Ingcamango yokuqala ebomini

Ngaba ukhe wacinga ngomahluko phakathi yokucinga kwesilwanyana kwabantu? Kakade ke, sithanda ukuba banyamekele inzala, kwi umnqweno adle, ukulala kunye ukuzonwabisa, kodwa kukho into zinzima, loo nto iiseti ezinkulu kuthi ngaphandle kwihlabathi isilwanyana. Oku - ukufunwa intsingiselo yobomi. Kuphela umntu phakathi bonke abameli kwezinto eziphilayo uyazi ukuba uyafa. Kwaye ayinikiwe kuphela kuye ukuba abuze imibuzo: "Kutheni na mna apha Yintoni na yam? Ingcamango ebomini?"

Okokuqala, kufanele kuphawulwe ukuba akukho kukho impendulo yalo mbuzo. Unakho ukukhangela ulwazi kwiinkonzo ehlabathini kwezenzululwazi, nokuncama ubomi bakhe, abahambahambayo ukukhangela into, oko kukhokelela emphefumlweni. Kwathi ngelo xesha azikho iimpendulo ezichanekileyo kwaye zingqinisiswe. Okunye ngqo, ngoko - wonke umntu akabakhathalele abakhe, ukuba umntu ubonakala oyinyaniso ngokupheleleyo, omnye kubonakala kuyinto engekho ngqiqweni.

"Umqolomba kaSocrates"

Kukho uchasaniso omhle kakhulu malunga nento yokuba ngcamango xa ebomini bomntu. Le ngcamango malunga nentsingiselo yobomi wanikela kaSocrates phambi ixesha lethu, kodwa isetyenziswa namhlanje ukuyiqonda indlela encinane into oyaziyo ingqiqo lokwenene kunjalo iphela. Masithi nzulu emqolombeni ngabantu. Kwi eluphahleni neendonga babone amathunzi - le ezayo yintoni eyenzekayo emnyango apho kuloo mqolomba. Abakwazi okanye awufuni ukuba baphume, yaye bonke ukuba benze - kugweba ihlabathi ngokwemiqathango yokuhambisa izithunzi. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni na ingcamango intsingiselo yobomi, musani ukoyika ukuphuma kuloo mqolomba. Okanye ubuncinane na ukugweba yi amathunzi.

Shiya lo Indawo elikhusi

Kwelinye iintsuku ezininzi ezintle ukuba ukho undonakele. Ungakhululeki. Wena Ndandicinga ukuba ikho into ephosakeleyo. Kwaye yintoni kanye-kanye? Ewe, nantso yonke, njengokwamaxesha onke, kodwa intsingiselo yobomi? Ingaba indlela echanekileyo ukuya into? Okanye ubomi bakho bonke - ukuba ubukho routine de afe?

Wena lihamba kwicala elifanelekileyo, xa ubuza imibuzo enjalo. Ngapha koko, into yokuba ucinga ngentsingiselo yobukho, onikhuphileyo wesangqa eqhelekileyo yobomi "adle, balale, konwaba." Kodwa ngoku eyona nto ibalulekileyo - musa ayeke uqhubeke i "uhambo" ukufuna, yintoni na umbono yakho ebomini. Musa ukwenza nto ngokungakhathali. Kodwa kutheni ukutshintsha into ebomini yaye musa ukuzama into entsha?

Indawo elikhusi ibizwa kwisangqa eqhelekileyo yobukho. "Circle" ngenxa yokuba ubomi bethu lijikeleza ngendlela njengesiqhelo, njengoko kwi movie "Usuku Groundhog." Ukutshintsha into - ngoko ubudlelwane bezinto. Yaye kutheni? Emva ekwenzeni izenzo ezifanayo ukusoloko, akunakwenzeka ukufumana result entsha. Kodwa yena, kwaye ufuna - ukufumana izimvo zakho ubomi obutsha.

Yonke imihla wena ezahlukeneyo

Siye safumanisa ukuba ngalinye intsingiselo yalo yokuphila, kwaye akukho intsingiselo echanekileyo olulodwa. Kodwa kukho nenye into ekufuneka ayiqonde uzimisele ukufumana intsingiselo yobomi. Ngexesha ubomi iingcamango ziza kutshintsha.

Wena mabini, kwaye intsingiselo yobomi, kubonakala ukuba Zibone niche kwimarike yomsebenzi, iihafu zabo. Wena amathathu, yaye kubonakala ukuba akukho nto ibaluleke ngaphezu ilungelo ukuba abantwana. Wena mane, nezinto eziza kuqala ebomini itshintshile kwakhona. Kwaye yinto eqhelekileyo yonke. Wena akhule, oqala ngayo, yaye ngenxa yoko, intsingiselo yobomi. Kuyinto ayinangqondo ukukhumbula indlela ube kwiminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo kwaye ngoko yintlekisa kumaxabiso zabo. Akusilungele na kuwe ukuba - ungabi ubuya apho mna namhlanje.

Indlela yokufumana ngokwakhe

Ngoko ke, apho ukuya xa ugqibe ukufumana ngokwakho, njani ulwalathiso? Kuqala kwinto zonke, phendula umbuzo: ukuba Ngaba wakho ukhululekile? izimvo zakho eziqulethwe ebomini, uze waneliseke, okanye ucinga ukuba umsebenzi wakho ilize?

Ukuba kakuhle ukhululekile kunye namhlanje, oko akuthethi akuthethi ukuba indlela etyenenezileyo ekunene. Mhlawumbi ke ngeenxa zonke lwesiqhelo, "phumani" apho nje wonqena kakhulu, kwaye kuyingozi. Ngapha koko, ngubani owaziyo ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni xa uphume zone yakho intuthuzelo.

Yiba kunye nabantu "ekunene"

Umbuzo wesibini, kubalulekile ukuzibuza lo enoba kwindawo efanelekileyo? Nokuba siyathanda okanye hayi, kodwa abantu asirhawule, abaliqela nefuthe kuthi. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ube yingqondi ukuba uyaqonda ukuba, ukuba ngaba abahlobo kunye nabalandeli utywala, kukuphila ubomi obusempilweni kuya kuba lula.

Abantu ezingqongileyo kufuneka zivuse umnqweno othile, umnqweno ukutshintsha, ukuphucula. Ngaphezu koko, kubalulekile ukuba phakathi kwabo kwakukho sithandwa yaye uthando, ngenxa yokuba amandla uthando uyasondla kakhulu.

Zibekele imigomo

"Ukuba ufuna ukuba babedla uThixo - mxelele malunga nezicwangciso zakho" - akukho namnye unako aphikisane mazwi, ngoba utshintsho ebomini kwenzeka ngequbuliso kunye ezingacwangciswanga. Kodwa ukuba ukudada iharika, emlanjeni, silindele ezi nguqu, kakhulu, akunjalo. Ukuqulunqa isicwangciso ubomi bakho. Akha injongo kuwe ezihamba kuyo. Mhlawumbi wena udiniwe ukuphila kunye nabazali bam, kwaye ufuna indlu yam? Kulungile, oko kukuthi le njongo. Cinga ngendlela imali engakanani owumisileyo bucala ukuze kuphunyezwe le njongo, nokuba yinto yokwenene ngomsebenzi wakho, okanye lixesha ukutshintsha into ebomini bakho?

Musa ukoyika ngenxa yothando

Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba uthando kunye yokubonisana alungise serious, yaye kuzakwenza ukuba kufikelelwe phezulu ezinqwenelekayo. Career ithuba elinye yaye inokuqokelelana, yokuchitha nabahlobo - oko kuya kukugubungela isitya sobhedu, kuyimfuneko ukuba abe novelwano ebomini bakho. Enyanisweni, ezi zimvo kuphosakele ngokupheleleyo.

Kuyinto Luthando olwenza ukuba ngcono, lwela into entsha. Musani ukuboyika abo bathandana musa ukubaleka kuzo. Njengenye billionaires abaye got kwizikhundla eziphezulu isitampu magazini "Forbes", eyona nto ibalulekileyo kwimpumelelo - umtshato uphumelele. Oko kwavusa nomkakhe, xa azihlisileyo izandla zakhe, kwaye oko kuya kunceda iBhunga ngamaxesha anzima.

Musa ukoyika ngenxa yotshintsho

Kuthekani ukuba baqikelela ukuba ufuna ukonwaba, ufumanisa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuba isigqibo malunga utshintsho olukhulu ebomini bakho? Umzekelo, ukuba lidlule umsebenzi ukhululekile, kodwa bemivuzo ephantsi ukuya kwesinye isixeko? Kuthekani ukuba wabona ukuba ungonwabi emtshatweni, kodwa uthe wafunyaniswa kunye nezalamane osenyongweni, xa ushiya intsapho yakho?

Akukho mntu uya kucebisa isigqibo esifanelekileyo. Kodwa ke ingongoma ezi zinto zilandelayo - kufuneka siphile ukuze babe ngokuvisisana ngokwakho. Ukuba unexhala malunga nemeko ekuyiyo, ukuba zingemnandanga ngenxa yaso nasiphi na isizathu, kuya kudingeka ukuba utshintshe into. Enoba iingcamango luncedo ebomini, lo mthetho le - uzive okulungileyo, yaye yenu tye emehlweni akho. Ukuba lo mgaqo kantu, ngoko akukho ndlela ukuthetha ingokufumana injongo ebomini.

Musa ukoyika ukulahlwa

Ngandlel 'ithile, bonke abantu zibaluleke kakhulu izimvo zabanye. Kwaye oko ucinga ngam? Kwaye ukuba uya kuxelela abazali (bakhe nomkakhe, abahlobo, oogxa)?

Lonke ixesha nokucingisisa ukuba ukuthatha into okanye akunjalo, siya engqondweni khangela emva sonke esi sihlwele ngasemva kwethu. Bakumbona ke àbagwetywa ngobuso babo, siye kwakhona nizihlubile isigqibo ukuba onwabe. Misa ukubeka izimvo zabantu ngaphezu ezabo! Xa inkosi yobomi bakho, kwaye isigqibo ukuba mabenze ntoni. Enyanisweni, becela ingcebiso mntwini, wena shift nje uxanduva ngezenzo zabo, ibotshelelwe emagxeni othile. "Hayi, kufuneka akwenze oko," - ukuxelela umhlobo wakho. Kwaye umele kude amaphupha neminqweno yabo, kunye gidi engqondweni.

Misa abaphila phantsi scheme endala. Xa uthatha izigqibo ezibalulekileyo, kwaye wena wedwa uya kuba noxanduva iziphumo kwixesha elizayo. Ngaphambi kokuba nabani na ukuphendula? Ewe kuwe!

Khumbula ingxenye ebonakalayo

Enoba umbono wakho owukhethileyo ebomini, khumbula ukuba umzimba usempilweni kuphela ibe yinto enkulu, ulangazelelo ekunene. Musa kundikhanyela iqokobhe lakho eziphathekayo uvuyo ezifana nokutya okulungileyo umthambo. It ungathanda kulala esofeni kunye tuck zibe pizza kunye ice cream, kunye nentshukumo yomzimba kwaye ufuna ukutya lokwenene.

izithintelo ezahlukeneyo kunye umthambo enogonyamelo - hayi isisombululo noba. Ukuqalisa nge bayeke ukutya okungafanelekanga, okudalwe ngendlela mveliso. Yitya imifuno, iziqhamo, inyama organic kunye nentlanzi. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, uya ungasafuni "eyinkunkuma" ngokohlobo ukutya fast, umntu nokuba ufuna ukuyeka inyama. Kodwa kuya kuba ukhetho lwakho, hayi ebekwe ngumntu ovela ngaphandle. Ke ukuba ezemidlalo, uya kufuneka ukuphulaphula oko umzimba wakho akufunayo. Kokuba dancing, ukufaneleka, ngokubaleka kusasa okanye ukukhwela ibhayisekile ukuphumla kwakho kweso sixeko. Xa kungekho tyala musa ukunyanzela wena ukuya ejimini kunye intonga yesinyithi, kwaye ngesiquphe "bakho" - yoga okanye Pilates?

Hi ndlela leyi, ngaba - oko kwakhona amacebiso elungileyo kwabo nabangekafumani isigqibo into ingcinga yakhe ebomini. Khangela practice - iinyanga ezintathu emva kokuba ekuqaleni olululo ungasebenzisi zigalo indlela yobomi kuwe "uya" ngokwayo, kunokuba kufuneka bakwenze ukuze ndonwabe.

ukushwankathela

Ngoko ke, yintoni na, yimbono ukufanele? Photo of kubantu abonwabileyo kusibonisa uncumo ebusweni babo, nokuphumla kunye nenzolo. Kungenxa yesi sizathu kuba nako kukucacisa nakubani na ukuba kuya kubakho - enyanisweni wonke umntu unako ukonwaba ngenxa yezizathu ngendlela ezahlukeneyo. Nokuba ke, musa ukuvumela nabani na iphazamise ulonwabo yakho yobuqu. Amaninzi iintshaba zethu - na thina, hayi kanye mandithi, uloyiko lwethu, izakhiwo, uxhomekeko izimvo zabanye. Zibandakanye into oyithandayo, musa ukoyika utshintsho, musa ukubaleka luthando. Ukuba awuyazi namhlanje uluvo lwakho intsingiselo yobomi, musa ukwenza up ingqondo kakhulu. Bandakanya ukhululekile ukuba ukujonga imisebenzi zemidlalo, yiya kwi ukutya okunempilo, uyaluse ngononophelo umdla wakho - kwaye impendulo iya kufika kungekudala.