& SOCKS umntu uphupha nokuba ephupheni? Dream Ingcaciso: SOCKS - ukuze Uhambo

Awu, indoda engumzekeliso iikawusi kuphosa phezu tyaba okanye ngononophelo ifihle emva esofeni. Malunga kwabo iqashiso wathi nezibhalwayo malunga nabafazi nje udiniwe yokuba ngomxholo iingubo abantu ukuba beze kulwa phantse yonke imihla. Amaninzi amaxesha baba eziqhelekileyo ngokwaneleyo ukuba kuqale eliphupha. Kodwa njengoko ukulazi iphupha - ayikho nje iseti yemifanekiso okanye ividiyo, kunye intwasahlobo ethile, ukumamela apho ukwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo ebomini. Ngoko ke, vula incwadi iphupha - iikawusi ezimhlophe, zimdaka, uboya, ezigugileyo, njalo-njalo.

Hayi nje iikawusi ezahlukeneyo ngokwabo, kufuneka kwakhona khetha incwadi iphupha efanelekileyo: i kawusi ndawonye, ngoko darn oko ukucima, ngoko pat (kube njalo). Kwihlabathi kukho ezininzi iincwadi ezahlukeneyo iphupha - iphupha nokutyhilwa Vanga, Miller, Nostradamus, Freud, Tsvetkova, iphupha nokutyhilwa bhadu, ababhinqileyo, Oriental, Italian, amanene, inkanuko, incwadi iphupha olusondeleyo. Iikawusi kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba efumaneka kwisiqingatha ezilungileyo ezi iitoliki. Kodwa akuyomfuneko ukuba ukwenze konke, iqala inike kuphela abo bathembele kakhulu. A umbono jikelele oko ulindele yomntu waphupha iqhekeza iimpahla, siya kuzama ukuchaza kweli nqaku. Makhe siqale.

iikawusi White na onokumxelela umntu into kubhetele lokuyihlehlisa nayiphina uhambo (nokuba i uhambo ishishini okanye uhambo), kungaba nje yingozi. iikawusi emibalabala iyasilumkisa impazamo lilishwa, leyo Kucacile, ungenza bangene iimeko engenangqondo ezitenxileyo. Ingaba ufuna awayengenakuyilibala okanye ufuna ukuthatha ngokupheleleyo uhambo - silindele xa ephupha iikawusi yoboya. Hi ndlela leyi, ukutolikwa esisiseko (kwaye oku kungqinwe nayiphi na incwadi iphupha) - iikawusi uphupha yendlela okanye abahambahambayo.

Indlala nobuhlwempu enokulindelwa abo ephupheni babona baxakwe (enezikroba) iikawusi. Lo mfazi, ngubani ndabona ephupheni eqwengiweyo iikawusi olunokusongamela neenzima ukunxibelelana nabantu. Ukuba iikawusi ecocekileyo ezintle sicebisa ukuba uya kufumana imvume izicwangciso zakho, wena elibi elimdaka uhambo embi okanye ubudlelwane oneengxaki kunye nabamelwane okanye osebenza (ukuhleba, amarhe, iingxwabangxwaba) kungekudala. igama ezimanzi ekwaziyo zeekawusi ezimanzi, naziimbandezelo angavela ngequbuliso kule ndlela engalindelekanga kunye ikota kakhulu engalindelekanga. Awunayo iikawusi? Oku intsimbi kwabo kufuneka ukunakekela impilo yabo.

Emva koko igqabi ngokusebenzisa iphupha nokutyhilwa: iikawusi yokuthenga lithetha ukuphoxeka kunye close omthandayo omnye. Nxiba iikawusi ephupheni - nemali. Ukuba ababandakanyekayo iikawusi ukunitha ephupheni, oko kuhlelwe ukuba ingeniso, kodwa ukuthunga iikawusi, ngokuchasene - kwimpilo-ntle imandundu, ezinokuthi ezinxulumene nokuthenga musa kakhulu kufanelekile. Utshayelela incwadi iphupha ababhinqileyo mpuma: darn iikawusi ngokuba umfazi ephupheni - yinto ubomi olihlwempu.

impumelelo Zobungangamela namadoda elindele intombazana uphupha umlinganiselo zeekawusi (okanye iikawusi, iithayithi). iikawusi Hlamba ephupheni ithi ukuba yonke imisebenzi ezicwangcisiweyo hayi azaliseke yalapho, kodwa uhlamba iikawusi somnye ephupheni ukuba umfazi umtshato. Ukuba ebomini langutane ni swiyimo swo tika-mali, ngoko ke bemlalele amaphupha abo. Waphupha elahlekile sock enye, umqondiso ukuze emke ukusuka ekujoliswe injongo, oko kuya kuba isigqibo esifanelekileyo, nangona ilahleko sele kutyalwa asethi zoshishino.

Kodwa mhlawumbi ukumkani ukutyhilwa kwephupha elo kakhulu ezingalindelekanga, apho kukho iikawusi, uSigmund Freud. Xa uphupha ukuba banxibe iikawusi ephupheni, ithi ngomnqweno wakho ngesondo ekhuselekileyo (icondom njengomfuziselo sock).

Ngokubanzi, i iikawusi ephupheni - its not embi kangako, into ephambili ukuba uhlambulukile, abamhlophe okanye uboya, kodwa hayi nasemiqhokrweni yeengxondorha, darn okanye zimdaka.