Kutheni abantwana musa ukulala ebusuku - ebangela kunye neendlela libeyise.

Mhlawumbi bonke abazali babantwana abasebancinane thalele lo mbuzo: "Kutheni abantwana musa ukulala ? Ebusuku" Bekuya kubonakala kusengqiqweni ukuba usana phantse lonke ixesha ukutya kunye nokulala. Ngoko enyanisweni khona! Kuyimfuneko ukuba rock iiyure ezimbini, ngoko ufuna ukulala kuphela izibambo, ngoko uvumbulula amaxesha amabini ebusuku, nto leyo abazali babo kwesiphazamiso ... Yintoni ingxaki? omama abaninzi abangenalwazi abazali kuthathwa ukukhalisa isivusi ukuba ukrokrela usana iintlobo zezifo, nangona kwiimeko ezininzi akukho eyoyikisayo kangaka.

Njengoko umthetho, izizathu kutheni abantwana musa ukulala ebusuku, maxa wambi eziliqela, cinga ngolungelelwano.

Unobangela osetyenziswe idla ukuvaleka kweli gumbi. Abazali ukoyika yokufumana kwiimvuthuluka ezibandayo, ngokoqobo "sofinyela-ukurhangqa" zonke neentanda, kwaye emoyeni bhe kunye nomntu omdala ukulala kakhulu. Kule meko ke kungcono ukuba ukunxiba usana ezifudumeleyo ebusuku nokugcina lobushushu obutofotofo kweli gumbi. Uze uqiniseke ukuba pholisa phambi lokulala.

Kwakhona ebangela ubusuku "ikonsathi" i yokulunywa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, le ingxaki abantwana phantsi iinyanga 3-4, lwasuswa ucwangciso olukhethekileyo, isisu efudumeleyo, yokuthanjiswa ngku uhlengahlengiso menu lokuncancisa unina okanye kukhethwe mxube echanekileyo.

Kwakhona unobangela ongunaphakade "kutheni abantwana musa ukulala ebusuku" kuyinto ... ingqalelo kakhulu. Ukuba usana Akabadeli imini kude kunye nomama, notata, usapho onothando, ufuna kakhulu ngokwendalo ingqalelo ebusuku.

Abazali abaninzi bakhalazela ukuba usana "kuxutywe up imini nobusuku." Kwenzeka, nangona ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana iinyanga 3-4 sele ukwahlula phakathi imini nobusuku. Ukuba usana lwakho Liyalala imini emnandi qwa ebusuku, kufuneka ngenyameko "ukuguqulela" kuyo. Ukuze wenze oku, musa ukuvumela iiyure ezinde zilala emini, nokuba ngaba kula mathuba lokuphumla okanye abathatha inxaxheba kwishishini. Ngobunono bangavuki, tsala iphupha elandelayo. Ukulala emoyeni ebaluleke kakhulu - emini lokuphumla angafanele kakhulu mnyama kwelo gumbi, ehamba phezu tiptoe, njl Kodwa ebusuku kufuneka ibe mnyama kunye nenzolo. Kwaye ingqalelo lwabazali ebusuku kufuneka ibe ncinci. Bembethe, wondla - bainki! Akukho mfuneko ukudlala umntwana, ukucula iingoma, intetho - kholwa ndim, akuthandayo, kwaye ke uya kuqalisa kufuna ukuba zonke ebusuku!

Hi ndlela leyi, zonke ezi ngxaki zichazwe ngentla apha isenokuba isizathu sokuba umntwana akabi zilala emini. Ukongeza, ukulala emini anokuphazamiseka ngenxa ukukhanya okuqaqambileyo, boqobo sasemini ingxolo. abantwana abadala abafuni zilala emini ngenxa imidlalo ihlombe, abafuni ukuba ukuphazanyiswa anomsebenzi ingabangeli efana ephupheni. Xa sincokola ngayo abantwana, idla emini umntwana iphaphamile kwakhona, kuba baqhele kwiimeko ezithile zilale okanye ulale ngokwayo. Ngoko baqhele ukulala kwi kid ezitalatweni rhoqo kodwa kufanelekile ukuba balale ekhaya emini.

Ngokubanzi, imithetho ebuthongweni abantwana ezimiselwe oogqirha babantwana ixesha elide. Ngokuba abantwana phantsi iinyanga ezintandathu ubuthongo norm - Iiyure 16-18 ngosuku. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oko kuyimfuneko ukuze umntu iiyure eziyi-20, yaye umntu ngokwaneleyo kwaye 14. Noko ke, unxaxho eliqele phambi udidi - isizathu ukubona ugqirha!

Ngokuba kwisiqingatha sonyaka-mali ka ubuthongo liye lancitshiswa iiyure 13-14 ngosuku, yaye kunyaka - ukuya kwiiyure 11-12. Kwakhona, bonke ngabanye.

Amaxesha amaninzi abazali ngoko abanamava, kutheni abantwana musa ukulala ebusuku, ukuba bayalibala malunga into eziphambili: abazali uzolile - baby ezolileyo. Incinci wena luvo, nesizathu sokuba loo mntwana, kwaye kwethu ebuthongweni bakhe.