Enyanisweni, kuya kuba mnandi sekufika indoda yakhe ayikwazi kuphela xa ulwalamano lwakho nganeno ngaseludinini kukwaphulwa. Ukuba nithanda iqabane lakho, umnqweno ukuwenza Bamangaliswa nice kwaye kamnandi ukumkholisa okanye ubonisa isipho kakade. Ngelishwa, iimbono mihla siyavuma ukuba inyathelo lokuqala ukwenza umntu. Phofu ke, ukuba usoloko linyanzelekile ukuba lithathe inyathelo lokuqala. Intombazana efana okweqanda, yaye kufuneka kuhlale ngokuzithoba alinde de ozithandayo elilandelayo uza kufumana i inkwenkwezi evela ezulwini. Kodwa ke, amantombazana athandekayo namabhinqa ziya ndinixelela imfihlelo kancinane: Ukuba wena kuqala ukuba enze into ekhethekileyo ukuze indoda yakhe, ngoko ulwalamano yakho iya kutshintsha, nendlela. Yenza umyeni entle kuyinto snap, eyona nto ibalulekileyo - umnqweno onyanisekileyo ukumkholisa (nangona ezinye zisebenzisa le ndlela ukuphumeza iinjongo zabo zokuzingca, kodwa abafundi bethu akunjalo).
Khumbula oko wathi yena
Ngoko ke ndigqibe ukufundisa umyeni wakhe isimanga (njengoko sele kuchaziwe, ukuba ukukholisa umntu omthandayo, wena awukwazi kuphela isimanga, kodwa wothuka komeleza kuphela uyolo). Siphawula kwangoko ukuba akukho mfuneko yokuba ube eziphathekayo. Ukuba bezibuza ukuba ukwenza njani isipho kwindoda yakhe, waza wagqiba ngokucacileyo ukuba sifanele ukuba uyakwazi ukubeka phezu okanye, umzekelo, kunokuya lokuloba, kufuneka uzibuze imibuzo embalwa. Okokuqala, cinga ngento kutshanje waxelela iqabane lakho. Mhlawumbi wakhankanya umnqweno mfihlelo ukuba uyenze. Ngokomzekelo, omnye ugxa zisandula kuthengwa ikloko, kwaye ngoku okufunayo zakho intanda kufa, kwaye kungoku nje. Kakade ke, yinto nje efane onjalo akunakwenzeka, ke ngoko, ukucinga ngakumbi.
Hlola uyithandayo yakhe
bafunda kakuhle imikhuba yakhe nangezinto ozithandayo. Ukuba zazi kakuhle oku, kukho ezininzi iinketho yokwenza indoda entle. Ukuba uyatshaya, oko kuya kuba ityala elungileyo isimanga wecuba. Ukuba udlala imidlalo, ihempe entsha, nto leyo ethintela ukufuma, ayikho kuphela mnandi, kodwa kuya kuba kuhle ukuba impilo yakho. Ngokuba photographer engahlawulwayo iya kuba uncwadi umdla kakhulu weendawo. Kwaye ngenene, incwadi yakhe ayithandayo ngendlela ezinoqweqwe oluqinileyo ebiza okanye upapasho kuphela - asiyiyo impendulo yombuzo zendlela yokwenza indoda entle? Inkcaza iya kuba ngobaluleke kakhulu amatikiti amabini ukuya ikhonsati band yakhe ayithandayo. Kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba yintoni na oluthandayo ungafumana khona, kwaye oko akuyi kuthintela umsebenzi okanye ezinye izinto. Kungcono ukuba bathenge amatikiti ezimbini. Ukuba olu hlobo lomculo oyithandayo, ngoko ukujoyina umyeni wakhe, ukuba akunjalo, ke yena akhethe iqabane lakhe. Kwaye ungakhathazeki ukuba kuya kuba mnandi ngaphandle kwakho, ngenxa yokuba wamnika amatikiti kwaye kungenzeka ukuba ube elikhulu enombulelo kuwe kweholide emnandi. Ukuba ucinga, kuba ezimisele ukukholisa indoda yakhe, benze esi sipho, olusekelwe phezu izinto zakhe, yena uya kuvuyiswa nje kuphela Nangoku, kodwa ke into yokuba uyakhathala kwizinto ezithandwa zakhe.
akufuneki ube izinto Gift
Ukuba into efanelekileyo nangoku wena akundazisanga unyuke, ngoko khumbula isidlo elungileyo endala romantic akusayi ukulimaza. Lungisa ukudla akuthandayo (ukuba ekhitshini - ukuba akukho nto yakho, kungcono ukuba odola isidlo kwindawo yokutyela), ukucinga ngayo nantoni na umboniso wayefuna ukubona bazalise geza, umyalezo. Emva kosuku olunzima abasali enjalo kuya kuba ngokwenene yinto emnandi kuye. Ukuba umyeni wakho ixesha kangangokuba omnye ngokuhlwa, akazange bachukunyiswa kunye nemvakalelo uya kubakhokela, ngoko azibandakanye lombutho yonke iholide. Mhlawumbi kuya kuba utyelelo imini okanye ikhefu ngokupheleleyo phesheya, eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukuba ukuthatha ingqalelo ukhetho zabo. Isilumkiso: qiniseka ukuba esi sipho akuyongozi mali usapho lwakho kwaye aziyi kukhokelela ingxabano kwimihlaba zemali.
Into esemqoka - neenjongo abanyanisekileyo
Njengoko ubona, umbuzo zendlela yokwenza indoda entle, hayi kangako nzima. Kukho inala ongakhetha ukukholisa Makabongwe wakho, ukuba unomdla ebomini bakhe aze ngokwenene bafuna nje ukuba ukumenza onwabe yaye sinombulelo ngoncumo. Khawuyisondeze umyeni wakho uya kuba memory mnandi nje kuphela, kodwa kwakhona, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, baya ubuhlobo benu.