Yintoni ixabiso kwingcingane kunxibelelwano?

Ukuchaza intetho ngamanye amazwi Classic, wena uthi awukwazi kuphila kuluntu kwaye ukhululekile nguwo. Yintoni ukufaneleka, oko kube ukubona kuphela xa kuthelekiswa namanye amalungu oluntu, kunye nombono zazo nokutolikwa. Ukuba ngaba zihambelana nemithetho emisiweyo yokuziphatha, siyakholwa, okanye kungcolisa, okanye abantu abagulayo. Ngoko ke yintoni na ukufaneleka nendlela ukuqonda kule kota?

Ngokubanzi, intsingiselo yalo "meko ukuthotyelwa." Umzekelo, umbuliso kufuneka basabele kakuhle, otherwise okubona engafanelekanga. Inqanaba kunye neqondo ukubonakaliswa iimvakalelo kudlala indima ebalulekileyo kule nkalo. Yintoni nokuqonda okwanele of Social Psychology? Lo msebenzi bagcine indlela yokuziphatha, imilinganiselo yokuziphatha eyamkelekileyo kuluntu, yaye bahlale phakathi ngendlela "eqhelekileyo" sobomi. Ukuba babekuthanda, umzekelo, ubuciko bokulwa, kodwa umsebenzi lo usebenzisa ubuchule ezichanekileyo iinkolelo neqabane, yaye kufunwa imixube zomlomo, ukuba ugcine eyaneleyo. Wazi njani ukuba ukuziphatha kwakho ungena-sikhokelo 'ncwadi "? Bukela abanye. Yonke into isihlobo, kuba ukuba Papuans yamkelwe ukubulisa poterevshis Zineempumlo nje, oko akuthethi ukuba le ndlela yokubulisa azisayi kunikholekisa yi enenxaxheba kwinkampani yakho.

A uhlobo uvavanyo ukwenzela ixabiso yabantu isoloko isetyenziswa kukhetho - ukuhluza - abaqeshwa ezinokubakho sele kwi-ndlebe lokuqala. Ngapha koko, le ukuziphatha kwabasebenzi kuxhomekeke ekugqibeleni kumfanekiso lweshishini kwaye nkqu uphawu. Ukuba imibuzo recruiter "ukhetha phi ukuba aye komulela?", "Ngaba uchitha njani ixesha lenu?" upha iimpendulo eneenkcukacha ngokucokisekileyo, echaza yonke imikhwa zakho zokupheka kunye bezinikela interlocutor yakhe iinkcukacha zincinane, kungenzeka ukuba akuyi kugqitha wena uvavanyo nokwanela. Indlela ukuqonda, Wena ulunga okanye hayi kule ngcamango 'uzinzo "? Mamela interlocutor yakho. Ngocoselelo achaze imeko lonxibelelwano, zama ukucinga kwangaphambili, kuthathelwa ingqalelo abasabela kunokwenzeka amazwi akho. Ukuthobela nemimiselo eyamkelekileyo yokuziphatha - into eyaneleyo ngendlela eqhelekileyo. Kufuneka ngokuqinisekileyo uthathe ingqalelo iimpawu nobuhlanga zonxibelelwano. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu Russian kuthathwa yinto eqhelekileyo ukubaleka "kwi iglasi iti," ummelwane, okanye umhlobo omdala, nihlale kude kube sebusuku, abameli kwezinye izizwe akunakwenzeka niya kukuqonda. E Germany, ithinjiwe iKiriyatayim kwangaphambili ukuba alumkise ngotyelelo lwakhe. Musa ukumangaliswa xa nabanini musa ukubeka phezu kwetafile a izitya ezimbalwa kwaye linganiki ebusuku, ngenxa yokuba sele kakhulu kwexesha ukuya ekhaya.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukuvavanya ukufaneleka kweenkqubo zethu, iimbono, iingcinga? Iingcali zengqondo zithi isibaluli ukuba ziyangqinelana "obuqhelekileyo" - ukufezekisa oko akufunayo, le njongo. Kakade ke, ngamnye abanazo, kwakunye neendlela ukulungiselela ukuphunyezwa kwazo. Yaye akukho mfuneko nezenzo zethu ehambelana ozilindele othile. Oku kuyinyaniso ngakumbi ulwalamano lobuqu. Ukuba kukhokelela kufezekiso ezinqwenelekayo, siya kucinga ukuba iinkqubo zethu zanele.