Kuthetha ntoni "ukwenza" okanye "abenza": isitampu kwi yokundwendwela, ubume ekuhlaleni, okanye nje endibanweni?

Amaninzi kwi social networks ungabona iwonga 'abenza "okanye" benza "kwi kwisicelo umsebenzisi othile. Yiva malunga onjalo imeko yentsapho banokuba ebomini. Noko ke, asinguye wonke umntu uyazi, oko kuthetha ntoni ukuba 'Engaged ", ezama ukucacisa le lwesimo ezininzi engalunganga. Ngendlela, rhoqo kwi-Internet yaye ebomini, le nto yahlukile kwi intsingiselo imbono yokuba ulahlekisa World abasebenzisi Wide Web. Kodwa abanye bakholelwa ukuba ubume "abenza" nje kuthetha ukuba ayavuma inkazana ezamahala, ukuba unalo boyfriend. Ukanti ntoni "wenza" okanye "wenza" kwi social networks yaye ebomini?

Yintoni uthethathethwano

Ngokubanzi, uthethathethwano - yiyo le imini xa abathandi ngokuqinileyo isigqibo ukutshata, kodwa inxaxheba Russian kucingelwa ukuba umhla isicelo kunobhala, emva koko namatakane banikwa inyanga ukuba bacinge baze balungiselele emtshatweni. Ukususela ngomhla kwisibini yothethathethwano ekunokuthiwa umtshakazi nomyeni. Le umyeni idla inika umtshakazi i zegolide yothethathethwano (ikakhulu isanqa) njengophawu ubunzulu iinjongo zabo. Ubuqabane obakhiwayo kuthathwe ingxelo isigqibo kwiintsapho kunye nabahlobo (ilizwi emlonyeni ukusasazeka, njengoko batshovo), yaye emva kokuba isicelo kunobhala ukulungiselela ulwamkelo festive. Ngokuqhelekileyo wondamkela kwi sihlandlo lingenabukhazikhazi kwaye ingakumbi grand, ezo ke isiko elifanayo West, kunye namasiko ookhokho bethu.

A incinane

ERashiya, kwagqitywa ekubeni amalungiselelo nokubandakanywa ngaphambi komtshato, nokuba ukuba wenze oku kuyimfuneko ukuba uqiniseke. Inkqubo ukufikelela lonke emtshatweni yayiquka ukuthandana, yokubandakanyeka ke kuphela emva kokuba isithembiso. Ngoko, emva kokuba uyise lomtshakazi wavuma ukuba ukucela isandla intombi yakhe, namatakane banelungelo ucinge ngayo ngomtshato.

Kokuba wenze isigqibo sokuba ukutshata, kufuneka aqale azise abazali ubanike intlanganiso, ukuze entsatsheni kufutshane ukuxoxa zonke iinkcukacha umtshato ezizayo, kwakunye elizayo ubomi bentsapho (ixesha kunye nendawo mbhiyozo, inani iindwendwe, apho nendlela yokuphila abo batshatayo njl njl). abazali umyeni samenywa endlwini umtshakazi phantsi azisebenzisele, kodwa oyinyaniso waza wathabatha apho iimbeko nezaphetha. Umyeni naye ukuza kutyelela ephaca, kwaye ukunika umtshakazi itshefu, ngomsesane okanye enye izacholo. Umtshakazi efanayo kakhulu ebengekho ngexesha elinye, kodwa ekupheleni ngokuhlwa, waphuma, ukuthatha izipho waza wamnika into yexabiso kumyeni wayo elizayo. Eli siko ngokuba entengo umdla. Ukususela kumhla okukhona ngaphambi komtshato umyeni ukubona umtshakazi kufuneka angabi. Hi ndlela leyi, kweli xesha lethu ngokufuthi yonke into ihamba ngokwendlela le meko efanayo. Emva kokuba isibini okukhona usebenza zincwadi. Kwaye ngoko unga 'ukuvumela amarhe "malunga umtshato ezizayo kubahlobo wathi kanye kuthethathethwano. Nazi oko kuthethwa "Ukwenza" okanye "wenza" ngokwenene.

Owenza kwi Internet

Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, iiwebhsayithi zokunxibelelana iye kusefashonini ukubonisa isimo sakho yabucala "Ukwenza" okanye "ezibandakanya". Yintoni imeko enjalo, Kakade, kodwa esi status nje abeke ezo zibini ulwalamano iye yathatha ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo, yaye oko akuthethi ukuba ube kwithuba ungatshatanga. Ngoko ke, i-Internet akukho mfuneko profiles ingakumbi ukuthembana kwaye ezicaciswe data zabo kwaye kufuneka nje ukubuza ngqo sibini ngesimo sabo zomtshato.

isiphelo

Ngoku uyazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini 'Engaged "kunye" benza ", kubalulekile ukuqwalasela: musa Uwaphose nje amazwi alambathayo kuwo umoya, exelela wonke umntu malunga nemeko usapho azikho kwa-ukubakho, kungcono ukuya kungena amanyathelo uzakubuyela amagama abo kunye nezenzo!