Wedding kwi Church: ukukhusela uthando

Uthando lokwenene akoyiki ukwenza ukuzibophelela kunye izibhambathiso ukunika. uluntu lwethu luye bade babuyela zentsulungeko pre-revolution - yaye abantu bafuna kwakhona ukutshata. Makhe ukuba isoloko craze, kodwa fashion kumtshato ecaweni iba eqhelekileyo. Kwaye hayi kuphela izibini eziselula: ngakumbi yaye kuya kusanda ngokwanda ebandleni kukho iperi amadoda ubudala waza wacela ukuba ukutshata kwabo. Kusoloko echukumisayo kakhulu kwaye ezintle. Nangona kumtshato ecaweni - kuhlala intle.

Njengoko yaziwa, emva kokuba ubhaptizo unengelosi wonke livela. Kukho inkolelo mhle, ukuba emva kokuba isibini umshado unikwa ingelosi ngaphezulu likhusela usapho. Kukho iimeko ezininzi xa emva kokuba kumtshato ngamadoda ebandleni wagibisela iziselo kunye nabafazi badla wayeka ukuba ingxabano. Emtshatweni amakholwa ilingane mbi ngaphezu kokuba ukubhalisa umtshato kwi-ofisi yobhaliso, njengoko umtshato ibandla kubandakanya uxanduva olukhulu lungabi eziphathekayo kunye uqinile ngokomoya.

Phakathi kwemiba Batyushkov kaninzi umbuzo ucelwa malunga nokuba yinto kumtshato kunokwenzeka ngaphambi kokuba batshate kwi-ofisi yobhaliso. Le umshado kuvunyelwa kuphela kwiimeko ezizodwa, ngokuqhelekileyo mabandla ezincinane ezisemaphandleni apho umbingeleli uyazi umtshakazi abaphambili kunye nomkhwenyana iminyaka emininzi yaye ndiqinisekile ukuba nzulu babeza kusabela ezibophelelayo emtshatweni. Ababingeleli abaninzi bayala ukutshata phambi yobhaliso, njengoko ukwahlulwa ecaweni kunye karhulumente kunye umtshato yonqulo awunamandla osemthethweni. Ngoko ke, kukho mfazi "kuphela nezenkolo" umtshato okungakhuselelwanga ngumthetho, izinto zalo eziphathekayo yile basesichengeni njengento kubudlelwano elingabhaliswanga. Ngoko ukuba indoda bakho ufuna ukufumana umbingeleli, lowo sithsaba ngaphandle yobhaliso, kungcono ukuba ukubaleka kude umyeni enjalo njengomlilo, kuba enyanisweni ofuna ukuba singanyaniseki. Yeha, ngoxa umtshato ebandleni akayi kuba ilingane umtshato kugqitywa kwi-ofisi yobhaliso, kufuneka silumke kakhulu.

Xa umtshato, yena uthe izinto ezidityanisiweyo ngokusemthethweni kuphela, kuba akukho isisombululo esilula ubomi babantu bokwabelana ngesondo. Bona ndawonye nje umzimba kodwa ke umphefumlo kunye nabantu abanothando. Wedding ebandleni uyila uxhulumaniso eyomeleleyo ngokomoya, kangangokuba elinye iqabane unako malunga ishishini labo nokholo acamagushele izono omnye lo umlingane.

Intsingiselo umtshato kukuba ukudibanisa abantu abathandanayo ubancede bayiqonde ngcono ubungakanani ngoxanduva lwabo ubungqina ebantwini noThixo nothando lwabo ngokunyanisekileyo waza wazincama. Uthando - isipho zezulu kunye wonder apho kuphunyeziwe kweqonga uthando, ebudodeni obupheleleyo. Xhumela kwi isiphelo yomtshato angafanele ngayo, zithi iinzululwazi kuthatha ubuncinane ngonyaka ukwazi ngamnye ngaphambi kokuba benze izigqibo ezibalulekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, asinawo engqondweni nolwalamano olusondeleyo. Izifebe (abo bangena nolwalamano olusenyongweni bengekatshati) Ootata kucetyiswa ukuba sahlukane. Kule mihla, emva kokuba baguquke ngokunyanisekileyo zombini umtshato zonqulo kunokwenzeka, kodwa kusoloko ngendlela enzima kakhulu. Isono bunokusenza umphefumlo alitshabalalise nkqu nothando.

Imibuzo ebuzwa umbuzo: yintoni eyayiza kwenzeka ukuba isebenzisane ngesondo, okanye kunoko ukufunda ngayo kuphela emva kokuba betshatile? Enyanisweni nabo ezingahambelaniyo ngokupheleleyo kungenzeki, naziphi na iingxaki ingasombululwa ukuba abantu kwezinye iindlela ngamnye. A "test" bandiqumbise abantu kuphela ukuzama amahlakani ezintsha, ezingena sijule esonweni. Kwaye ngoko, ukuqhomfa, izifo ezidluliselwa ngeentlobano zesini kunye ezifunyenwe ngaphandle kwesizathu konke konke kuza inimba lithemba. izono Man sengozini kakhulu iidemon, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ubomi bakhe buya intlungu engakumbi.

Wedding ebandleni ivumela uyisingele izibopho zothando biyela ezahlukeneyo impembelelo yeedemon. Amakholwa amaqabane sithsaba ayikwazi ukoyika amagqwirha kunye 'labalindi' kunye nothando lwabo ukupela-cuffs.

Khusela uthando lwakho - hamba uye kuzibonisa kumbingeleli etempileni elikufutshane ukuthetha ngayo emtshatweni. Wedding ebandleni kuzakutshintsha ubudlelwane bakho ngcono kwaye kukunceda ukuba uzive njengenye.