Ukuzifeza, Psychology
Yintoni uhanahaniso: iintlobo kunye nemizekelo
Kubuhlungu ukuhlangabezana nezenzo ezimbi kunye ezingalindelekanga. Kuphela emva kokuba isiganeko siza kuqonda ukuba zombini ukuthobeka kunye nentliziyo-yobubele. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-hypocritical. Kwaye abantu abaye bafana nabo, bafaniswa noJanus obhekene nobabini, ubuThixo baseRoma. Yintoni uhanahaniso kunye naluphi uhlobo lwawo?
Ukwesaba inyaniso
Lo mgangatho uvame ukubonakaliswa, kodwa izizathu ezivuthayo zihluke kakhulu. Eyona nto ixhaphakileyo kukuba, xa umntu eyika ukubonisa isimo sakhe sengqondo. Lo mzekelo wobungqina bendalo, obuthathaka. Umzekelo wobuzenzisi bobugwenxa unokuqwalaselwa nguPeter Pettigrew kwi-saga kaHarry Potter. Waziphatha ngokunyanisekileyo ngenxa yokwesaba bonke abanamandla kunabo.
Imfesane yokubonisa
Umzekelo ohluke ngokupheleleyo usibonisa i-aphorisms malunga nohanahaniso eBhayibhileni. Kuthetha ngomntu onika izipho zokubonisa. Kwaye kulo mxholo ukuba incwadi eyintloko yeyona maKristu ithetha ngokuzenzisa. Kule meko sibona ukuba ulwahaniso olunjalo luyingqayizivele kumntu onobungozi. Xa ibhinqa elihle, lichithwa ngqalelo, "lidlala indima" ngokuyinhloko ngenxa yokuqwalasela, ikwahanisa. Umzekelo - i heroine kaCorilla evela kwincwadi ethi "Consuelo" uGeorge Sand.
Yonke yam!
Akunakubonakali kakhulu umgangatho wabantu abafuna iinzuzo zezinto eziphathekayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abavumi ukuzenza ngokungazenzisiyo. Olu hlobo luyodwa kubantu abemi. Yintoni uhanahaniso ngenxa yokufumana inzuzo, yintoni umzekelo onokuba khona? Omnye unokuthi igama lamanye amaqhawe aseMelika awamthandayo - uScarlett O'Hara, osebenzisa abaninzi abantu ngenjongo yakhe, bengenakuziva. Ngokomzekelo, ikhohlise abathengi bayo abanokubaluleka ngomgangatho weenkuni ezivela kumncintiswano. Nangona umtshato wakhe kunye nomyeni wakhe wesibili wakhulelwa ukuba afike kwimali yakhe.
Ulwaphulo-mthetho
Ekugqibeleni, kukho enye yesine hypostasis yobuncwazi. Kwenzeka kubantu be-paranoia, oko kukuthi, abo bazama kakhulu ukulungiselela iinjongo zabo, kwaye "bethintela" njengengxaki yabantu ababakhathazi. Umzekelo nguMilady Winter ukusuka kwi-Three Musketeers. Wayekhohlise abanye kungekhona ngenxa yokuqwalasela umntu wakhe, imali okanye inkathazo. Wayeneenjongo - kunye nezinye izinto kuye kwakuthetha okuncinci. Ngokwezibalo, umlingiswa uMilady uthathwa njengelona likhangeleka kakhulu phakathi kwabalingani bezandla zangaphandle. Nangona kunjalo ulwaphulo-mthetho.
Yintoni ekubanjwe kuyo
Yintoni uhanahaniso, kwaye kutheni ngokufanayo lilahla inkolo yehlabathi: UbuSulumane nobuKristu? Ngaba usebenza ngokubi kangaka? Ewe, iinkolo zenkcubeko azivumelani nohanahaniso, kodwa ingxaki ayiyonto yokuziphatha. Ngenxa yezenzo zobuzenzisi kuhlala kukhohliswa kwaye kukhangela izibonelelo kwiindleko zomnye umntu. Oku kukuziphatha okubi kobuzenzisi.
Musa ukudideka!
Uhenxisi, uhanahanisi ufana? Hayi, phakathi kwezi ngcamango ubudlelwane buyano-hypo-hyperonimic (inxenye-epheleleyo). Bonke abakhohlisi ungumhanahanisi, kodwa abazenzisi bonke abazenzisi. Ngoko musa ukudibanisa. Abazenzisi bahluke. Uxhamli nje ngumntu ogweba oko yena ngokwakhe ubandakanyeka kuyo, okanye into ayifunayo ngasese aze avume. Lo uhanahaniso lobubele obunentlonelo, kuba u-hypocrite uyesaba ngombono womnye umntu. Omnye lowo ongavumelaniyo kwaye akazenzi, kodwa ugweba, ungcwele.
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