Beka it ... okanye "Lost olunjani lomntu"

Ukuthetha imbeko unokuthatha ngokungenammiselo, ngokukodwa into yokuba namhlanje umgangatho wendalo kwabantu ngokukhawuleza kakhulu afe. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kungekudala ngumbandela imbeko, isidima kunye anobukroti iya kuba ngumbandela kuphela kwicandelo bulumko.

Le mbono ayikho nasihlahla njengoko kubonakala xa uqala, nezibakala exhasa ezininzi nje imbali yale mihla, kodwa iindaba ngemihla. Vula i TV nawuphi na umjelo apho zibonisa series TV, imovie okanye iingxelo zeendaba. Ubona ntoni na? Kakhulu nje, nkqu esprit de kwibutho labasebenzi liye ileta efile, ngenxa yokuba umkhosi kuxhaphaka ngoku nombutho kuphela yorhwebo, singasathethi ke izakhiwo zoluntu ebafundini kangako?

Inkcazo nenjongo

Kwanokuba ukunikela ingqalelo kanye isakhiwo ilizwi, ukuba uthi kwindawo yokuqala bendili - na ukunyaniseka ngento ethile, kunye ingqiqo esikhathazayo uxanduva ngezenzo zabo. Umntu kufuneka masingabhidanisi ingqiqo nabanye ezifana nesidima, ikratshi, ikratshi, kunye nabanye. Ngokomzekelo, ibinzana elithi "awukuvumeli imbeko" - ngowona mzekelo ocacileyo ngasentla. Libonisa ukuba umntu akakwazi ukwenza oku okanye okuya senzo, kuba ndicinga ukuba engafanelekanga, kakubi okanye ukunganyaniseki ngokunxulumene kwabanye. Kwelinye icala, nembeko - yinto uhlobo yomntu ikratshi xa kusingethwe abo kuthiwe bafanele okanye isabelo sakhe. All of ngokunxulumene umntu kumntu onjalo kubonakaliswe ibinzana elithi "kuba kum kuyinto imbeko enkulu."

Izizathu "isidima", okanye "Yalusa newonga yobutsha bakhe '

Yintoni na isizathu ukuba liqhawe babengakuthandi nkqu wabacekisayo? Ngapha koko, ukuba udumo umgangatho obuntu umphefumlo, ithatha ingculaza, ibiya kubonakala, kuyimfuneko ukuba sizabalazela ukuba kuyo. Kodwa ukususela kwixesha Knights yokugqibela ngubani "wafa ngaphandle", ukususela, njengelizwi umntu uyayeka ukuba athwale ubunzima phambi ubunzima kunye namandla
kunye ukuyazi wesandla mnye zincitshiswe ethole, nembeko licandelo nje ezimbalwa. Abo bambalwa kakuhle yaye esazi ukuba nembeko - yinto yinxalenye ebalulekileyo nesidima sobuntu.

I ezimbalwa de kutshanje waya apho edabini, akhusela ilizwe elo ezingezozakhe kubo, nabantu wandithumayo ukuba ukufa kwabo, yaye ikamva labo, nto leyo kuba andize uninzi. Ngoko ke musa ndithi nangoku, elo wonga - le into sizalwa nganye, okanye ngenye indlela, kuba olu phawu eziwela nganye kuphela logama nje kungekho mfuneko ubungqina. Abanye isidingo esinjalo akezi naphakade, umntu elinde ixesha elifanelekileyo. Kodwa kukho okhethekileyo, ngokwenene, osebenzisa sesikweni "ikhowudi imbeko" ubomi yonke omdala ...

UYobi

Kwakutheni ukuze sivela? Xa sithetha nge- iimpawu zomntu kunzima kakhulu ukwenza isigqibo sokugqibela uze ubeke indawo yokugqibela, ukuba nje kuba oko akwenzeki abantu efanayo njengoko kungekho iimvakalelo ezifanayo kunye neempawu. Ngoko ke, nkqu sithetha nembeko kufuneka kuqwalaselwe kwindawo yokuqala ayikho le ndoda, kunye nokusingqongileyo apho ekhula, waphila waza wafa, yaye uya kugwetywa oko waba into ngaphambili.