Soul yohambo: into siphulukana na ubudala?

Ixesha asikwazi ukuguqulwa. weewotshi engabonakali ngcembe kutsho iyure enye emva kwenye ukubukela soulless njengoko abantu ubudala. Kubonakala ngathi kakhulu kutshanje usafuna uleqa kunye nabahlobo ngebhayisekile, ukusondeza abantu ukwazi, nanko, kukho nokulatyuza amashiya, kwaye kwi yakho yokuqala emsebenzini. A kancinci kakhulu, yaye uya kutshintshwa kuze kufakwe omnye yesibini, ngoko ukuxubana izinto ezahlukeneyo kunye ziko ... kwaye urhangqwe abazukulwana bakhe.

Aphile usuku ngalunye, umntu ubona kulo utshintsho ezicacileyo. Njengoko ukuba umnakekeli into, into ebaluleke gqitha ebalulekileyo. Kodwa yintoni? Yintoni siphulukana na ubudala?

Utshintsho ngaphakathi kwethu

Yintoni abantu abaphelelwa kukwaluphala, ngoko ke ukholo. Hayi, kungekhona kuThixo, kuye, bakholelwa suku ngalunye ngakumbi nangakumbi, kuba uyakwazi umoya phantsi. Hayi, oku eyahlukileyo. Lost ukholo imimangaliso, enyanisweni, ukuba kukho indawo imilingo ehlabathini.

Sasidla ukukholelwa Santa Claus, wemilingo elungileyo kunye nobuncwane ezilahlekileyo. Zonke amaphupha ethu zaye lujolise kude phambili, ukuya engaziwayo. Kodwa iminyaka, yaye zonke ezi fancy volatilized, kwaye endaweni yazo beza iimeko ezimaxongo.

Asikwazi ukuba oku kubi, kuba Indlela esingaphila ngayo kwihlabathi lethu. Kodwa inyani kukuba, inkolelo imimangaliso - le nto siphulukana kunye nobudala.

Umzimba - itempile umphefumlo

Xa lethu ihlabathi ngaphakathi utshintsho, utshintsho yangaphandle azisayi ukukugcina ulindile. Ngapha koko, umzimba - oko kubonisa komphefumlo.

Nge ubudala, imikhuba zethu incothulwe. Ukutshaya luchaphazela emazinyweni iinwele, utywala kakhulu eluswini, kwaye kwenza umsebenzi wethu bezvylazno ubuso ilitye, ngokungathi abayi kukwazi ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo.

Ukuze ubuhle - le nto siphulukana kunye nobudala. Nangona kunokwenzeka ukuba ayigcine elide kakhulu ukuba ukuziphatha yokuphila efanelekileyo. Kodwa enye incoko.

Kunzima ukuba ngumhlobo ethembekileyo

Abahlobo - oku nento siphulukana kunye nobudala. Ngapha koko, ukuba ayisasebenzi kwaye ngaphantsi ngonyaka. Yintoni na isizathu? Kaloku, nawa iimpendulo ezimbalwa.

Okokuqala, kudla ubomi ngokwayo kuthintela eziqhelekileyo, uchithachitha namaqabane kwizixeko ezahlukahlukeneyo.

Okwesibini, amaqela ezentlalo, umahluko kukuba i ngumqobo gqithi.

Okwesithathu, nobuvila. Oko kukuthi, iba yinkalo engundoqo ethintela kubiza nje uze ucele omnye komnye: "Unjani?"