Ngokutsho manani, abantu badla ukuze sonwabe kunye neminyaka 65 ukuya 79

Izazinzulu naye a manani umdla kakhulu kwaye Akumangalisi. Phakathi ase-age abaphulaphuli kwenziwa uphando ukuze ufumanise ukuba ingaba abantu abonwabileyo va ngokwabo njengoko ezithandwa iimvakalelo Ukuxhalaba yabanjwa ukuba ubomi babo bonke. Zahamba kakuhle ukuba abe kwiqela lobudala yonwabileyo kungabandakanya abantu abaneminyaka eyi-65 ukuya 79. njani uyakholwa na?

Facts - izinto banenkani

Ibiya kuthetha ukuba olona lonwabo - lulutsha. Kodwa kukho ayigange. Vumela wonke ukukhumbula ngokwam ukuba umfana. Amaninzi, eli candelo elifutshane izaliswe iinzame yokuzilungiselela ngokwayo, kuba amava elibukhali uthando ezingabuyekezekiyo, ukungaqondi abadala, ukufumana indawo yayo elangeni ... Kwaye akukho nabani na ulutsha wazi ukuba apha kwaye ngoku yena wonwabile apho njengoko kuya kuba ngakumbi kunanini na ngaphambili. Ngapha koko, akukho sithetha into yokuba ulonwabo, kunye nokuqaphela njengoko owanikwa nathi.

Elona nqanaba lisezantsi lokwaneliseka ubomi bubonakala abo iminyaka engama-45 ukuya kuma-59, kwakunye kwi abadala ukusuka kwiminyaka engama-80 okanye ngaphezulu abagula kakhulu kwizifo nesizungu. Xa yobudala phakathi kudidi badla ucinga ukuba wahlukile isiphelo ngabantu ababhinqileyo, iphinde ibe yinyaniso.

Yintoni ingxaki?

Avareji yobudala - apho athe wabonakalaliswa, ukongeza, sasidlala inani elithile leminyaka? Mhlawumbi yokuba kule minyaka luvelise kwinqanaba eliphezulu ixhala. Yena uza ndaqonda ukuba ubomi, kodwa abaninzi angekakwenzi. Ukuba wathabatha umsebenzi, nje kuzalwa kwaye ukhule abantwana - yenye into. Ukuba akunjalo? Guqula into kamva, ukuyeka - abafuni. Yintoni ukwenza ntoni?

Nombono engcono - xesha nexhala lokuba abantwana babo, bona abo bazibiza kubomi kunye kukunyamekela abazali abakhulileyo.

Ukongeza, le iinzame elingenasiphelo ukudibanisa uxanduva nomsebenzi kunye nosapho, kuba le nto badla ukuswela ukuqonda phakathi amaqabane. Xa igama - nengxaki yokukhula.

impilo entsha iqala

iminyaka 55-60 - ixesha lomhlala-phantsi. Ngubani bambalwa ukuba utshintsho ebomini kakhulu? Asingabo bonke baya eholideyini, kodwa hayi zonke, sifuna. Kukho ukwazi: ukuba umhlala ukuba ubomi kunokuba nzima ukuba akukho urhulumente umsebenzi pension okanye ngokubanzi. Kwaye umntu ndashiyeka umsebenzi, abanye ovalelweyo, nexhala lokukhula: Kusenjalo emsebenzini?

Kwelinye icala, ngoku ukuba abo baye bagqiba ukuphelisa umsebenzi wam, kuba ixesha elininzi free. Kuye ithuba lokuba ekugqibeleni bazenze, mhlawumbi ukufumana enye ukuyenza, sifaneleke ngakumbi ngenxa yobudala kunye nengqondo. Enyanisweni, kukho phambili kwinto yokuba zifumana umgangatho omtsha wobomi yaye bavuya kakhulu. Kodwa kuxhomekeke istokhwe seencwadi yobuntu.

Age ulonwabo

Kuba abafundi abaninzi ukuze kufumanisa ukuba phakathi kwabantu ebudaleni advanced (ngqo ngakumbi: ebantwini abadala, kodwa kusekho esebenzayo) anokufunyanwa ngaphezulu kakhulu kwabo bonelisekile kakhulu kunye nobomi babo. Abazange akhalaze Isiphelo sakhe, bekhangela kwihlabathi amehlo elungileyo sisilumko. Ewe, nantsi ke, lo gama engundoqo - ubulumko! Ngokwenene lo yayingunyaka wobulumko, xa siqalisa ukujonga izinto philosophically. Iingxaki kule minyaka alubonwanga Wayeyazi kangaka. Kuyabonakala, ukuba eli qela lobudala eyaqamba ibinzana elithi "musa kumcaphukisa uThixo."

Kodwa yonke le ngcaciso abstract. Enyanisweni, oku kunjalo. Abantwana bakhula niqinile, abazali babo, ngokubanzi, ingasafuneki. Kwintsapho eqhelekileyo, bona ngokwabo ngoku banceda abazali babo bazama ukuba inkxaso. Abazali simahla ngokwengqiqo intle ilizwi - lonke ixesha bakwazi ukunikela ngokwabo. Bona simahla indlela Bayayigqiba imihla yabo, yintoni ukuchitha imali. Ukuba unethamsanqa kakhulu - unako ukuthenga ukuphumla efanelekileyo. Hayi iiholide ukuba imali eninzi - kwimizi ngemizi kukho iindawo apho unako ukuhamba, ukufumana umoya omtsha, uxoxe kunye nabahlobo kunye nabhinqileyo. Phakathi amaqabane abadala ayamiselwa wolwalamano olukhethekileyo kwaye kufudumele. Kule minyaka, indoda kwakunye nomfazi ebotshelelwe omnye ngaphezulu ngakumbi kunasebutsheni lakhe. Kakade ke, zikho iimeko ukuba ungoni ubomi - unempilo enkenenkene yaye ngokufuthi imvakalelo elilolo. Kungenxa yezi zizathu ezifanayo bantu bakunyathela nyaka-80 imbali, ngokufuthi ikhono labo ngayo ulonwabo.

Yinto akukholeleki, kodwa umdla kakhulu

Kubonakala ukuba utyekelo ukuxhalaba ngokugqithiseleyo, kwakunye namandla ukuze ndonwabe ... ixhomekeke kwiimeko umlinganiswa yesizwe.

Ngoko ke, waphawula ukuba rhoqo ixhala lyubyam semvelo ubuzwe Arabhu. Ngaphantsi kalula kubo bonke abantu Chinese.

I-Irish phantse lonke konwaba ebomini babo, nikholwe ukuba kukho ndlela kuyo. Nangona cool balinqabisa yi-British ukuba becala awazigqali lucky. Kwaye oku nangona unxulumano angqiniweyo ngokwezenzululwazi phakathi ezempilo, intlalo-ntle - kunye nokuziva ulonwabo.

Abafazi yiva banoyolo ubuncinane xa eneminyaka engama-38, amadoda - kwiminyaka 53-55.

Ke ekugqibeleni, isibakala fun: iinkawu, ezifana nabantu, sinokuhlelwa abahoyele yokukhula. Kodwa abantu thile uThixo ngokwakhe wayalela! Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba uthathe ubomi kunye nokuqonda kuyo yonke iminyaka kukho isizathu sokuba sonwabe. Ulonwabo ukuba ilungiswe noko kunye ubudala, kodwa umongo walo kuhlala enye. Makube lee kuwe!