Indlela yovuyisana nabatshatanga abasemshadweni

Ukuba uye wakwazi ukuya emtshatweni, mhlawumbi wawuqaphela ukuba uninzi, kwaye mhlawumbi zonke izipho kubantu abasandul 'ukutshata babengenanto yokuqala, kwaye amazwi okuncoma ngamagama athile agugile aye ave Awufuni ukuba yimpunga kwaye ufuna ukumangaliswa nabasandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa ngobungqina obungavamile, kodwa abazi ukuba bangakwenza njani? Enyanisweni, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuphumeza le ngcamango, ufuna nje ukufaka ingcamango yakho. Ukuba ayikusebenzelanga kakuhle kuwe, okanye ukuba unesilumko ukuseka into ethile, eli nqaku liza kukuxelela indlela yokuvuyisana nabasandul 'ukutshata kwintsusa, ngoko ukuba oku kusisipho esisikhumbulekayo.

Kutheni kufuneka ufike ngokubongela kwangaphambili

Ezinye iindwendwe ziqala ukucinga ukuba zinikwe kwaye zithini amagama kumadoda asanda kutshata, ngaphambi komtshato wabo. Oku akunjalo ngokuchanekileyo. Emva koko, ekugqibeleni kuya kuba ngathi: iindwendwe ziza ngokukhawuleza zithetha ntoni, mhlawumbi sele zivele kumtshato ngokwazo okanye zifunde inkondlo ecacileyo kunye nekhadi leposi elithengwe kwi-kiosk yokuqala. Abanye abantu abakwazi ukwenza oku ngaphandle kwe-hitch. Ngenxa yoko, bambalwa abantu abaphulaphule ukuvuyiswa, kwaye xa bephulaphula, kunzima kwabanye ukuba baqonde. Kakade ke, abasandul 'ukutshata baya kuvuyela ukuva amazwi afudumele awayebhekiswe kuwo, kwaye baya kuvuya xa ulungiselela ukuthetha kwakho kwangaphambili. Emva koko, kwenzeka ukuba emva koko uqonda ukuba awuzange uthethe kakhulu kubasandul 'ukutshata, kodwa umzuzu, njengoko bethetha, sele ulahlekile.

Ukuvuyiswa okulungeleyo ukuba kuyimfuneko xa ivela ekuqaleni kwaye ihluke kuzo zonke ezinye. Abantu baphulaphula ngokucima, kwaye oku kuyinyaniso. Ngako oko, kulungele ukusebenza kancinci, ukuchitha ixesha lakho elixabisekileyo ukuza kunye nokuthabatha indlela yokuncoma abantu abasanda kutshata.

Yintoni okufanele ibe ngumbukiso womtshato?

Ukuvuyisana ngokukhululekile kunemibono yabo yokuba ezinye iindwendwe aziqwalasela ngentetho yabo, ngenxa yoko, omnye umenyiwe kunye nomtsha osanda kutshata baqala ukukrakra. Ukuze ugweme oku, kufuneka ukwazi ezi ngongoma. Ngoko, umele umkhwa womtshato?

Okokuqala, unyanisekileyo. Ukuvuyisana okuvela entliziyweni, kuya kuba mnandi ukuva amawaka amaxesha kunokugqithisa okanye ukukhumbula amagama. Kungcono ukuthetha oko uvakalelwa kwaye ucinge kunokuzifunda into ethile phantsi kwempumlo yakho kwiphepha lephepha. Ewe, unokwenza ishidi lokukopela, kodwa kuphela kwimeko enye. Umzekelo, ukuba inkondlo yayinobumba bayo. Ukuba sithetha ngale nto ngaphambi kokuyifunda, iindwendwe kunye nabasandul 'ukutshata banokukhawuleza bevale indlebe zabo.

Okwesibini, ukuvuyiswa akufanelekanga. Akwanele ukuvuyisana nabatshatangaleyo emtshatweni, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela ixesha eliya kufuneka ukuba liphunyezwe. Akukho mntu unomonde okwaneleyo ukuphulaphula ukuphela kwentetho, egcina imizuzu eyi-10. Ubunzima kunye nokukhanya - ezi zimbini ziyinxalenye yesandi esihle somlomo.

Okwesithathu, kufuneka ube mnqweno, ukhethe amagama okuvuyisa. Ngokomzekelo, akufanelekile ukukhankanya iinkcukacha ezinobungqina obuvela kwintombazana yobomi bentombazana okanye umyeni uhamba kubafazi abahlukeneyo. Iinkcukacha ezinjalo ziya kwenza ukuba zive nzima kubabatshangelwe kuphela, kodwa nabazali babo, kwaye iholide iya kutshabalaliswa.

Ziziphi izipho ezinokuqala

• Ikhutshu yokuvakasha . Esi sisipho esihle kakhulu, ukuba abasandul 'ukutshata banqwenela ukuhamba kwaye abazange bathethe isigqibo sokuba bachitha phi i-honeymoon. Le nto nje ukunika iindwendwe zemizuzu yokugqibela, efuna ukuhamba nje eholide, akufanelekanga, ngakumbi ukuba awukwazi ukuba umyeni nomtshakazi baceba ukuhamba. Ngokuqhelekileyo, izalamane ezisondeleyo kuphela ziyakwazi ukuvuyisana nabasandul 'ukutshata kumhla womtshato , ngenxa yokuba esi sipho esibi kakhulu.
• Imoto . Ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba yisipho esisekuqaleni kunye nesimnandi, kungekhona wonke umntu oza kukhuphelela oku. Ukuba awunayo imali eyaneleyo yokuthenga imoto enye, cela enye yeendwendwe ukuba ikujoyine. Mhlawumbi wonke umntu amaphupha okufumana imoto njengomnikelo, ngoko ke abasandul 'ukutshata banokungonwabi ngokuthe ngolo hlobo. Unokuyigxina imoto ngqo kwindawo yokubhiyozela, kwaye unike abatsha abasanda kutshata kuphela okanye bamemele umyeni kunye nomtshakazi ukuba baphume esitrato, apho baya kubona imoto entsha entsha eboshwe ngesaphetha esikhulu.
• Imali . Amacawa awazange aphume ngefashoni njengesipho kulo okanye kuloo mcimbi. Kodwa ukuba zinikelwa nje kuphela kubabenzi bembhiyozo kwimvulophu okanye ngeposi, ayiyi kuba yintsusa. Ngezantsi, eli nqaku lichaza iindlela zokuvuyisana nomtshato osanda kutshata, ukuba isipho siyimali.
• Izitifiketi zenkxaso . Ukuba awufuni ukunika imali, unokunika umtshakazi kunye nomyeni isatifiketi sokuthenga into encedo: ifenitshala, izixhobo zombane okanye enye into. Ngoko uya kuphepha izipho ezingadingekile, kwaye abantu abaselula banokuzithengela oko bafuna ngokwenene ubomi babo bemihla ngemihla. Le ndlela iya kuhambelana nendlela yokubongela abasanda kutshata, abazali, abahlobo, izalamane kunye nezihlobo ezikude. Oku kukhetho jikelele.
• Trivia engavamile . Izinto ezinjalo kufuneka ukuba zisebenze. Abantu abasandul 'utsha abasayi kuyidinga isitulo sokuthanda umntu onyana. Oku, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngumnikelo ongaqhelekanga, kodwa kwindlela yokujonga ngayo, akakho konke. Eyona ndlela, abo basandul 'ukutshata baza kufaka isitatimende kwishelufu, ekubi kakhulu - bayakulibala ngokupheleleyo okanye baze bayithumele kwiinqwelo ezinobungozi. Ndingavuyisana njani nabasandul 'ukutshata, ukuba kuya kuba yinto engavamile kwaye isebenze ngexesha elifanayo? Ngokomzekelo, unokubonisa umfanekiso, isitya esikhulu sezityalo kwisiqhelo esingaqhelekanga okanye kwisiliva, apho okuza kubakho ukuqoshwa kweefomali zentsapho entsha. Kungaba nantoni na, gxininisa ukusetyenziswa kwezinto. Ngokomzekelo, bekungekho mfuneko ukunika umfanekiso ukuba zonke iindonga zendlu yomtshakazi nomyeni sele zifakwe kunye nabo.

Ziphi izipho aziyi kuba yintsusa

• Baubles ezingenamsebenzi . Sele sele zikhankanywe ngasentla, akukho nto yokongeza apha. Imizobo kunye neesimboli asiyisipho somtshato.
• Zixhobo zezindlu . Esi siza kusisipho esingasidlangalaleni, njengokuba kunjalo ngemali, ukuba uyayinika yona incinci. Ukongezelela, kwimpahla yendlu, umakoti nomyeni abakwazi ukulungisa iziphi na iziganeko okanye nokuba yinto leyo. Emtshatweni, kukho iimeko ezinjalo ukuba iindwendwe eziliqela zinikezwa iimpawu okanye i-multivarques. Ngaba ungabongelela njani abatshabatshati? Kulo mtshato kungcono ukubonisa isatifiketi sesipho, ukuze umakoti nomyeni bakwanelisekile.

Izipho zemali yoqobo

Imali, ngokusemgangathweni, inikezelwa nayiphi na iholide, kodwa yileyo ndlela iza kuhanjiswa ngayo, ukuqala kwenkcazo kuxhomekeke kuyo.

Unokuthatha isitena esiqhelekileyo uze ubophe iibhola ezimbalwa usebenzisa idibhoni enhle, ngelixa utsho ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuqala ukwakhiwa kwendlu entsha yentsapho.

Imithi yemali iya kuba yinto emangalisayo. Kwakunjalo ne-umbrella imali. Imali ingafakwa kwisikhwama okanye epopeni, apho iya kubhalwa khona: "Ibhanki Yentsapho".

Ukuba ucinga indlela epholile ngayo ukuvuyela isibini esitshatileyo, unako ukwenza i-ATM. Isiseko sithathwa ibhokisi enkulu, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kufuneka ihlotshwe ukuze ibonakale ifowuni yangempela. Abantu abasandul 'ukutshata baya kufuna ukufumana ikhadi ukusuka kwiATM, banqunyulwe, umzekelo, ukusuka kwikhadibhodi. Ukuze "imali", umtshakazi nomyeni baya kudlula iimvavanyo eziliqela okanye baphendule imibuzo. Imali inokukhishwa kwizitolimende kwisigaba ngasinye esadlulileyo okanye ekupheleni kwayo yonke imincintiswano.

Izixhobo zasekhaya njengesipho sokuqala

Njengoko kuchazwe ngasentla, izixhobo zendlu ziya kuba yinto engavamile, ukuba ngandlela-thile ikhethekileyo ukuyifaka. Apha unako kwaye kufuneka udibanise ukucinga kwakho. Iingcamango zokukwenza oku, ngokwenene, unokucinga ezininzi njengoko ufuna.

Umzekelo, kunye nomenzi wekhofi, unako ukunika i-slippers, apho umtshakazi nomyeni baya kufuneka bazise enye ikhofi ukuya kulala. Okanye unike ama-oranges amancinci asetsheni, apho kufuneka usebenzise ijusi elitsha, kwaye wenze kube lula ukuba benze oku, unike i juicer. Enye imbono enhle yindlela yokuvuyisa abasanda kutshata emtshatweni: nike i-vacuum cleaner, kwaye ngaphezu kwayo umshanelo kwaye nitsho into efana nale: "Ukuba i-vacuum cleaner ikhefu, ngoko unako ukusebenzisa i-old version - umrama, ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyi kukuyeka."

Ukuthokoza kwangaphambili ngaphandle kotyalo-mali

Ukuba unesizathu esithile asinayo indlela yokubongela abantu abaselula, okanye ufuna ukwenza isinamathiselo kwisipho esiziphathekayo, ngoko zihlala zikho iindlela zokwenza ngaphandle kokuchitha imali.

Njengendlela yokukhetha - ukuza kunye nomdwebo, umzekelo, ukubonisa ulwalamano lomyeni nomyeni okanye oko baya kuba bakudala. Ngenxa yokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uthathe iingoma eziza kubonakalisa, malunga nokuba yiyiphi into ecinga ngokubonakalayo emtshatweni. Ngokomzekelo, emva kwamagama: "Yintoni umyeni ophuphayo ngayo", faka ingqungquthela yoma ingoma ethi "Ukuba ndiyindoda", umtshakazi - "Kwimihlaba emine, ngenxa yezine ilanga", iindwendwe - "Ukuba kukho ulwandle lobhiya", "Sawubona kwi-bodun enkulu ". I-funnier ukukhethwa kweengoma, ngcono. Ukuba ucinga ukuba kuhle kangakanani ukuvuyisana nabasandul 'ukutshata, ngoko phantsi kweengoma onokugqoka kwiimpahla ezifanelekileyo.

Indlela yovuyisana ngaphandle kokuthetha esidlangalaleni

Ukuba awufuni okanye ukwesaba ukuthetha phambi kwenani elikhulu labantu, ngoko uyancoma kungenziwa ngendlela yekholaji okanye ividiyo, eya kubamba nayiphi na imeko ebomini yabasanda kutshata. Iifoto zinokuhamba kunye namazwi okuvuyela.

Unokwenza ngokwakho kwividiyo, apho uya kuvuyisana nomtshakazi nomyeni. Idibaniso enkulu iya kuba xa uyenza ngokuhlekisa, kwifomid yohlobo. Ngokomzekelo, unokwenziwa kwisitayela sikaSerge Gorely. Kodwa ukubingelela okunjalo kuya kuba bhetele ngakumbi kubahlobo bomtshato.

Ndiyakuvuyela ngendlela yomdwebo

Ukuba umtshakazi nomyeni banomdla wokuzihlaziya, ngoko unako ukuzidlalela. Thenga izitya ezithengiweyo, phakethe kwibhokisi uze uthi unike inkonzo eninzi kakhulu kwaye enhle kakhulu. Xa uyithwala umncinci, njengokungathi uyayilahla. Izitya ziya kuphuka, ndixelele ukuba kuyinhlanhla kwaye inika imali yokuthenga inkonzo entsha.

Ngenye indlela ukuvuyisana nabasanda kutshata? Hlanganisa iifoloki ezimbini zeklabishi kumaqabunga uze uphinde uhlangane, udibanise neebhanki ezintle. Nika kubancinci uze ubatshele ukuba kukho iifubs ezifihlakeleyo zesini ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba i-doll yowesifazane ifunyenwe kuqala, ngoko baya kuba nentombazana, ukuba indoda iyinkwenkwana. Xa ama-pups ayitholakali kwiklabishi, xelela umyeni kunye nomtshakazi into efana nale: "Abantu abakhulile, kodwa bakholelwa ukuba abantwana bakwiklabishi!" Bese unike abasanda kutshata isipho esiyinyani.

Njengesipho sesidlangalaleni ungenza izatifikethi okanye izatifikethi. Ngokomzekelo, izatifikethi zokuthengwa komfazi nomyeni, isitifiketi sokutya isidlo sakusihlwa okanye ukuqhuba umqhubi. Ungabhala imiyalelo emibili yomsindo wokunyamekela umlingane nomfazi. Umxholo wabo, umzekelo, uya kuba ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: thandana ethuneni, qhubeka ngezandla zakho, ukondla kakhulu, ungaboni, unike iingubo zoboya njalonjalo.

Siyakuvuyiswa ngentsingiselo

Nika umfazi nomyeni intlanzi ezimbini kunye ne-aquarium. Xa bewazisa khona, kuya kuba ngumqondiso wokuzalwa kwintsapho entsha. Imali ye-parasol ingabonakaliswa ngamagama: "Makungabikho imozulu ehlala njalo kwindlu yakho". I-Candy okanye i-chupa-chups enkulu iya kufanekisela ubomi obumnandi, kunye nesepha - uthando olumsulwa. Kuya kuba mnandi xa wenza isepha, kodwa ngaphakathi ngaphakathi ufihla imali, ngaphambi kokugubungelwa kwisikhwama esicacileyo.

Indlela yokuvuyisana ngokusebenzisa iitalente zakho

Ukuba ungumntu onetalente, unokusebenzisa le nto njengesipho. Mhlawumbi udweba iifoto ngokufanelekileyo, cula ngokugqibeleleyo okanye unokwenza imidaniso yaseMpuma. Inkondlo yokwakheka kwakho iya kuba isipho esihle.

Njengoko ubona, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuvuyisana nabatshatanga abatsha ngokuzalwa kweentsapho zabo. Into ephambili kukubandakanya ukucinga, iholide iya kuba yinto ecacileyo kwaye ikhunjulwe.