Ikhono labantwana

Ubungakanani bombutho - ubuchule bokusebenzisa izenzo zabo, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo bafumana amalungelo ahlukeneyo oluntu, ukwenza imisebenzi ethile kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, bayayifeza. Ngaba abemi bayakwazi nini? Emva koko, xa kukho ukukhululwa okanye bafikelele kubantu abadala, oko kukuthi, iminyaka elishumi elinesibhozo ubudala.

Ingcamango yomthetho osemthethweni akufanele idideke kunye nomgaqo wobunzima bomthetho. Umba wukuthi amandla omthetho yithuba kuphela lokuba namalungelo, kodwa ukuba angawafumani. Umntu unako ukulungela ukuzalwa.

Ngokukhululwa kukuthetha inkqubo yokumemezela ukuba uneminyaka elishumi elinesithandathu ubudala. Izizathu zalo zihlukile: umtshato, sebenza kwisivumelwano somsebenzi kunye njalo njalo.

Umthamo wezomthetho wabantwana abangazange bafikelele kwiminyaka eyi-14 (ababizwa ngokuba yi-juveniles) aphezulu. Ukuthengiselana kwabo kungenziwa kuphela ngabazali. Konke oku kungenxa yokuba abantu abangazange bafikelele kwixesha elikhankanywe ngasentla, kodwa abazange baqulunqe i-psyche kwaye abakwazi ukwahlula ngokwenene izenzo ezenziwayo ezimbi.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho mntu uthelekisa umntwana oneminyaka emithathu ukuya kweso sibini esele elishumi elinesibini. Kukholelwa ukuba isigaba sokuqala sokukhula siqala iminyaka emithandathu. Kuze kube kulo nyaka, amandla okusebenza ayenzi, ngokufikelela kwawo ilungelo lokuwenza iintengo ezincinci (ezincinci kuphela) zentengiselwano. Akufanele idibaniswe nesidingo sokwazisa, kunye nokufumana izibonelelo eziphathekayo. Zijoliswe ekudibaneni iimfuno zemihla ngemihla. Ngesixa-mali ayingabalulekanga.

Abantu abatsha banelungelo elipheleleyo lokulahla iimali ezinikezwe ngabanye. Ngelo xesha, ukulawulwa ngabameli bezomthetho kungabikho ngqo.

AmaNgqina angenalo igunya lomthetho. Oku kuthetha ukuba abaxanduva lwezenzo zabo. Ngubani ojongene nabo? Ewe, abameleli abasemthethweni.

Kwenzeka ntoni xa ufikelela kwiminyaka eyi-14? Ukususela kumncinci abaya kuba ngabantwana. Ukukwazi kwabo ukwenza oko kwanda. Ngemvume yabameli bezomthetho, banokwenza nayiphi na into yokuthengiselana.

Ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-14, abemi baqala ngokukhululeka ukulahla imali yabo. Banokufumana iikopi zobunini nawuphi na umsebenzi wobugcisa, isayensi, ukuveliswa, njl njl.

Umthamo osemthethweni wabantwana kule meko ubavumela ukuba babe ngamalungu omashishini. Kwezinye iimeko, bangabandakanyeka kwiintsebenziswano. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba abantwana banokubandakanyeka kwiintlobo ezithile zezenzo zabasebenzi ukususela kwiminyaka emithandathu. Kuthi malunga nemisebenzi yeesksi, imboni yefilimu kunye njalo.

Umthamo wabantwana kule meko ubizwa ngokuba yingxenye. Ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-14 banomthwalo wengozi eyenziwe. Enyanisweni, kwiimeko ezininzi, ibuyiselwa ngabameli bezomthetho, kodwa oku akubaluleke kakhulu, kuba i-juvenile isabonwa njengexanduva.

Ikhono elikhethekileyo labantwana libenza babe nexanduva kwizenzo zabo, oko kuthetha ukuba banokugwetywa phantsi kweCandelo leNkqubo yePalato. Masiqaphele ukuba ngenxa yolwaphulo-mthetho, uxanduva lolwaphulo-mthetho seluvele luvela kwiminyaka elishumi elinesine.

Iminyaka elishumi elinesibhozo iyakuminyaka apho umntu ebonakala ukuba unako ukukwazi ngokupheleleyo. Ukukhula kwengqondo apha akukho nto. Ingaba umntu unako ukukhawulelwa kumandla? Ewe, inako. Umzekelo, ngenxa yengxaki yengqondo. Yona kuphela inkundla engammangalela.