Kutheni abafazi ukutshintsha amadoda: uhambo engqondweni nemazi

EYurophu, i-USA, yaye thina, kumazwe ico, malunga 42% abasetyhini ukutshintsha amaqabane abo. Njengomgaqo, amadoda kwiimeko ezinjalo ukuba becala zama ukuzifihla iimvakalelo zabo. Noko ke, le nto uhlala - ndandi- nemazi ngoku yenye ezininzi iingxaki ngokucinezelwa yoluntu. Indoda sihlangabezana ukungcatshwa ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ngakumbi besini enobulungisa. Okokuqala, makhe sibone ukuba kutheni nabafazi utshintshe abayeni.

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Abanye abafazi bayathanda kwakhona sizive sithandwa yaye wayemthanda. Abanye, ukutshintsha iqabane ufuna ukuziphindezelela kuye ngenxa kokubekwa kwakhe. Phakathi ezona zizathu zixhaphakileyo zokuba nabafazi utshintshe amadoda, zezi zilandelayo:

• imvakalelo isizungu (lwenzeka ubukhulu becala ekhaya);
• ukungafuni le iqabane ukuthetha emfazini wakhe, ukuba athathe inxaxheba ebomini bakhe bebuzana iingxaki zakhe, amava;
• uziva ukuba umyeni wakhe akusekho ifumana ngesondo nomtsalane;
• akukho zokubonisa isisa kunye nothando phezu inxalenye iqabane;
• nomyeni onothando kakhulu ngomsebenzi wakhe okanye umdlalo, ixesha elifutshane ichithwa ezindongeni zendlu;
• umnqweno ukuphelisa zemihla ngemihla;
• ukungabikho romance esililini;
• ediniwe okanye inzala;
• umnqweno bazive ngathi ebomini lakhe ndomelele njengokuba kwinkalo umsebenzi;
• ingqumbo nxamnye iqabane.

Ngamanye amaxesha, singalindelanga, kwesa yedwa, uqala ukunxibelelana bayawafundisisa owayethandana naye, isikolo okanye eyunivesithi yothando. Ngokutsho manani, ivame kakhulu elimsulwa ngoko ekuqaleni emehlweni yonxibelelwano "abahlobo" ziphelela ebhedini.

"Bulala loo nto! ***" ... okanye le nto?

Practice ibonisa ukuba iminyaka yethu, xa kule ncwadi, kumaphephandaba, kwi-TV phantse akukho ukuhluza, phantse bonke abafazi kungekudala ucinge ngendlela yokufumana amava ngokwesondo kunye ummeli besini esifanayo. Kutheni abafazi ukutshintsha amadoda kunye namanye amantombazana? Ngelo nazo izizathu zabo.

Eyona nto izicacele kubo - ngokungaqondi ngakwicala babantu. Amaxesha aliqela badana ngendlela ezahlukeneyo namaqabane, umfazi basenokucinga ukuba akukho mntu uya kuqonda ngcono kunomnye.

Abaninzi iqhutywa ukwazi eziqhelekileyo, umnqweno kuba njengokungathi ezintsha engaqhelekanga (emzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo).

Ndazi njani?

Enyanisweni, iimpawu kokungathembeki ababhinqileyo zisoloko ukugwayimba. Ingxaki kukuba uninzi indoda othembekileyo onothando de kutshanje akazange unqwenela ukuba baziphawule, uze uqale ukwenza ndivus ngexesha xa ukusindisa umtshato phantse akunakwenzeka.

Uphawu lokuqala lokungcatsha - yiloo nto umfazi uqalisa kakhulu ukunciphisa isithuba buqu (ufikelelo kwi-akhawunti mobile phone kwi social networks kunye nekhompyutha ngokubanzi.). Njengokuba amadoda, nabafazi, azi ezintsha kuqala ingqalelo kakhulu ngakumbi imbonakalo yabo yangaphandle. Enye alamu - umfazi wakhe iqela elitsha abahlobo okanye angamantombazana, umntu uchitha phantse lonke ixesha lakhe free, ngaphandle ukubonisa sinqwena kakhulu ukuba baziqhelanise, nabo iqabane.

Eyona nto engasi ukukrexeza - Kakade ke, ebhedini okupholisa. Ukuba iwela kungekudala umfazi, echaza ukuba yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba le ndoda iye ingabangeli kuye yaye ungafudumezi nje ngesondo naye.

Nditsho ngokwemiqathango ingxabano, yonke into utshintsho: ukuba phambi kokuba ichotshelweyo ifana amehlo of the Third kweMfazwe Yehlabathi, intombazana komkhonzayo, iya kuba ngokupheleleyo andikhathali. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye kuya kuqalisa kugxininisa iintsilelo lawo onke amakholwa abo kuphunza phambi konke konke.

Vele ayivumelani: ukubeka apho isiphumlisi?

Ngoko ke, wabancina izizathu eziphambili zokuba nabafazi utshintshe amadoda. Listed kunye neendlela ukufunda ukukrexeza yakhe ayithandayo. Kodwa lo mbuzo ubalulekileyo isekhona - nokuba ukuxolela utshintsho kuwo onke?

Abantu abahamba banoluvo lokuba kukho nabafazi ze ukutshintsha amaqabane abo, kodwa akukho leyo ukutshintsha kanye kuphela.

Ukongeza, ukuba ukukopela umntu - nto nje umnqweno emzimbeni, etshintsha mfazi nomyeni wakhe ngokweemvakalelo elide phambi kokuba sex yokuqala kunye nesithandwa sakhe. Uthethelela ukungathembeki okanye akunjalo? Impendulo yalo mbuzo kufuneka wafuna kuphela enzulwini yentliziyo yakhe.

PS Kodwa abo abafazi baye got ngumthandi, unako ukunika ingcebiso nje ezimbini: uzaphule ubudlelwane okanye kufika ngexesha engalunganga ... kwaye babe! :) Ukuba umfazi wakho ngendlela, kulo mzekelo, unako ukunika nje naye ukuva ukuba "kwicala elinye ngothango." Mhlawumbi emva onjalo ulwalamano kuya kuba ngcono ngaphezu endala.