Ezintathu kumtshato lonyaka - uvimba elungileyo

Enoba abazili babalekela iminyaka, ngamnye usuku lomtshato iya isiba ezixabisekileyo yaye kubaluleke ngakumbi. Ngoko ke, emva kweminyaka emithathu sitshatile, isibini esiselula ukuba sokukhumbula kumnandi, bevuya, uthando intliziyo nangoku ovuthayo umlilo efanayo kwaye ufuna ukususa nakude kude, ukuba kwezikhumbuzo zilandelayo ebonakalayo ngakumbi ukuba kufanekisela iqhina lomtshato womelele.

Seminyaka emithathu-isikhumbuzo suku wamnika igama umtshato yesikhumba yomtshato. Mingaphi iminyaka kodwa Kwathi ukuze kuzuzwe yinyanga ebalulekileyo ngakumbi? Kwanele. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka itheko lomtshato yesikhumba, ngenxa yokuba abo batshatayo - lusuku ebalulekileyo nekulula.

Ingaba umxholo waminyaka lanikwa kuba kwiminyaka edlulileyo ayebuthathaka nephepha, kwaye isikhumbuzo wesithathu - oko luphawu elungileyo, oko okubonisa ukuba yobunzima likhoboka ziphelile, kwaye sibini uye wafunda ukuba bhetyebhetye ngakumbi ukujonga izinto ezifana imveliso yesikhumba, ubudlelwane ziye thile ngakumbi.

iminyaka emithathu yomtshato angafanele yokubhiyozela ngokumangalisayo kakhulu, nto asinto isikhumbuzo. Yanele ukuba anikele ingqalelo omnye komnye, akuba athandileyo makangakhohlisi entle, ezenziwe ngesikhumba elungileyo. Kakade ke, ukuba umphefumlo ubuza iholide, ngoko sinako ukumema iindwendwe kukubhiyoza ngovuyo yesikhumba yomtshato, ewonga abaselula iimpahla ezimbalwa ngesikhumba.

sekudlule iminyaka emithathu, yintoni umtshato angenza ntoni ngaphandle close ... Umeme ngokuzithandela ziquka zonke abamenyiweyo ababe kumtshato, ukuba kubhiyozelwe isiganeko ngokwaneleyo kunye nabazali kunye namangqina mbhiyozo, kodwa yinto nje ngabanye, ngako oko akufuneki ukuba ulahle kude amacebiso.

Iindwendwe azifanele zilibale ukuba siyavuyisana yesikhumba womtshato eya sibini, ngoko ke izipho kufuneka kuba usapho, kunokuba iqabane ngalinye ngokwahlukeneyo. Ukunika kunokuba ifenitshala yesikhumba, imizobo imizobo, nezincedisi ekhaya. Ukuba kukho umnqweno ukunika unengxowa yemali okanye X., kuyimfuneko ukuba ukukhetha ezimbini kwezi zinto zincinane, ukunika indoda nomfazi.

Ququzelela umbhiyozo seminyaka emithathu-isikhumbuzo imfuneko, ngokungqinelana kunye nomxholo. Hombisa itafile limi izinto yesikhumba, ukudibanisa imihombiso kunye naphakathi ingaphakathi. Mihle ngakumbi uya kukhangela izambatho aselula iimveliso zothwathwa ukuba uya kukuvuyela iindwendwe, wazimisa batshatayo fashion oyifunayo. Naliphi na iqela ukuncwasa weendawo ngala "oo," yaye ukuba kukho usuku lomtshato, lo mcimbi uya kuba ingane ngakumbi.

Kodwa oko akuzange ukuba iminyaka emithathu bomtshato kwenziwa yedwa, amalungiselelo ngokwako iholide umdla. Enye indlela esebenza kakhulu ngofele yomtshato aya kutyelela izitali apho kunokwenzeka ukuba amalungiselelo bekhwele emahasheni kwi ngaphandle komzi. Olu hambo luya kunika eninzi iimvakalelo alibaleke babuya zeholide ibe uhambo ukuya kwimbali. A inzuzo ethile yombhiyozo esinjalo kuba isimemo umfoti professional thatha ukhwele ihashe. Kule meko nje akwazi ukuchitha ixesha ilibaleke, kodwa ukufaka memory ngomzuzu. Ngokuhlwa, ukuze kuqatshelwe kunye, sinandipha omnye komnye yaye eqonda ukuba umtshato usemncinci kakhulu, kodwa bangaphi ngakumbi ukuya.

iminyaka emithathu umtshato luthathwa ziyakungahoywa nkqu amazwe, ingakumbi xa kuthelekiswa amashumi eminyaka, kodwa nangona kunjalo ke olo suku ukuba ukutshata, abangazange nokuba phawula indlela fast zibaleke iminyaka emithathu. Kubo, eli xesha sele idlule ngokukhawuleza kwaye zidlula, kubonakala ngathi, ngosuku lomtshato bekuyizolo. Sekunjalo iinkumbulo fresh kwaye zonke iinguqu ezithi zenzeke kakhulu kancinane.

Isikhumba wedding - yinto nje ithuba ukuze zinike nolunye usuku kunye namanye, isibhengezo uthando nikela ingqalelo enkulu isiqingatha sayo sesibini, nto leyo ecaleni iminyaka emithathu sele idlule ukususela kumhla womtshato. Ngapha koko, siyaqaphela amehlo abengezelayo uthando luya kuba isipho ilungileyo ukuba libe isikhumbuzo, futhi uya kuba nako ngokukhanyisa kwiminyaka ezayo ubomi kunye.