Kutheni umntwana akabi ukuthetha

Ngoko nangoko gxininisa: Ukuba umntwana wakho uyala ukuthetha phambi kweminyaka emithathu, ukusuka kwindawo namhlanje asijonge, i-World Health Organization, oko kungajongwa ngezifo okanye abakhubazeke zophuhliso. Ngaphezu koko, ixesha ngakumbi xa singenelayo, kukho ubungqina ngakumbi esalatha yokuba nje uphuhliso lwabantwana ekuqaleni wenza okubi ngaphezu kunokulungileyo.

Esona sizathu siphambili sokuba esi simanga, ukwala umntwana ukuba athethe usaqala, i imbono ulwazi ngeelwimi ezahlukeneyo. Amaxesha amaninzi ngoko wayiphawula kwiintsapho engumxube, apho abazali kunye nezalamane bathethe iilwimi ezahlukeneyo, kodwa zonke umntu kakhulu yaye, maxa wambi, abanye abantwana ngokwaneleyo ukubona ikhathuni ngolwimi lwasemzini, ukuba iziphumo ezinjalo.

Kubikwe kunjalo, xa unyana wakhulela kwintsapho kwabakhokeli Uhambo, ukuziqhelanisa ekhaya ukunxibelelana ngeelwimi ezahlukeneyo ngeentsuku ezahlukeneyo zeveki. Umntwana wathetha kuphela iminyaka emine, kwaye ngeelwimi ezine ngaxeshanye. Kwakhona, akukho kwindawo ecacileyo umba eziluncedo ngayo iindlela olo qeqesho.

Oko kufuneka umntu alumkele zonke iintlobo zabakhohlisi abo bazibika ukukhalisa isivusi uze uthabathe neeklasi (idla ihlawulwe) nomntu owayendifundisa ukuthetha kwimeko enjalo. Kaninzi oku kuya kuba lilize imali, amandla kunye luvo. usana lwakho Qiniseka ukuba ukuthetha xa kufika ixesha, kwaye, kholwa ndim, nkqu ixesha xa uthi, "Ngo- kwenene, xa cwaka!".

Speech isebenze umntu nokusebenza kwengqondo. Kakhulu emoyeni inqabile izixhobo kwezwi ngqo. Xa kungekho tyala musa ukunyanzela umntwana wakho ukuba athethe. Khumbula ukuba ubuntwana kufuneka konwaba kwaye ikhululekile, yaye njengoko ibiyeyakho. Khathalela iiseli zemithambo-luvo, aziwa, hayi buyisa.

Akukho mfuneko ukujonga abahlobo okanye abamelwane abasebenzisa ndingade ngoku nendlela ezahlukeneyo zophuhliso yokuqala, ukufundisa abantwana akhawunti yaye efunda besebancinane. Kuyabonakala ukuba, maninzi amathuba eliphezulu kakhulu ukuba uphuhliso ezinjalo phambili ngobunzulu eninzi yeziphumo ebezingalindelekanga. Kwezi buchopho kuluntu onako abe icala ukubala kwabo ezahlukeneyo zophuhliso ekuqaleni, kodwa imizekelo i "kade-ivuthwa" - lukhulu.

Isibakala sokuba abazali bomntwana kunye babazali bakhe bafunda ukuthetha kufuneka ibe akukho nto phantsi bebudala bungaphantsi konyaka omnye. ukunika nje ingqalelo umntwana, uthethe naye, uthi amabali, ukufunda iincwadi, ukudlala kanye lo mzuzu, wada ediniwe. Naziphi na iimeko ezinokubangela uxinezeleko kufuneka kuphetshwe.

Akukho mfuneko yokuba ukunikezela iihambo phesheya, okanye excursions e umntwana, kuba esoyika ukuba akayi kuthetha elide. Kwakhona, naziphi na kwenzeka ukuba umkhusele evela imidlalo kunye nabanye abantwana, nokuba uthetha ulwimi olwahlukileyo. Incinci ndinihlalise kule ngxaki kude iyintsomi - ngcono. Yenza oko kufuneka - ukudala iimeko ukuze umntwana wayonwabile ancume ngokufuthi, nayo yonke enye into ziya kulandela.

Ukuba usapho lwakho kukho abantu abathetha iilwimi ezahlukeneyo, landela umthetho olula: wonke umntu uthetha nomntwana kuphela ngolwimi lwabo lweenkobe. Oku kuya kuvumela abantwana bakho ukuba bafunde iilwimi ezininzi kwaoko uze uthethe kubo bonke bephela ngaphandle aksenti. Kwixesha elizayo, kuya kuba luncedo kuwe baya kuba nombulelo ngayo.