Iqhinga eliqinileyo lokulangazelela intanda

Uthando, ngelishwa, ludla ngexesha, iimvakalelo ziyaphela, ngaphandle kokubangela ukuba kubekho ukuxubha okunzulu kweemvakalelo, njengangaphambili. Ukukhuthaza iimvakalelo, sebenzisa iindlela zobugqi. Umzekelo, icebo lokulangazelela. Unceda iqabane elide elide ukukhuthaza, kunye nokukwazi ukuphoqa ukucinga ngomthengi wesithethe. Masiqhelane nale ndlela ebalulekileyo yemilingo.

Umsebenzi onjalo wesigidike?

Iqhinga lokulangazelela likhokelela ekubeni umntu othunyelwe kuyo, uqala ukuphazamiseka, ukukhathazeka, ucinge ngomthengi. Ufuna ukudibana, ukuthetha, ukugubungela, ukuxhamla. Ngokuqhelekileyo, uthando emphefumlweni wakhe lufumana enye intwasahlobo. Le meko enhle, eqinisweni. Isiphumo esichukumisayo sokwenza isiko esinjalo ngamanye amaxesha unomona. Kodwa kuxhomekeka kwiimpawu ezithile. I-Mage, ngendlela, kucetyiswa ukuba ucinge ngezinto ezinjalo, ngaphambi kokufunda icebo lokubandezeleka. Ngokukodwa kunconywa ngabagadi basekhaya. Uyazi indlela iminwe yakho emihlanu ithandwa ngayo. Ukuba umntu unomona, ke ungasebenzisi icebo eliqinileyo lokulangazelela. Ukuvusa ukugqabhuka kwesi, kungeyona nto imnandi, ivakalelo. Isithethe ngokwayo siphephile ngokupheleleyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthelekiswa nokunyuswa. Oku akunjalo. Emva kwakho konke, akukho bani owenza amaxhoba apha. Ukutshintsha nje ukutshintshwa kweengcamango ukuhambelana nomthengi. Ngaphezu koko, emva kwexesha isenzo soqhinga sichaphazela. Kwaye ke iyayeka konke. Imizila kwi-aura yexhoba, akasishiyi, akukho karma imithwalo.

Kuphi lo mphumo umlingo onobuchule?

Uyazi, imilingo yinto elungileyo. Zibandakanya amabutho e-third party ayenayo intando yawo. Ukuba usebenzisa kakubi ububele babo, bajika, bayeke ukunceda. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo ukunyanzelwa komntu othandekayo ngoncedo lomlingo. Ziziphi iimeko ezidibeneyo? Zininzi zazo. Makhe sibhale iimeko ezibaluleke kakhulu:

• Iimvakalelo zaqala ukulahlekelwa ukutshabalalisa nokukhanya, ukukhanga kwamandla;
• Into enqwenelekayo ayibuyiselanga;
• Othandayo uya kukushiya ixesha elide ngenxa yomsebenzi okanye iimfuno zomntu siqu (uhambo loshishino, uvakashele kwizizalwane, unyango lwezempilo kunye nokunye).

Zama ukungasebenzisi kakubi imizila. Emva kwakho konke, izicwangciso zakho aziyikuphazamisa izicwangciso zomntu onendleko ngenxa yokungaqiniseki ngeemvakalelo zakhe? Makhe kancinci, kodwa akahluthi ngenxa yokwahlukana.

Isalathiso sokulangazelela umntu omthandayo

Siqala ukuziqhelanisa. Isithethe sokuqala sithathwa njengento esomeleleyo, kodwa isebenza kakuhle. Lungiselela:

• Ikhandlela leCawa ;
• Intambo kunye nentambo eluhlaza obomvu;
• I-teaspoon ye-rosemary omisiwe kunye ne-cornflower;
• Izinto zesebe;
• Iifoto ezimbini: wakhe kunye nentanda yakhe.

Kucetyiswa ukuqhuba isithethe kwenyanga ekhulayo. Beka imifuno kwisitya bese uwabeka ngomlilo. Yenza umlilo ukuba umsi. Ngoku thabatha iifoto uze uphenduke uthabathe iiklabhu eziqholiweyo. Batshintshele ngemifanekiso ngaphakathi kwaye nibambe ngeenxa zonke. Ngethuba le nkqubo, yithetha la mazwi: "Iingca eziqhambileyo, imimoya ecocekileyo, imilambo enzulu, umhlaba ongukhoboka (igama) ukuba ndibophelele, cinga nje ngelokuba ndijezise. Ukulangazelela, ukulila, ukuphupha kwothando lwam! Amen! ". Ngoku kuyimfuneko ukubeka umlilo kwiifoto ezitshiweyo kwintlambo yekhandlela kwaye ubeke endaweni yengca. Ukuqokelela umlotha. Uphoswe nokuba kwizinto zexhoba, okanye kumda.

Indlela yokwenza uthando udlale imibala emitsha

Isithethe sangaphambili singenziwa nakweyiphi na imeko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kukho ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu okanye kuphela. Ukuba uye wahlala ndawonye ixesha elide, sebenzisa i shirt yeqabane lakho (sweatshi) kwimikhosi yemilingo. Qiniseka ukuba ukhetha iingubo kunye nemikhono emide. Umkhosi ngokwawo ubanjwe ngeCawa emva kokushona kwelanga. Kufuneka ufumane kufuphi nommandla wamanzi wamanzi (umlambo, i-echibi okanye enye). Beka ihembe lakho kuye, ulibambe ngeemikhono, uhlambe, ufunde isicwangciso esinamandla sokulangazelela intanda yakho. Amagama akhe anjengale ndlela: "Iziphepho zamanzi, ezikhokelela emhlabeni kunye neentaba, zijikeleza. Hlanganisa ne-milenka (igama) yezinye iifowuni zabantu, izibizo kunye nokunyelisa. Makungabikho amasela emi phakathi kwethu. Kuphela ngam, ukuze ndidangala, ndihlala ndinqwenela kwilizwe lam. Iindawo zokuhamba zamanzi zibanzi, zivule ngenhlanhla kude! Amen! ". Yima ihembe, kodwa ungayihlamba kwaye uyinike umhlobo wakho.

Isicwangciso esinamandla sokulangazelela

Esi siko senzelwe ukugcina ingqalelo yomntu onobuqili kunye nomoya. Kubo bantu babizwa ngokuba ngabavulekisi. Ufundwa ngobusuku obungenanga inyanga ecaweni. Yiya khona yedwa. Ngaphambi kwangaphambili, hlola ingcwaba lwakutshanje, apho amagama angabathandekayo ahlala khona. Yizisa isikhumbuzo, kodwa kungengowompofu. Ukukhothamela kwingcwaba ngokuphindwe kasikhombisa, uhamba kunye nentshukumo nganye yomzimba ngeqhinga. Nguye oku: "Umoya uhlala ebhokisini. Uya kufuneka aphume ngefrijini. Akavumelanga isono esikhulu. Wayekwazi ukuphumelela othandweni. Ngoku usebenza ebhokisini aze aqalekise isigwebo sakhe. Umntu ofileyo unendawo kwindawo yokungcwaba, kodwa umkhonzi weNkosi (igama) unami ngonaphakade naphakade. Amen! ".

Isithethe sokukhokela ukukhanga umviwa

Ukuba ufuna umntu ongekho ulwalamano naye, cingisisa ngawe, uzame ukufumana isithombe sakhe. Umfanekiso, ngokubanzi, unomdla onamandla kakhulu wempembelelo. Sisadinga ikhandlela ye-candle ethempelini kunye nekhonkco yokukhanyela. Hlala phambi kwesibuko. Khanyisa ikhandlela. Ngaphambi kokuba ubeke isithombe. Gxininisa into. Khawucinge nje ngeenkcukacha zonke, uvakalelwa ngephunga, ilizwi kunye nezinye izinto. Ukushayela esithombeni nge-candle candle, uthi: "Ndiyifake umthandi wam kwinqanawa, ndiyibambe intliziyo yam, ndiphuphe ngamanatha, ndicinga nje ngam! Amen! ". Yenza icebo kathathu, nime. Sitshise isithombe ngokupheleleyo. Ukuqokelela umlotha esesandleni sakho sokunene uze uyifake kwiwindow evulekileyo okanye kwi-balcony. Kulapho, usasazeka emoyeni.

Isithethe esinamandla kakhulu ngegazi

Ngamanye amaxesha akukho masiko kunye neqhinga elibonakalayo. Oku kwenzeka ngezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umlindi wasekhaya akasenamandla okwaneleyo. Ixhoba leempembelelo zakhe likhuselwe ukwenzela ukuba awuyi kuphelisa. Kule meko, kucetyiswa ukuba usebenzise isalathiso sokwenqweno lomntu ngegazi. Ngokwemvelo, ukuba ungesabi ngohlobo lwakhe kwaye ungaphumeleli phakathi kokuphathwa kwemilingo. Ufuna inaliti, intambo emhlophe yoboya kunye nekhandlela. Beka yonke into phambi kwakho ukuphepha ukuphazamiseka. Ukusuka kwi-skein kuqhekeke (ungayinqumki) isiqwengana, esilingana ubude kwi-circumference yesandla sakho sasekhohlo. Ubophe amaqhina kuwo ngenani leencwadi ngegama elipheleleyo lokhethiweyo. Ukupheka ngomunwe uze uphawule nganye ngegazi. Ngoku ufanele utshise intambo kwilangatye lekhandlela, uphinde uphinde uyilo. Indlela yakhe yile ndlela: "Zonke iindlela zendlela yomninimzi inceku edibeneyo. Nomaphi apho uya khona, uya kufika emnyango wam. Waziqonda iingcamango zengcamango. Ngeke uhlale ekhaya kwaye ulambile iiyure, kungekhona imizuzu. Ngubani oza kudibanisa iigununu, eziza kuphula umyalelo wam! Amen! ". Ukuqokelela umlotha uze ubavumele emanzini.

Indlela yokubamba iingcamango zomntu ongekho nto

Ubomi, uyazi, kusinika iingxaki ezinzima. Ngamanye amaxesha, liwela kwixesha lentombazana ukuba lithandane nomntu otshatileyo, kwaye akacingeli ngokukrexeza. Kule meko, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa isicelo soqhinga lomntu. Oku, ngakwesinye icala, akuyonto yokuthanda ukupela. Oko kukuthi, awuyi kuthatha isono emphefumlweni wakho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uya kwenza umntu afune, amaphupha omdla. Yaye apho iNkosi iya kugweba. Ngokwenkonzo, lungisa:

• Ityuwa enkulu;
• Ifoto okanye into efunwayo;
• Amakhandlela asixhenxe obomvu.

Isithethe sichithwa kuphela ngendlovukazi ekhulayo yobusuku. Amandla ayo aza kubangela ukuphuculwa kwentlalo emphefumlweni womntu othandekayo. Qala kanye emva kobusuku bobusuku. Cima zonke izixhobo zombane ngaphakathi. Vula ngokulula ifestile okanye iwindi. Etafileni zibeke ikhandlela ezikufutshane, kwindawo ebeka kuyo isithombe. Ukukhanyisa, ukuhamba kweso. Thetha ityuwa phezu komfanekiso kwi-pinch, uhamba kunye namazwi esalathisi. Kufuneka kwenziwe ngokuphindwe kasikhombisa. Lindela amakhandlela ukuba ashise. Ukuqokelela zonke iimpawu zesithethe kwaye uyifake kwi-handkerchief. Ngokukhawuleza uphathe egcekeni uze ungcwabe phantsi komthi omdala. Kuphela ukuze kungabikho mntu unokufumana. Amagama oqhinga alandelayo: "Ndifefa ityuwa ngetyuwa, kodwa ndibiza umnquba weNkosi iNkosi (igama). Ndiya kumkhokela kwisiqulatho sokukhanya kwaye ndimbe ngonaphakade. Ukunyamezela, ukulangazelela kwakhe ukutya, abanye babengazikhathaleli. Kwaye ubusuku nemini kuphela bezama kum, kuphela kwiingalo zeNkosi ikhoboka (igama lakhe) lilibalekile. Ityuwa entliziyweni yakhe igalela, inqwenela kum kuhlamba. Amen! ".