Secrets zonxibelelwano: indlela ukuthetha nabantwana, abazali, umqeshi, kunye nogqirha?

Umntu ngamnye elothusayo yevidiyo abasemzini, cwaka ngexesha kumhla wokuqala yenza umthunzi kwaye aphulukane nethemba, yaye sinako ukufumana ulwimi eqhelekileyo kunye nezalamane - abantwana okanye abazali, singasathethi ke kukoyika unxibelelwano kunye nomqashi. Sinikezela ukuba ufunde indlela ragovarivat nabantu abakufutshane nawe.

Indlela yokunxibelelana nabantwana, ingakumbi intsha

Abantwana badla musa ukuthetha amazwi kwakunye abadala, ukongeza abanako, ukufunda ingqondo yakho, ngoko musa sazi kakuhle into ofuna kubo, ukubuza umbuzo "njani na esikolweni?". Kulula kakhulu ukuba uphendule le eyamkelekileyo "oqhelekileyo" okanye ukuphendula kwaphela. Kwaye akukho kuba befuna ukufihla into, ukuba nje abazi ukuba ukuqalisa indlela self-ezichanekileyo incoko, kunye nemibuzo ngokubanzi ayikwazanga ukubaphembelela ukuba umxholo umdla.

Zama ukucela imiba ecacileyo nangokweemvakalelo, ezifana: "Yintoni na oyithanda kakhulu namhlanje?" Okanye "Ubonakala udiniwe. Wena into nomsindo? ". Phuphumani uve impendulo, ngokumnika ingqalelo epheleleyo kwaye ungaswitshi ngokukhawuleza imisebenzi indlu. Eneneni, abantu abaselula avulekileyo ngakumbi ngexesha le joint venture. Cela umntwana wakho uncedo ungacwangcisa itafile, kwaye ngeli xesha lokuba ukubuza ngokweenkcukacha malunga neenkxalabo iingxaki zakhe. Kwaye khumbula, ngokuba abantwana iyingxaki, ngonobumba omkhulu!

Indlela ukuthetha nabantu ongabaziyo

Abantu abaninzi kuthi baziva bengakhululekanga kwi nkampani sabasemzini, kwaye kulindelekile. Ngaphezu koko, kwinkampani enkulu, phantse bonke, nkqu abanini beqela, abo ekhaya va ukungakhululeki, yengxinano okanye amava. Kunokunikela ingqalelo kuwe, khumbula ukuba andiyithandi into yokuba xa kwafuneka isizathu sokuba eze, kwaye kwezinye na. Kubhetele ukuhlala ucinga oku: onokunceda ngayo nabanye abantu ubuhlungu.

Cela ungowasemzini kuni, wadibana kunye nabanini beqela okanye ukuthetha malunga nokutya - phantse wonke umntu uyakuthanda ukuthetha malunga nokutya, kwaye okwangoku baba clichés efanayo, ngathi yezulu. Xelela amabali ukuba nakuvayo kwabanye. Umzekelo, ukuba interlocutors bakho abazali abatsha, uyakwazi ukubalisa ibali, ndeva ezivela kubahlobo. Akuyi kuba iyafana iqabane lakho, ngokwaneleyo ukuba bakwazi ukuphulaphula emanyathelweni Akuyomfuneko.

Indlela ukuziphatha kwindawo yolwamkelo kwi kugqirha

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ukwazi isizathu sokuba uthethe kwi-ofisi kagqirha kwaye ukuba uyoyika ukuthetha ngayo. Ekugqibeleni, udinga uncedo lobungcali hhayi kuphela, kodwa ufuna ukukunceda. Kungenxa yoko le nto umsebenzi omkhulu enkhubyeni wa vukati - ukunceda ugqirha, ngokuba andikwazi wena awukwazi ukufunda iingcinga zenu, kwaye uxilongo sidla azibhalwanga na wanebunzi umguli.

I ngcono yaye kokukhona zichaza iimpawu, kube lula oyingcali ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni na undonakele kuwe, noko kufuneka - in unyango okanye uhlalutyo. Chaza kuphela iimpawu kodwa elide kangakanani ukuba kwenzeka, enoba rhoqo okanye umahluko.

Oogqirha abantu kakhulu

Musa ukubusithelisa uloyiko lwakho, kokucingelwayo kwaye uloyiko, ugqirha uya kuziva ekhululekile ngakumbi xa musa ukukufihla kuyo kwaye uzimela. Kwelinye icala, akazange acinge ngaphandle kwaye musa nokuxilonga wena kwangaphambili, ngenxa yokuba kukho isizathu kuba nibe kufika kuye, na ke kuni. Mhlawumbi kufuneka owonithemba ngesisombululo iingxaki abaziingcali.

Zihlonele umsebenzi yeengcali zempilo. Zisebenza imini yonke nabantu, yaye umthwalo ngokweemvakalelo maxa wambi nzima kakhulu, nokuba a professional. Nangona siphila kwinkulungwane xxi - iyeza ayikho onke, kwaye kwiindawo ezininzi akukho izixhobo zexabiso kunye neziyobisi, ngoko ukuba ucelwa ukuba ulinde okanye ubeke endaweni, kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho abantu phambi kwakho ngakumbi abadinga unyango.

Indlela ukunxibelelana ngomhla

Mhlawumbi zonke ngonaphakade luvo ngomhla, Iyahlupha into into efana akukho iqabane. Ngexesha lotyelelo bobabini bazive engxakini xa intsalela tilting baxhasa iqabane. Kodwa into engalunganga. Nguwuphi umbuzo ngokufuthi uyazibuza ngexesha umhla? Ngaba I imjabulise / yena? Kodwa kanye indlela engalunganga kunye isenzakalo. Umbuzo elungile: Ngaba lo mntu onjengam? Indlela ukhululekile Ndiziva mna? Ndingathanda ukuqhubeka ezi ntlanganiso?

Nikelani ingqalelo koko iqabane lakho utsho. Amava elibi nolwalamano elidlulileyo, eliphalalela nina ngomhla wokuqala, ngokucacileyo uthi Ndandingekakulungeli ukuqala ezintsha. Kwakhona qaphela oko ukutshoyo ngokwakho. Kubalulekile ukuba ukunyaniseka, kodwa hayi kanti izifaka kakhulu. Funda ukwahlula phakathi imisonto ukuba kufanelekile ukuba umhla wokuqala, yaye izeziphi na. Thetha malunga nomsebenzi iimeko umdla noogxa, iindawo ezintle ukuba sityelele, iincwadi ezithandwayo kunye iimovie. Ziphephe iimbekiselo ukuba ubudlelwane ezimbi elidlulileyo, ubunzima kusapho kunye neengxaki zemali.

Khumbula ukuba yeendwendwelo zokuqala ezimbalwa kufuneka alusetyenziselwa kuqaphela ukuba ngaba umntu tye wena. Ngoko ke akukho mfuneko ukuba woyike cwaka nzima kwaye zama ukugcwalisa ngayo incoko. Kulungile ukuba uzibuze umbuzo: "? Endilichitha kakuhle njani ixesha lam"

Indlela ukuthetha nabazali

Ngexesha lokufikisa, abantwana bafumana ngaphandle yempembelelo lwabazali yaye aqale azinxulumanise noontanga uluntu. Ngenxa yoko, xa umntwana iba omdala, phakathi kwakhe kunye nabazali kwasekwa uhlobo enzonzobileni ngokweemvakalelo, nto leyo kunzima kakhulu ukuba ukuzoyisa. Kuya kufuneka ukuba baqale ukwakha ibhulorho phezu enzonzobileni, ngenxa yokuba abazali bam babedla ukuhlonipha isithuba lwakho buqu kwaye ayoyika makayiqhawule, ngaloo ndlela ebangela uhlasela umsindo yobulungisa iminyaka embalwa "geqe". Kungcono uqale rhoqo ukwabelana nabazali oko kwenzeka ebomini bakho.

Ubudlelwane kunye nabazali ngaphezu ubuhlobo. Athe gqolo ukufundisa inkxaso, kwanokuba abasoloko akwazi ukubonakalisa iinjongo zabo ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ungacinga ukuba abazali ukulawula, ukuzama ukwenza ikopi ngokwayo okanye u xiya amathemba abo kunye namaphupha, kodwa eneneni umama kunye notata zizama ukuze ndikusindise kwiimpazamo ukuba benza. Kuya kuba anele ukuba unike nje nabazali bazi ukuba ninoyolo ukuba wanelisekile ebomini bakho ukuba nombulelo.

Uhlale uqhagamshelana nabazali

Zama ukunqanda ukunganeliseki kwaye abe ngumntu ocaphuka msinya kakhulu. Abazali bekhula ubudala, yaye enyanisweni, akunakuba leyo ayiyi kusinda. Ba kancinci, ukulibala, maxa wambi izenzo, yaye ukukruquka kwakho nje kugqiba kukoyika ukuphulukana kubo. Abazali kususela kwimini yokuqala yobomi bakho kuba wena kukuxhasa kunye nodonga zokhuseleko, yaye zibaluleke kakhulu ukuze uzive imfuneko yayo ebomini bakho. Chitha ixesha ukukhumbula iziganeko amabali obomi othe wazifumana kunye.

Indlela ukuthetha abakhulu

Kuba abantu abaninzi, nokuba isimo kunye nemisebenzi yazo yophuhliso, indawo yokusebenza mnandi kuxhomekeke umgangatho wonxibelelwano. Kuba abasebenzi kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni, ingakumbi ngamaxesha utshintsho kunye nobunzima kwezoqoqosho, kunye nabasemagunyeni kufuneka bazazi iimbono kwabo sisebenzela kuyo. Xa wayesebenzisana abaphezulu-zodidi Kubalulekile ukuba umntu akwazi ukuba novelwano. Cinga ngento yokuba akukho lula ngakumbi ukuba anikele amagunya okanye olunye ulwazi Ngaba nomphathi wakho phambi abaphathi bakhe. ulawulo Namhlanje yeyona ukukwazi uzibeke endaweni abo bamhlonelayo kuwe, nakuyo indawo abo bazithoba kuwe.