Ngaba umntwana ukuya esidlweni?

Abazali abaninzi ubuza lo mbuzo. Kwelinye icala, ukuya mkhosi, ngaphandle kokuthatha umntwana - its not fair, ingakumbi xa kufikwa iiholide usapho. Wena kuphumla, umntwana unesithukuthezi ekhaya - kwaye ke kukho ukuziva unetyala. Kwelinye icala, lebhokhwe emthendelekweni - yinto eninzi iingxaki ukuba asivumeli abadala ukuba bakhululeke. Ewe, kwaye umntu omncinane eziva ediniwe ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko ke thatha umntwana okanye hayi?

Okokuqala kufuneka sazi oko fomu ziya kuba umcimbi. Yinto enye into, ukuba oko yayiququzelelwe ngokwakha, yaye omnye xa - catering. Nkqu imihla eshushu ehlotyeni ngokuhlwa ukuba kupholile, yaye ngaloo ndlela ukusuka ukuphumla, ihlelwe emoyeni evulekileyo, kuya kufuneka ukuba: nokuba abantwana ashiye ikhaya, okanye ngenxa yempilo yabo kufuneka ukuba bahambe ngokukhawuleza nje kancinane esibandayo (oku xa kuziwa ehlotyeni, yasekwindla nemvula yasentwasahlobo simiso, umntwana akufuneki ukuphumeza esitratweni iiyure ezingaphezu kwama-3-4, nokuba ulinywa nokulinywa ngokufudumeleyo.

Kwakhona kubalulekile kakhulu ukuba siqwalasele ubudala lwakukhula. Ukuba uthe akazi nokuba bayazi ukuba uthethe ngayo kwaye kutshanje nje bafunda ukuhamba - ibe salungiselela ukuba ngawo onke amaxesha kufuneka ugcine esandleni. abantwana abadala abakhuthalele ukunxibelelana kunye noontanga babo, uya kuba nokuba umntu omdala Sabantui ngcono kakhulu, ingakumbi badla khona kuya kuba abanye abantwana. Kodwa musa ukulibala; phantse nawuphi na umntwana uthole ufuna ukulala iiyure 22-23.

Kwiminyaka yakutshanje zithandwa kakhulu ukuba umeme ukuya kwiindawo kubuzaza usapho, kodwa ke ngelo xesha kwindawo enye ukubala: oonyana iindwendwe ndihlale ekhaya. Kukhubeka yile kuyo nayiphi na imeko akakwazi, ngokuba Bebik ukutshatisa ukunikezela kwiinkathazo ezininzi, hayi kuphela abazali babo, kodwa umhleli mbhiyozo. Ityala kwimiba eliqela. Okokuqala, kwimfuno yomntwana ukwenza umyalelo kwindawo yokutyela, yaye oku, kwiimeko ezininzi, imali eninzi. Ukwazi ukuba umntwana kusekho nto ingakumbi apho kuya kubakho - icace phandle, imali aphoswe umoya. Kwakhona razveselennye abazali, ingakumbi enxilile, anikwe ngokupheleleyo zolonwabo kunye nokuzonwabisa, belahla abantwana babo. Yaye abanye abantwana ngexesha njengento rush okungaqhelekanga kweholo yesidlo, ekhala kwaye nokuba silwe. Ngenxa yoko, badla kufuneka ukuthomalalisa mtshakazi lwabo kwamcaphukisa.

Ukuba na nisenza isingqala isazela, ukuba uhambe wedwa, eshiya umntwana ekhaya? Isigqibo ngokuba wena, kodwa ke khumbula: uninzi yeeholide zabantwana musa zihlala ngaphezu kweeyure 3-4, ngokuba ukuhlala ixesha elide usana akanako - iba ekruqulayo yaye ingabangeli.