Gca: ngokufumanisa ngesandla, njengoko kuya kuba abantwana

Nokuxela ithamsanqa, nokuvumisa ngesandla, abantwana - la magama ukuba bebesoloko umdla kubo bonke. ukuba abameli Uninzi abaphulaphuli nemazi phambi ucwangciso nzala ochaphazelekayo ukuba umlinganiselo wenzala elizayo. Eyona ndlela ilula kakhulu eqhelekileyo ukufumana impendulo yombuzo ngokufumanisa ngesandla, njengoko baya abantwana unika gca. Le nkqubo elula, kufuneka nje ukuba siqwalasele ngenyameko izandla zabo. Yokubhula ilingane ngezandla zozibini, kodwa imigca uphawu isakhono inani labantwana ziboniswa kwi icala lasekhohlo, kwaye inani ezona kubonisiwe kwi ekunene.

Njengoko ezaziwayo ngesandla, bangaphi abaya kuba abantwana? Ukuze uqale ukufumana kwisandla sasekhohlo Mercury yenduli. Le ndawo ibekwe phantsi Ucikicane. iilayini ezithe nkqo isencinane kangaka kweli nqanaba yaye zibonisa inani labantwana. Ukuzinzisa le oodwi nga kuthathwa ikamva lomntwana. imigca ezicacileyo zinzulu zikho ubomi obusempilweni, impumelelo obanelisayo. lichaza elifutshane ezingacacanga ukuthetha malunga neentlungu, nokufa phambi kwexesha okanye ukuphuphuma (isisu). Oodwi eluhlobo unobumba V zibonisa amawele. groove Fine yesi intombazana, kwaye elide - lo mfana. Malunga umntu amisele ixesha ukuvela abantwana abazalwa. Ukuze wenze oku, kufuneka ukuba ayahlule ngengqondo ube zahlulo zithathu lekhefu phakathi encotsheni yenduli ka Mercury phesheya kunye nomgca intliziyo. iqhekeza nganye malunga neminyaka engama-20. Ngeliphi lokuphumla iya kuba iilayini ezithe nkqo ukuba ubudala kufuneka silindele nezongezo kusapho.

Kodwa ukubhula ezinokuba kuphela sinika impendulo umbuzo malunga bangaphi abantwana baya kubakho. Mfazi, enkosi iindlela zale mihla zokucwangcisa kunye nenkqubela zonyango ungasoloko ukungenelela ngokwabo ngethuba lale nkqubo. Ngoko ke, ukuba kukho inani ngodwi ibonisa inani lamathuba ukuba babe nabantwana, kuquka isisu. Imigca eboniswe icala, kwanokuba xa nisaqala yokukhulelwa, xa umfazi ayikho nokuba uyazi imeko yabo. Kubonakala, impendulo yombuzo kanjani kuyo isandla, ukuba uya kuba abantwana abaninzi, enkosi intende kakhulu engenasizathu, kunye mhlawumbi ngqiqweni. Ukungabikho ngodwi kwi ngesandla ukuba kuthi yokunqongophala abantwana. Oku kube ngumqondiso ukungabikho umnqweno yendalo ukuba nabantwana.

Oku waphawula ukuba amaqabane kufuneka aningabo oonyana umgca enye. Ngoko ke, kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo nemivalo, sasivela kumgca emtshatweni. Oku kuya kuba sisalathisi echanekileyo ukuzalwa komntwana lowo.

Kuba abantu, impendulo yombuzo kanjani kuyo isandla, bangaphi abaya kuba abantwana, ukuba unalo ukutyhilwa eyahlukileyo kancinane. Ezi imivalo kufuneka Mercury endulini kunye elingangesandla somntu. Kodwa ukucacisa inani labantwana, leyo ebomini bakhe, uya kuba qha yaye uya alibophe ngamandla. Ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo, umntu unokuba izihlandlo eziliqela otshatileyo, banabantwana "kwicala" okanye ngongazaliyo. Kunokuba sibe ngabantwana zendalo njengowabo (kubandakanywa godchildren, abatshana, nabantwana kumtshato wangaphambili umfazi wakhe). Abo wambhinqisa ulwalamano Unxulumano olusondeleneyo, ukushiya uphawu esandleni sakhe.