Indlela yokutyala umntwana nzima-yokusebenza: Imizekeliso malunga amavila kunye nomsebenzi

Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, abantu abakha ubuvila ngomzekeliso umsebenzi ngethemba ukuba intsingiselo efihliweyo la mazwi elifutshane, kunceda kwimfundo imilinganiselo yokuziphatha abantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Nangona imizekeliso emininzi ayikho ikhulu leminyaka, amandla abo nangoku aliguquguquki. Yiyo loo nto ootitshala abaninzi kwengqondo abazali ukujoyina abantwana babo ukuba la mazwi izilumko ukuqalela kwimfundo yabantwana yasekuqaleni.

A hlabathi lizaliswe izilingo

Ingxaki abantu namhlanje kukuba inkqubela information technology kuye bavunyelwe ukuba bangene ekhaya yonke. Kwaye ngoku abantwana besebancinane ukufikelela kwimidlalo kunye multimedia zokuzonwabisa. Womdlalo kwezi zibonelelo impucuko, bayalibala ngokupheleleyo ngemfundo, nokuzeyisa-uphuhliso kunye nabazali. Ngamafutshane, ukuba amkele ubuvila kunye ukungakhathali, kwaye kule minyaka le meko uya kufumana kuphela mandundu.

Ekugqibeleni, ungenza ukukhulisa umntwana, oko kukuthi, njengoko bathi, umnwe akuthethi hit. Kufuneka ke ngoko ukuba kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuthetha malunga ubuvila engumzekeliso abantwana nje rhoqo. Yaye ukuba isiphumo ngokukhawuleza kubo, kodwa baya kuba nako ukuhlwayela imbewu ubulumko ezintliziyweni zabo, kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha iza athwale isiqhamo.

IMizekeliso ngabantwana amavila. Kutheni kubalulekile ukuba ukulibala ngabo?

Umzali - yinkqubo entsonkothileyo kakhulu, njengoko kuyimfuneko ukuphoswa mzuzu ekunene, yaye-ukufundisa re umntwana iya kuba nzima kunene. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka accustom ndingusisi umthendeleko ngokupheleleyo kunye kwiinyanga ezili-12. Yaye ukuba kubonakala ukuba umntwana akaqondi la mazwi, ukuya kwiminyaka emi-2 ka olo qeqesho luya ukubonisa iziphumo.

Amaqhalo ngezi nobuvila kunye nabasebenzi kufuneka kwakhona isetyenziswe njengendawo izinto zokufundisa. Le ndlela iza kunceda ukulungisa ezingqondweni zabo imilinganiselo yokuziphatha nebaluleke kakhulu wonke umntu. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukuba angenise olu lwazi ngohlobo lula kwaye khetha qhalo malunga ubuvila ezibonisa kakhulu ngokucacileyo kakuhle eli ngxaki.

Kungcono usebenzise ezo ngxelo, apho imifanekiso kunye nezafobe ezisetyenzisiweyo. Umzekelo: "iimpuku ikati Lazy ukubamba." Ngoko ke umntwana musa nje ngokubona kakuhle eli qhalo malunga ubuvila, kodwa khumbula umfanekiso ikati, abakwazi kuzixhasa ngenxa sobuvila yabo.

Omnye umzekelo omhle ilizwi eli: ". Ukususela ubuvila sene moss" Kwakhona, apha kugxininiswa yokuba ubuvila - yinto embi kakhulu. Nomfanekiso imiphumela engasi iya kuba elide engqondweni yomntwana.

Indlela pick up umzekeliso malunga lobuvila?

Ngokubanzi, onke amazwi obu uhlobo zingahlulwa zibe ngamaqela amabini amakhulu. Owokuqala uthetha yinzuzo yabasebenzi, kwaye eyesibini ibonisa ubuvila kwi ukukhanya negative. Zombini kakuhle ekukhuliseni abantwana, ngoko ke kungcono ukuba ukudibanisa ezi maqela mabini.

Ngoku khangela kule mizekelo ngempumelelo izaci nezafobe ukuba baye bakwazi ukufikelela namhlanje:

• "Umsebenzi abantu ukondla, kodwa wonqena kakhulu ukuba bonakaliswe." Omnye veza kwecacileyo, akunyanzelekanga ukuba ingcaciso elide.
• 'Cause ixesha - ixesha fun ". Mzekeliso kulula ukuba ukukhumbula, elungileyo kakhulu kubantwana abaselula.
• "Bee kude ngaphaya nethontsi iimpukane yobusi." Enye mzekeliso elihle, nako ukwenza umfanekiso ocacileyo ngqondweni yomntwana.
• "Ngubani na izityalo -. Enyanisweni, yaye akukho nati" Umzekelo onguwo leyo ebonisa iqela ", ngesiphumo inyathelo."
• "Yintoni na umsebenzi - ngoko ke intlawulo." Le ntetho isetyenziswa kakuhle nje impendulo-indumiso umsebenzi wenziwe.

Indlela ukubeka imizekeliso abantwana?

Nangona amaqhalo ngezi wonqena kunye nabasebenzi kufuneka isetyenziswe uqeqesho esemncinane, simele sikhumbule ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukuqonda amagama amaninzi. Ngoko ke, luxanduva ngqo abazali - ukucacisa ixabiso ingxelo ukuba umntwana wakho ngendlela eqondakalayo kuye.

Kufuneka kwakhona usebenzise umzekeliso malunga nobuvila kwincoko yesiqhelo. Oku kuya kubonisa umntwana wakho ukuba abadala bathobele imithetho lusekiwe. Le ndlela iza kukhokelela kukuba umntwana ukuze uqhele i izaci nezafobe ukuba babe yinxalenye yobomi bakhe. Ngenxa yoko, yena kuva ukhumbula ukuba utshabalalisa livila umsebenzi nesidima zabantu.