngeli xesha le nkwenkwana yayingabamba i-spoon, wayenengcamango yento ayifunayo kwaye yayingenayo, kwaye umzimba wakhe wawulungele ukugaya yonke into ayifaka emlonyeni wakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka malunga neenyanga ezintandathu ukuya kwezibhozo. Yonke into incike ekuphuculeni ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo wengane. Enyanisweni, ngokusekelwe kwinyani, kuyafaneleka ukukhankanya ukuba ukutya namhlanje nakwiintsuku ezindala kuyahluka kakhulu. "Itafile" yethu ininzi kakhulu. Ngoko ukuba ngaphandle kobuqili bokuqala ukufaka umntwana inkcubeko yesondlo esifanelekileyo (ngaphandle kwe-sausages kunye nebhekoni), ngoko umzuzu ofanelekileyo uya kuthanda umququ kunye namaapulo, i-yogurt kunye ne-cottage shizi, luphi uhlobo olunikayo, kwaye alupheki kwiifekthi.
Into kuphela abazali abanolwazi abaye bagxininisa ngayo - ukuqaliswa kokutya okuncedisayo kwemifuno okanye iziqhamo kufuneka kube yiprayimari kwaye ungenzi ngaphezu kwe-10 ml ngenyanga ngenyanga yobomi bomntwana. Ukubeka nje, umntwana oneminyaka engamanyanga angongeza 10 ml ye-apple okanye ijusi lomtshi emanzini (kwimo engcolileyo anganiki). Musa ukwenza okungaphezu kweyodwa ngosuku ngemihla emininzi de uze uqaphele ukuba akukho nkunkuma okanye ezinye iziphumo ezibi. Emva koko ungangena into entsha. Ngokukhawuleza, unike amazambane ahlambulukileyo kunye neoli yezityalo. Xa uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho uphatha kakuhle iziqhamo kunye nemifuno enamahlathi aluhlaza kunye nesisindo esihle, faka okusanhlamvu: okusanhlamvu kunye nama-pastries (isinkwa, iibisiki, isonka). Musa ukunyamekela ngokubanzi. Ngendlela, umntwana wakho unokubanqabela ukuba ubisi. Khumbula: unelungelo lokwenza njalo. Akuyimfuneko ukuyilungelelanisa kwimigangatho kunye nemithetho yeethambeko ezintsha. Uyazi kangcono kunokuba uyazi oko akufunayo. Kuphela kufuneka umnike ithuba lokuba azame aze afake izigqibo zakhe. Thanda abantwana bakho, kholwani mna, umbuzo wendlela yokuzisa umntwana ukutya akuyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini. Into ephambili kukuba umntwana unempilo kwaye uyavuya.