Ndifuna ukukhulelwa, kodwa andinako. Yintoni endiyenzayo?

Umnqweno wokuba nomntwana uqobo kuwo onke amabhinqa. Ukubonakala kwakhe, njengomthetho, kuwela ngexesha elithile xa umtshato nomntu othandekayo kunye nokuqhubeka ngokuqhubekayo kwentsapho yolonwabo kugqitywa, ngokuqinisekileyo, kukuzalwa komntwana. Xa iinzame zokukhulelwa azikhangeli ngempumelelo, amazwi anengqiqo, njengokukhala komphefumlo: "Ndifuna ukukhulelwa - ayisebenzi!". Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba uxinzelelo oluxinzelelekileyo kunye nokuxubusha ekujonganeni nale ngxaki echaphazelekayo inokuba yingozi kumathuba okuba nabantwana, kunye nokungaqhubi ixesha elide.

Ndifuna ukukhulelwa, kodwa andinako. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Ubomi bwanamhlanje bubonisa imithetho emitsha. Ngoko ke, ukucwangcisa ukukhulelwa namhlanje kuthathwa njengento ebalulekileyo kwaye kuyimfuneko yenkxaso yayo. Okokuqala, ibhinqa kufuneka ibonwe ngumntwana. Uya kubabela uluhlu lweemvavanyo eziza kubona ukuba yintoni ebangela ukuba iingxaki zibangele. Ungakulibali ukuba uviwo lufanele luhambe kunye noyise oyise kamva. Emva koko, kukho iimeko apho umsunguli weentsilelo nguye okanye zombini amaqabane. Kukho nawuphi na, ukufunwa kweengcambu kubangelwa ukuphathiswa abaqeqeshi abaqeqeshe kakhulu, kungekhona kumbelekazi osuka kwidolophana.

Ndifuna ukukhulelwa, kodwa andinako. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Ukuba akukho zincinci zonyango zokukhulelwa, okanye unyango luzaliswe ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ukukhulelwa okuthandayo akuyi kuza, ungadikibali. Ngamanye amaxesha umnqweno onqabileyo wokuba nabantwana uqala ukuba ngumntu, owona mgangatho weengqondo uthintela inkqubo yokukhulelwa. Kwimeko enjalo, izazi zeengqondo zincoma ukuba zingabambeleli, vumela ukuba imeko leyo, ukuphazamisa ezinye izinto ezikukhathazayo. Ukuba uncedo lwezihlobo kunye nabahlobo kulo mbandela aluncedi, ungaqhagamshelana neengcali.

Ndifuna ukukhulelwa, kodwa andinako. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Kwaye kwenzani na ugogo noogogo-makhulu ngaloo mihla xa iyeza lingekho kwizinga eliphezulu kangaka, kwaye ingcamango "yengqondo" yayingaboni? Abafazi bajika kuThixo. Unokutyelela indawo ezingcwele, thandaza kwicawa yendawo okanye ekhaya. Into ephambili kukuba yonke imithandazo ivela entliziyweni. Kuphela ke bafumana amandla omlingo baze bancede ngokwenene ubomi obutsha.

Ndifuna ukukhulelwa, kodwa andinako. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Kwenzeka ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ubuchule bobukhulu bobukhulu bunceda. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba intsapho engenabantwana ithola inyane, umntwana osalinde ixesha elide uzalwa ngokukhawuleza. Okanye ngokuthinta isisu somfazi okhulelweyo uthembisa ukukhulelwa kwentombazana ephupha ukuba nomntwana. Abaxolisi baya kuthatha le miqondiso engaqhelekanga ngokungahambi kakuhle, i-hypochondriacs - kummangaliso. Kodwa kulo mzabalazo, zonke iindlela zilungile. Into ephambili kukuba awonakalise impilo yemama kunye nengane yakhe yesikhathi esizayo.

Umfazi ngamnye uyazikhethela yena, ukuba ngubani ofuna ukucela uncedo ngamazwi athi: "Ndifuna ukukhulelwa, kodwa ayisebenzi!". Ukuphelelwa lithemba emehlweni kwaye emphefumlweni kunokukwenza intombi ibe yintlanzi yabathathu kunye nabaphili. Musa ukuhlala kunye kunye, cela uncedo kubantu abasondeleyo, ukwenzela ukuba bangabi kwiimeko ezibucayi. Kwaye yonke into iya kuvela!