Yintoni ukwenza umntwana

Imidlalo, leyo zibanjwa umntwana ngendlela efanelekileyo, oko kukuthi, ukususela kwiminyaka yokuqala, qiniseka ukuba abe isibambiso esihle, ikamva lakhe nempumelelo, njengoko kuthetha kakhulu ekukhuleni komntwana.

Xa kuvela ingxaki, yintoni ukuba simthini na umntwana, ngcono kukhetha ukuba imisebenzi enjalo nje ukonwabisa kuyo, nento ukuba afundise, uloliwe yokucinga, inkumbulo, intetho, logic. Kwaye Kwakunzima, ukuba badlale seminyaka emibini okanye emithathu ubudala kuthatha nje imizuzu embalwa, eyona nto ibalulekileyo - isiphumo.

Ngoko ke, ukuba benze ntoni na umntwana iinyanga 12-15 ukuze kube mnandi and luncedo? Ngoko umntwana, athanda push zokudlala (umz, umatshini). Kuyimfuneko kuphela ukuba ababonise indlela yokuyenza: "! Omnye, ababini, abathathu - push". Niqhayisa kukwazi ukuba bona ngokwabo ziye zabangela intshukumo wesifundo kunye kwangaxeshanye zokuphuhlisa ulungelelaniso ndlela, ukuzithemba enjalo.

Nge abantwana abadala ufuna ukudlala imidlalo ezikhula ingqalelo, kwaye inkumbulo, kwaye ukucinga. Ukukhetha, khangela ngononophelo ukuba, ukuba simthini na umntwana, kuyenzeka ukuba usebenzise ekhoyo sele imidlalo bakhe, imifanekiso, naziphi na izinto. Umzekelo, ukuba kukho ikhadi zipeyintwe izinto kufuneka lunikwe ukulungiselela ngokwamaqela ezinye iimpawu okanye susa umfanekiso okungalungelaniyo umxholo. Kunqweneleka ukuba izenzo zabo nezigqibo esivakalayo umntwana ngokuvakalayo. Lo msebenzi uza kunceda ukuba kwixesha elizayo bokucinga ngokuqiqisisisayo kwezinye iimeko.

Xa ukhetha into yokwenza nomntwana ekhaya, ungahlala ubulungisa olityelweyo theatre kwikhaya yanamhlanje. Ideal ukusebenzisa isikhuseli-unodoli ngaye, njengoko umntwana ebona banxibe yayo ingalo, njengoko waba ngumfuziselo ubuntu bakhe. Ethetha egameni zokudlala, kulula ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo zabo, uloyiko, ubonise icala ezifihliweyo.

Xa ucinga ngento oza kuyenza umntwana, musa ukulibala ngehlabathi. Emva koko, kungakhathaliseki ukuba mnandi igumbi umdlalo kunye neencwadi ezikrelekrele, akukho ngaphantsi umdla isithuba baby - yinto esitratweni. Naliphi na ukuhamba okanye uhambo kunye nenqubo eyiyo ukusuka esiphezulu angawasebenzisa kuba izifundo olukhulu umvuzo. Nabantwana abancinci kakhulu ungenza ngokubaleka, kudlala hide nifune, bonke izimvo phezu oko bakubonayo. Ukususela kwiminyaka emibini, abantwana bayakwazi ukuhlawula ingqalelo iintaka zicula, isandi umoya, utshintsho kwindalo, ezinxulumene ixesha lonyaka.

Ngethamsanqa, i ngaphantsi kufuneka ukubambana ukuba yintoni ezakwenziwe malunga nomntwana ehlotyeni. Le ncwadi iya kuphuma inani elikhulu imidlalo ngaphandle kuyo yonke iminyaka yobudala. Ukongeza, ziba nje umzimba amandla kid, kodwa iliso elungileyo, ukuva isingqi kunye nokukwazi ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza ukubonisa elula, ngokuchanileyo ibale izenzo zabo. imidlalo edlalelwa kumnceda umntwana ndidlalele iqela, ifunde ukusebenzisana ngamandla kwaye ngexesha elinye ukunxibelelana ngoxolo kunye noontanga babo.

Ngokuba abantwana ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kunyaka omnye ubudala iiklasi abanjalo becala aziphelelanga imithambo, ukufunda ukukhasa, ukudada, yimani uze uhambe.

Abasafunda ukuhamba ukusuka kwelinye ukuya ezimbini Kwakumnandi ukudanisa umculo, boyise ibala lemiqobo, amalungiselelo kwigumbi izinto ukudlala, "hide kwaye bafune" "ukubamba-up 'e imidlalo yeminwe, ekhatshwa vesi umdla.

Oko kukuthi, ekhulile umntwana lowo, kokukhona uluhlu zonke iintlobo ukuzilolonga.

Enoba ifomu iiklasi khetha abazali, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba umdlalo itakane efunda. Ngoncedo waso ufumana isiphumo kwezonyango kulo kuzibonakalisa ngendlela efanayo abadala baveze izimvo zabo ngokusebenzisa intetho. Ukuba umntwana basiqonda, wavuma abaphezulu, nemiphumo konwaywa umdlalo zinokukhuliswa amaxesha amaninzi, weyisayo ngaphakathi apho, igqitha imeko neurosis, nokukhawulezisa ukukhula kunye nophuhliso.