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Ingcamango yembono yinkcazelo ekhethekileyo kwingqondo, echaphazela nakweminye imimandla yolwazi, ingqalelo kumava achaphazelekayo kunye neengcamango, ezijolise ekuchongeni iindlela eziphambili zokuziphucula umntu ngokusebenza kwakhe okungcono kwisakhelo sobudlelwano bobudlelwane. Ixesha eliqikelelwayo lenziwa ngu- Alexander Olegovich Mikhalenko ngo-2010 ukuchaza zonke ezo ndawo zophando ezi zikhoyo kule ngcamango.

Ingcamango yembono ixhamle kuphela ngezixhobo zayo ezibandakanyekayo, kubandakanya: isiseko sayo sesigama sesigama, esakhiwe ukucacisa ezinye zeziganeko ezingachazwanga kwizengqondo, inkolelo eqhubekayo encike kwizifundo kumazwe amaningana ekuchazeni "umntu ococekileyo" (ngokukodwa, Uphando lwezeNtlalo, imibuzo kunye nabanye). Igama elithi "ilungileyo" , ngokungafani neminye imiqathango, ayinalo ukucaciswa okucacileyo kuba akunakwenzeka ukuyiqonda ngokubonakaliswa kweembono zeengcinga malunga nomntu "olungileyo". Nangona kunjalo, idibanisa zonke iingcamango zengcamango yoluntu, ngeli gxi ninisa ukuba i-Ideal ingumxholo ohambelana nawo wonke umntu. Ngako oko, umxholo wokuqala wenkcazo, echazwe ngokungaqiniseki, ubonisa inzame ekuqwalaselweni kwezesayensi ngokwenene kule nto ekhoyo kuluntu.

Okufunekayo ukuba kuvele imbono yinto ebonakalayo kwiingcinga zabantu, ukukhangela kwayo, kwaye oku kuhambelana nokuchazwa kwangaphambili kwezinye iindawo (ezikude), ngokweenfilosofi, nangona i-semantics yegama inemvelaphi efanayo kubo bonke. Njengoko iinjongo zanamhlanje zifikelela kwipopu, ixutywe ngephutha kunye nayo, ibhekiselele kwiinjongo ezifanayo kunye nemisebenzi yezikhokelo zombini. Nangona kunjalo, okokuqala injongo yokuba loo njongo ayizange ibe yinto engacingi ngokuqwalasela ukusetyenziswa kwayo.

Umbhali wengcamango, isazi sezengqondo i-A. Mikhalenko, wadala ingqungquthela yokuqala yombono wakhe ngo-2010 waza wachaza ngomsebenzi wakhe "Abantu abaPhambili". Inguqulelo yokuqala ayishicilelwe ngentando yombhali. Ingqungquthela yesibini, eyongezelelweyo nedatha entsha kunye nokuqwalasela iimpazamo ezidlulileyo, iza kukhutshwa ngo-2011 phantsi kwesihloko esithi "Ukuzikhethela: Yiyiphi indlela oyikhethayo?". Ingqungquthela ebhaliweyo yomsebenzi ohanjiswe ukuhlalutya kwangaphambili ayifani ngokukodwa kwi-yangaphambili, nangona kunjalo, ngaphezu kweendlela eziphambili zeengcamango kunye neengcamango ezizibambileyo, ukuphikisana okukhulu okwenzeka kumsebenzi wangaphambili kusombululwe kuyo. Oku kubonisa isakhiwo sengqondo kunye nokugqiba kwayo ngokufanelekileyo.

Ingcamango yembono iqukwa iibhloko ezintathu zophando, ezicetywayo ukuba ziguqulwe ngabo bonke abakulungele ukubandakanya ukuphunyezwa ngokufanelekileyo kwimiqathango ethile yomxholo. Ngenxa yoko, umbhali ulwahlula wonke umsebenzi kwindawo ethile kunye nenxalenye apho kukho iingcebiso ezibonakalayo eziza kukhawuleza inkqubo. Kwiingcamango zesakhiwo somsebenzi ngo-2010, ezi bhloko zilandelayo ziboniswa: izakhono zangaphandle, zangaphakathi nezesondo - ezi ziibhloko ezinkulu kakhulu ezichaza ingcamango. Isithandathu sesine ibhloko yempumelelo yomntu omnye komnye kuluntu, ebonwa njenge-symbiosis yezona zintathu zangaphambilini, kuba zinokubangela ngqo kulowo nalowo. Ngaloo ndlela, nganye ibhloko ibona iibhloko ezisezantsi. Umzekelo: kwibhloko "yangaphakathi" ibonakala ngokucacileyo ezinqamlekileyo, njengolu: ulwazi, izakhono, umlinganiso kunye nezikhokelo zomoya. Ezi zilandelayo zichazwe kumsebenzi ngokuxhomekeke kwimpumelelo eninzi yesibini nengqondo kunye nezinye iinkalo zolwazi ngomntu. Ngokukodwa, i-physiology, i-anatomy kunye nezinye izikhokelo zidlala indima ebalulekileyo kwibhloko "yangaphandle". Amava ezesondo ngesintu, njengeyunithi ehlukeneyo, kodwa engahambelani ngokungahambelani neyokuqala ezimbini, nangona akusiyo i-derivative yabo. Zonke ezi bhloko zilinganiswa ngombono "we-proportion", olawula ubudlelwane obulinganayo phakathi kwabo.

Imizekelo ecacileyo yokusetyenziswa kweentlobo ezithile kwiibhloko kwiinkqubo zonxibelelwano zifumana impendulo ngezinye iinkalo ze-Western pick-up (ngokukodwa, ezinye zezenzo zikaEric von Markovic kunye noRos Jeffries zibandakanyeka). Nangona kunjalo, umbhali wenqaba ukumazi ngemisebenzi yabalobi ngexesha lokudalwa kwengcamango, kunye neengcamango malunga nomzabalazo wezinto eziphilayo kunye nentlalontle kumntu, uchaza ubulili bomntu, isondo esithile, ukuziphatha kwakhe okuchazwa ngobomi bezesondo kuchazwa njengomphumo wesifundo esizimeleyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kuya kuphawulwa ukuba le ngcamango, ngaphandle kwezi zihlandlo, ayinanto enxulumene neklasi yeklasi, kwaye ithuba lokuyisebenzisa ekukhohliseni ubulili obuhlukile luyimpembelelo yecala eliqhelekileyo eliye langaphambili kwimpumelelo yokuqala.

Ngaloo ndlela, ingcamango yembono inezinto ezizimeleyo kunye nezobuhlobo kuphela ezichasayo kwipopu kunye nezinye iingcamango kunye neengcamango (kubandakanywa nezikolo ezithathiweyo ukusuka kwipopu ngokwazo), ezenza ukuba zikhetheke kwaye zikhetheke. Ukufana kumalungiselelo ngamnye kunye nokungahambi kakuhle kwemibono yintlawulelo yomsebenzi, oye wabonisa ukuba kungenzeka ukusetyenziswa ngokubambene okanye okufanayo kokubili ukufezekisa injongo enye. Oku kugxininiswe ngumlobi wengcamango, kwaye i-idealization entsha ayiyi kuchaza kuphela uhlobo lwento efanelekileyo, kodwa inokusetyenziswa njengethuluzi lokukhohlisa abaculi be-pick-up.