Yintoni iphupha elilindeleyo? Ziyintoni imililo?

Ngelishwa, umlilo ovuthayo uyintlekele kakhulu, inhlekelele. Ukususela kwinqanaba leelwimi, igama elithi "umlilo" ligama elipheleleyo elithi "inhlekelele" kunye "nenhlekelele." Ezinye iingqondo zeengqondo zidibanisa amagama athi "umlilo" kunye "nokufa" kunye. Kodwa akukho nto. Ininzi yeencwadi zokuphupha ngokuchazwa kwezinto ezithile zokupenda kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba komlilo, obonwa ngumntu ngexesha lokulala kwabo, ukutolika le ngqungquthela njengento yezinto ezithile zeentlekele zemvelo. Kodwa kukho iinguqulelo ezifana nabomlilo kwiphupha kukuhlambulula nokuhlaziywa kobomi bonke! Kuthetha ukuthini konke oko, kwaye ekugqibeleni, yintoni imililo ekhoyo- sifunda kweli nqaku! Phambili!

Kutheni imililo iphupha ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha likaMiller

Othandwayo kunye nothando ngabaninzi bezengqondo zeMerika uGustav Miller uvula phambi kwethu amathemba aqaqambileyo, anike amaphupho anjalo njengenani elixabisekileyo. Uthi umlilo ophuphayo ngumqondiso obonwabileyo, obonisa utshintsho, ukuzaliseka kwezicwangciso ezicetywayo, eziza kubonakala zinkulu. Nangona kunjalo isosayensi idibanisa kwiintetho zakhe zentshukumo "encinci ye-tar."

1. Amaxhoba, oya kubona ngexesha lomlilo ephupheni lakho, zibonisa kuwe izifo zakho.
2. Ukuhamba ngomlotha kukulangazelela kwexesha elidlulileyo.

Iphupha likaTsvetkov lithini?

1. Ukuba ubona ucocekileyo kwaye ungabikho umsi ogqithiseleyo nomsi, yilungiselele ukuba ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha ... bhetele! Umlilo oqaqambileyo kunye ococekileyo uyisimboli sokuzaliseka kweminqweno yakho enqwenelekayo. Qaphela ukuba olu ngcaciso lusebenza kuphela kula maphupha apho ulwimi oluvuthayo aluchaphazeli izakhiwo kwaye aluyi kubhubhisa abantu.
2. Kukho kwincwadi yephupha likaYevgeny Tsvetkov kwaye kungekhona nje ukuchazwa kwemvula yintoni na umlilo. Umsi, ukusila kunye nokusabalalisa ngokukhawuleza kweelwimi zelangabi lomlilo kukuxwayisa ngezifo ezizayo, ukwenyuka kweentlalo, ukwesaba, i-phobias, iimeko ezixinezelekileyo. Ama-Syndromes of panic attacks are excluded!
3. Uyabona ukuba umlilo waqhekeka njani kwindlu? Kukho iingxabano phakathi kwamalungu omndeni. Ulungelelaniso lwakho kwintsapho emva kokuba iphupha elo liza kuza kungekudala.
4. Ukuba amalangabi ajikeleza ekhayeni lakho, ngaphandle kokuyichukumisa, ngoko uya kuvuya kwiindawo ezinomdla kuluntu.
5. Ukuba ubona ngaphesheya indlela indlu yakho ishisa ngayo, lindela ilahleko ezinkulu ebomini; Ukuba ubona indlela isakhiwo esingaqhelekanga sitshisa ngayo, - ngokubhekiselele kulonwabo olungalindelekanga!
6. Kutheni ufuna ukuphupha umlilo? Ukuthula noxolo? Ukuxazulula zonke izifo? Hayi, bahlobo bam! Eli phupha liwuphawu lomsebenzi ongenakulungiswa oya kukwenza esikhathini esizayo. Ukongezelela, eli phupha linokuthetha ukuxabana nokungahambelani noluntu.

Kutheni imililo encwadini yephupha iLongo

1. Ngokwale ncwadi yephupha, imililo yinto yokwaphuka, ukuxabana, ukulahleka nokuhlaselwa!
2. Ukucima umlilo ngumqondiso weengxabano eziqhubekayo kunye neentlanzi ngokuthatha inxaxheba.
3. Ngaba uzama ukusinda ngokusinda emlilweni? Ukhohlakele kwaye unomntwana ebomini: ungumlenze kunye nesandla esimhlophe, umatshini kunye nomntwana omncinci! Uyazi nje indlela yokusombulula zonke iingxaki, ubaleke kubo, ulandela umsila ngokukrakra.
4. Ukuba uphupha isithongo sakho, ngoko unyanisi kunye no-egoist! Ngenxa yesiphoso sakho, abanye bahlupheka! Cinga ngento ngaphambi kokukhawuleza!