Kutheni izinja ungathanda ikhotha ubuso bethu?

Eneneni, akukho nto imfihlelo enkulu kangaka. Kwiimeko ezininzi, izinja abantu njengophawu lothando. Ngoko ke, xa ubuso bakho liya kuthi kwakhona ibe phantsi umpu pet ulwimi, yazini oku: isilwanyana ntoni uncoma ukuze.

Yokukhotha njengendlela yonxibelelwano

Njengoko ngokunjalo ekhonkothayo, uzibandakanya sisixhobo ezininzi ekuziphatheni canine. Izilwanyana unokusetyenziswa ezahlukeneyo iinguqulelo ukutyhileka iimvakalelo ezithile. Kwiminyaka emininzi yophando, izazinzulu ziye zagqiba ukuba yokukhotha - yinto ithuku endalo ezinjeni. Noko ke, oko sikubonisa kwezinye izilwanyana ezininzi. Xa umama ilukhothayo njana wakhe, yena ithatha unonophelo wenzala. Kulo mzekelo, ukuseka uqhagamshelwano phakathi kwakhe amatakane. Uzibandakanya omnye komnye, baya kuza njana kuqala kwabantu.

Sijonge ngenxa yezizathu

Enyanisweni, oku kakhulu sisenzo ilula inzima kakhulu. Nazi izizathu ezimbalwa kutheni izinja ukubonisa nokukhotha ngokwemvelo:

• Ukuzama ukutsala izibonelelo. Ngamafutshane, le meko iya kuba ngumzekelo obalaseleyo njana isenzo esinjalo kwi uthsuphe sikanina ukuba balambile. Phakathi abadala ebuthathaka zingaqalisa ukuba, Zikhothe iinkokeli nethemba lokufumana yinxalenye ukutya.
• Ukudibana ne-bume. Ngandlel 'ithile, ulwimi inja uba intlola. Yena sisixhobo touch esinamandla yokuvavanywa izinto endhawini.
• Ukutsala ingqalelo. Maxa wambi izilwanyana abanalo unxibelelwano ngokwaneleyo kunye nomnikazi wayo. Emva koko bazama ukufumana ilukhothayo yakhe ingqalelo. Esi silwanyana kubonakala ukuba athi: "Hey, Ndilapha. Khangela indlela cute mna. Mhlawumbi uwampampathe kum? "
• Indlela yomdlalo. Esi sizathu ngokusondeleyo ukuya elinye elidlulileyo. Okokuqala pet Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uzama ukutsala ingqalelo, uze emva koko le nkqubo iya uhlobo of game.
• ukuziphatha Wafunda. Mhlawumbi ngempazamo ajike lo mkhwa ibe ingqikelelo yonke uqeqesho inja. Ukuba pet ufumana ingqalelo ngakumbi kunesiqhelo, emva kokuba isenzo isikhotha, eqalisa ukuba abone inzuzo kule nkqubo. Kamva, isilwanyana uza kuphinda izenzo zabo, ukuba kufumana inxalenye uyamthanda.

Ingaba ikhona ingxaki?

Kodwa kutheni ezinye izinja zithande nokukhotha kakhulu iinkosi zabo? Oku imiselwa, njengokuba umthetho, hayi kakhulu njalo qabane, njengomntu ukubukela kuye. Ngamanye amaxesha naliphi kubonakaliswa engamkelekanga ingqalelo inja sinokutshintshwa evakalayo umniniyo, njengoko kakhulu. Kulo mzekelo, kukho ngenene ingxaki enkulu. Noko ke, kumayelana akasiso isilwanyana. Sithetha ngayo kwingxaki ubudlelwane phakathi komntu osisilo-qabane sayo. Ekugqibeleni, ukuba inja ilukhothayo inkosi yakhe - oko kulungile. Lo mkhuba siyifumana uhlobo ezine yemilenze.

Kukho, Kakade ke, iimeko apho isilwanyana lithandwa ngokwenene isikhotha kakhulu kwinqanaba. iimpawu ezinjalo kungenzeka izinja bathwaxwa iintlobo ezithile yokuziphatha ukuba likhoboka lento ethile. Noko ke, izilwanyana ezininzi nokuphazamiseka ezifanayo mancinane lula ukunxibelelana. Oku kuthetha ukuba phantse ukuba awunazo umkhwa nokukhotha.

Ukuba ucingela kukho ukuziphatha ezingaqhelekanga qabane lakho, abanini inja bayakhuthazwa ukuba baqhagamshelane ugqirha wakho. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ezi-esinemilenze emine kufumana unyango ngempumelelo.