Stealing umtshakazi, okanye ukubamba njani lo msitho fun?

Kakade ke, wayebhekisela nobusela lomtshakazi, wonke umntu ngoko nangoko qatha engqondweni i movie "mbanjwa eCaucasus". Kodwa bambalwa siyazi ukuba eli siko beza kuthi kanye kuloo mmandla. Noko ke, ngaphambili umtshakazi inengeniso kunokuxhwilwa eCaucasus akazange isiko nje ezintle ezidlamkileyo kuzo kukhahlelwa yomtshato. Kuyinto oluthile umtshato ngokusemthethweni. Lo mfana wamthanda intombazana, ukuba, kunye nabakhonzi okanye nabahlobo babo ebe nje ngaphandle kwaye bazise ngokwayo. Ukuba wachitha ubusuku endlwini yakhe, kwakukholelwa ukuba wayenomfazi esemthethweni. Kulo mzekelo, le ntombazana kwakungasekho ukuba atshate nomnye umntu.

Ngokwendalo, kule meko, ukubiwa lomtshakazi ingenzeka ngaphandle kwemvume yayo. "Indoda ekhetha umfazi, ingabi ngumfazi - umntu" - ezi izithethe yamazwe abaseAfrika. Kakade ke, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, le mikhuba ziye enobuntu ngakumbi ngayo amabhinqa, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kusekho amatyala inengeniso kunokuxhwilwa ngenxa kwekhontrakthi lomtshato. Kodwa kwenzeka kunqabile kakhulu.

Wona ke kumazwe Slavic, kukho ukubiwa lomtshakazi - yinto entle emisiweyo okuchwayitha, isithethe, apho ekuqaleni yenziwe ukuze uqinisekise indlela umyeni. Waba ngaloo ndlela babonise uthando umtshakazi lwakhe. Noko ke, ngumzali, kwaba yayilisiko iindwendwe uqwalasele enesithukuthezi. Ezi data afunyenwe ngenxa yesaveyi zentlalo yabemi elalisakuba yiSoviet Union. Ngoko sagqiba ukukunika ezinye iingcebiso, ngokusebenzisa leyo inokwenza kube ukuze nobusela lomtshakazi kumtshato kuya kuba mnandi and lula:

1. Kuqala kwinto zonke, asimele 'ukuba "nomtshakazi, xa ubona ukuba ukhulelwe. Oku kunokuba yingozi kuye nomntwana wakhe.
2. Ukuba kunjalo iindwendwe kodwa ndagqiba ekubeni bayile umsitho ebomini, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba umtshakazi nomyeni engqondweni oku. Emva kokufumana imvume iindwendwe, nenoxanduva yokulungelelanisa i "amanyathelo" baxoxe nezo a kwinjoli. Kulo mzekelo, mcimbi lakho akayi kujika ibe sisiphithiphithi kunye fun zabanjwa kwaye kulula. Xa ulungiselela ubusela kwakhona kufuneka ucinge ngendlela uza kufuna intlawulelo, yaye yintoni iimeko zibekwa phambili. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kuba kuhle ukuba beze eminye imisebenzi fun for umyeni kunye namangqina. Ke kumnandi ukuba kunye nabo. Xa sicela ukuba utywala kunye neelekese, oko banal yaye ingabangeli. Xa ucela imali, oko ayikhangeleki zintle kakhulu. Ngapha koko, umtshakazi nanto, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba - akukho yorhwebo kuthenga kuyo.
3. Stealing umtshakazi kufuneka luqhutywe ngexesha kungekho abo babekho, kuquka umyeni, musa ukulinda. Ngoko ke kufuneka ukuba ukhumbule ukuba indawo apho amantombazana nizimele, kufuneka ukhethe ngaphambi komtshato, ukuba akukho saa kunye idalwa.
4. Enye ingongoma ebalulekileyo - kuyimfuneko ukuba siqwalasele ukuba yintoni ezakwenziwe malunga iindwendwe xa umtshakazi kunye nomhlobo wakhe uya kuba kufuna ngokombhinqo womtshakazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, enye yeenketho ezimbini bakhetha ngokwesithethe nokuba iindwendwe nabo bathathe inxaxheba search, okanye njengoko toastmaster entertains nabo ngoncedo ezahlukeneyo zokhuphiswano. Kakade ke, iindwendwe kufuneka bazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Kungenjalo, le meko iya kuba tight.
5. Kwaye ke kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ephethe yesikhumbuzo kufuneka athathe akukho ngaphezu kwemizuzu eli-15, kuba iindwendwe ziya kuhamba kunye umtshakazi kakhulu. Ngaba uqale ukulungiswa ubudlelwane ezithatha ixesha elide. A Umsitho okunene endaweni xesha. Yaye, ngapha koko, ubusela umtshakazi - sisithethe ukuba wonke umntu othanda efanayo.

Eyona nto esisiseko kulo msitho - UmGrugra and fun. Kwaye uxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo bubulumko kunye namanye amacebo-nxaxheba. Oko ke akubona, cinga zonke iinkcukacha kwangaphambili. Ke konke kuya kuba mnandi umdla! , Ndineentloni, ngaphambi nabani na akayi ukuba, kunye neendwendwe uya kwanela kwaye ushiye kunye namava ezimnandi!