BDSM - le yinto ekhethekileyo ekuthandaneni

Kuba abathile, esi shunqulelo kuthetha lukhulu, kuba abanye yinto ibinzana engenanto. Kodwa phantse wonke umntu uyazi: BDSM - oku yinto yokwenza ngesondo. Makhe sibone ukuba yintoni le ezine zimele abalinganiswa entsonkothileyo.

ziqonde izifinyezo

BD (BD): yobukhoboka kunye Ingqeqesho - yomsebenzi (ndibopha okanye nitrogen amalungu omzimba) kunye nengqeqesho.

DS (DS): ukuvelela Ukungeniswa - amagama amabini obuza elichasayo: ukongamela kunye nokuthobela.

SM (SM): inkohlakalo kunye Masochism - sadomasochism, masochism kunye inkohlakalo. Xa ezingundoqo wayo - kumnandi ziintlungu.

Oku kuthetha ukuba esi shunqulelo kufuneka ikhangeleke ngolu BDDSSM, kodwa lula yayo waza wagqiba ukugawula ukuya iileta ezine sonorous.

BDSM Iimpawu

1. Le yinto leyo ngokuyimfuneko uyisondeze infliction intlungu. theatre lakho sexy, apho singadlala kuphela uZwilakhe ikhoboka, kananjalo ingqalelo BDSM.
2. Esi sifundo elikhulu sex is not ababonakele ngayo nangayiphi na indlela. Abathandi oniqhwabayo ukukhanya upopu sele ngoko nangoko ibhekiswe amalungu "subculture 'ukuba sithethe Ngokufumana intombazana iinwele zakhe obutofotofo ezinde. Nje musa ukuba neentloni.
3. BDSM - le into apho onokuyenza ngaphandle neentlobano zesini ezinjalo, ukuba akunjalo ochaziweyo kwisivumelwano phakathi lubalaseleyo kunye nokuthobela.
4. "Yekani magama" kufuneka emazantsi iqabane ngalinye, kuba abantu abakwazi ukufunda iingcinga. Uyeza up ngamazwi original kufuneka ukuba awukwazi memeza zokuphola akuhlaselwa, kunokutshiseka.
5. BDSM - le into nasekuvikiveni, kuba yonke yenzeka kuba ukuthanda ezilungileyo nxaxheba, yonke sangaphambi kuxoxwa, kwaye maxa wambi nkqu utyikitya isivumelwano.

types of BDSM

iindima

1. Game "kwi kagqirha." Ukongezelela wambatha kule meko ke kuvumelekile ukuba ukusebenzisa izinto zonyango ekhuhlangubeni lakho, ukususela enema ukuba gag.
2. "Lo mdlalo enogonyamelo." Omnye amaqabane lidlala ihashe okanye inja, kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kulo mdlalo - inekhola, ngamanye amaxesha kunye ngomnxeba.
3. Ukudlala utshintsho ubudala. Amaninzi lowo omele esiphezulu - alawule, kodwa qhagamshela iingcinga, ngoko yokwaluphala iya kuba uphawu lobuthathaka.

Yonke imidlalo BDSM Kunyanzelekile ukuba umntu lo phezulu, ngelixa abanye benza umsebenzi ongezantsi.

Igalelo emazantsi

• bastinado - libethwe ekuncothukeni kweentende zeenyawo iqabane;
• ukunyathelwa - ehamba phezu emilenzeni ezingagqunywanga okanye izicathulo;
• bake - izixhobo neemeko sebenzisa nokubekwa;
• ebukhobokeni - inkululeko ngokubopha;
• Ulenga kwi urhulumente wambamba;
• bomisa - ilaphu kunye amabhandeji isetyenziselwa ukugquma umntu;
• ukuba kwiindidi iimpembelelo ziquka yokoyika ezinezothe. Umzekelo, ebizwa njalo-imvula segolide (ukuchama kwiqabane lakhe);
• Yanjengomthwebeba - ukushukumisa umzimba wakhe ze kusithwa nje esengozini intlungu nolonwabo;
• izinto ezibukhali - apha idlala ukoyika le ndoda ingabonwa igazi. Intsingiselo yale ndlela kulo, kunokuba intlungu ezoyikekayo.

ukuthandana BDSM kwenziwa kulo lonke ihlabathi. Kwamanye amazwe kukho club eyodwa ezinezihloko apho abantu beza ukufumana njengokungathi entsha eqaqambileyo. Nabo uqhelane kunye neqabane kwixesha elizayo. Ngelishwa, eRashiya zikhona kumaziko kuphela emfihlekweni. Kodwa unako ukufumana umntu othile, yaye kumaqonga ahlukeneyo.

BDSM akamiselwanga mda, eliyinhloko sizilumle iingcinga kunye ubutshaba, ukuzama ukufumana injabulo kakhulu.