Yintoni isixelela halo kwingono

Kumazwe amaninzi aseYurophu kwaye American, imfundo sex abantu abaselula bahlawule eninzi ingqalelo kumgangatho karhulumente kulo. Ukususela kwiminyaka ekuqaleni ezikolweni baqhube iiklasi ozikhethelayo komzimba womntu, iyantlukwano ngokwesini amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana, amalungu oluntu, ukukhulelwa, ukuzalwa ubomi obutsha, kunye nezinye izihloko.

Besele sibonile umfanekiso eyahlukileyo kakhulu. Ezi imixholo badla iGavdos. Kuye kwakho iimeko xa kwisikolo esiphakamileyo sifundo ukwakheka kwabantu ifikelela ithuba ngokwendlela le imihlathi umahluko iimpawu bayindoda nenkazana, utitshala wacela ukuba ufunde la maphepha ekhaya kungekho nkcazo nangaphandle bexoxa ngemiba eklasini.

Le ndlela le miba kwi ingcambu engalunganga. Abantu Abaselula akukho mfuneko yokuba ukungena kubuntu obudala engalungiswanga ngokwasengqondweni.

Uphawu lokuqala zokukhulelwa

Isizukulwana esitsha ngoku ikhula ngokukhawuleza, siwela eyayinethombo esikhulu solwazi luncedo, kodwa, nangona oku, kukho inani elikhulu kakhulu amantombazana aselula iya ukusebenza isisu. Le iikliniki kungabonakala xa umama yesikolo kukhokelela isisu - olahla izandla zakhe nezimanga njani kwakunokuba kwenzekile ukuba umntwana wakhe. Akazi ukuba inxalenye enkulu ityala kuwo; ingasixeleli umntwana malunga nocwangciso-ntsapho, hayi bafundiswa ukusebenzisa - isihloko abangafuniyo kubazali abaninzi.

Asingabo bonke ukukhulelwa iphele ibuhlungu kangaka, ngoku, abaninzi baqala ukuqonda ukuba ukukhulelwa nokuzalwa esilandelayo komntwana - sisipho esivela kuThixo, kodwa yonke into ngexesha layo.

Ngoko ke, ngifuna ukuba ngamnye ukuze baphile ubomi kwesini kwabafazi, nokuba abancinci kakhulu, kufanele bazi nje kuphela malunga inzalo kodwa imiqondiso zokukhulelwa, ingakumbi imfuneko banikele ingqalelo enkulu amabele ngexa lokukhulelwa kunye nokondla umntwana elandelayo.

Inkangeleko zamabele

Ngokuqhelekileyo emihle kwingono ibele halo incinci. Enye imiqondiso zokukhulelwa, xa halo iqalisa olule kwaye sikhulise ubukhulu. Akunyusi kuphela haloes of neengono ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kodwa esifubeni.

Isifuba, ukuqalela kwimihla zokuqala zokukhulelwa, ivavanywa utshintsho yokuqala - iba buhlungu, tight, eboniswe hypersensitivity ingono. Ukuncancisa ibele bathi ngazo, wawathululela - oku kwandisa kwegazi kwaye uqale ukwandisa yobisi.

Halo ingono mnyama kwaye abe nje brown. Mnyama kuphela kwingono nombala strip kudandalaza embindini esiswini, abanye abafazi nazo, izandla, amagxa. Konke oku ngabanye lingakhululwanga zibonakala. Akukho nto eyoyikekayo, emva kokubeleka, yonke into iza zibuyele esiqhelweni.

Abanye oomama abakhulelweyo abaye kwingono halo ngokukhawuleza iqala ukunyusa ubukhulu iiveki eziliqela, maxa wambi, isikhumba kwingono leyo kakhulu soluliwe, nto leyo ekhokelela ukuba ubuhlungu kunye ukurhawuzelela kwindawo ye kwingono. Uninzi abasetyhini ngexesha lokukhulelwa ingono ukuluma.

Lonke utshintsho ibele - ukulungiselela yayo lokuncancisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo akukho ukulungiselela akufuneki ngqo, kodwa ke kukho iimeko xa ingono halo uqhuba kwaye asizoluli. Kule meko kuyimfuneko ukuvuselela neengono (ukuba akukho isisongelo kwesisu), ndisolulela khosi yaye umphululela nabo phakathi lobhontsi Uvalo.

Vala halo kwingono

Kukho abafazi abaye umqhele enkulu ingono sinxulumana nokukhulelwa - isipho esivela Mother Nature. Yena, ezifana ikepusi, igubungela inxalenye enkulu esifubeni, nabafazi, Kakade ke, musa nje, kodwa akukho nto unokuyenza ngaloo nto, ngaphandle kokuba uqhaqho uncedo. Kodwa ke ngenkankulu ukuba nihlale kulo!