Ubhaptizo abantwana: into ekufuneka uyazi phambi kokuba isiganeko esibalulekileyo

Xa kukho umntwana entsatsheni - oku ngokungathandabuzekiyo ntsako, kungekhona ngenxa nto bathi abantwana - isipho sikaThixo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, intsapho oselula uqala ukucinga ukuba lixesha ukwenza ummiselo yobhaptizo phezu komntwana wabo. Abazali iziyatha ziya kuba uzilungiselele kakuhle ngenxa yesi siganeko kwaye bafunde lukhulu. Ukuba balindele umntwana kuyinyusa imvuthuluka kweli isiko lamaKristu, simele siqonde inyathelo elibalulekileyo kangakanani - ubhaptizo abantwana. Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi ukuba wenze le nto?

Ulungiselela ukubhaptizwa

Inkqubo ukulungiselela lo umthendeleko iqala xa abazali abatsha isigqibo ukuba kungekudala uza kuba ubhaptizo lomntwana. Yintoni ekufuneka uyazi ukuba ukukhetha ilungelo umhla? Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ubhaptizo ingenziwa nangaliphi na ixesha ngethuba lonyaka yecawa, nkqu ngexesha leNzila. Kodwa yobudala apho ukuba ndibhaptize usana, abazali ukuchaza wena. Kukholelwa ukuba kungcono ukwenza umthendeleko ukuba kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala emva kokuzalwa. Emva kokubhaptizwa umntwana ibe ngokusisigxina wobudlelane, xi nyikaka kwiimvuthuluka ngokomoya komzimba. Ukuba abazali ingqalelo imfundo yokomoya komntwana wakhe, ngenxa yabo, loo nto iya kubaluleka kakhulu. Kukho imiba eliqela evela abo abantwana ukuba ukubhaptizwa ezivelayo: "Yintoni ekufuneka uthabathe nawe ecaweni?" yaye "Indlela ukukhetha godparents?" Okokuqala kufuneka athenge ikrele, oko kungenziwa etempileni, kukho iimveliso ezithengiswa-uyazukiswa. Alefwaya Cross akanyanzelekanga ukuba imali eninzi, indlela kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba isiko kubandakanya ixabiso eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Cross uthenga engcwaba. Yena uhlawulela isiko, ukuba akukho sivumelwano, loo nto yenza abazali. Ummeli kufuneka ungenise iitawuli ezimbini. Omnye ashiywe ebandleni, aze omnye kuya kufuneka ukosula usana ngexesha msitho. Ngenxa yesithethe, le ithawula ukuba entsha ngokupheleleyo, xa bathe ndingawucima usana ngexesha sifo, zayo igcinwe ngenyameko ngaphandle nezikhundla le yokuhlamba. Godparents akhethwa ukuba nosana usapho kunye nabantu obathembayo. Kubalulekile ukuba zaba sibini. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba mbuzo: "Ukuba uya kuba isiganeko ebalulekileyo njengoko ubhaptizo abantwana, ukuba benze ntoni godparents?" Kunqweneleka ukuba Wavuma wathabatha wobudlelane amiswa. Zinelungelo uxanduva olukhulu zokufaka izithethe zokomoya godson.

Isakramente ubhaptizo

I yomthendeleko lidla kuqhutyelwa kusasa, emva kwenkonzo lugqityiwe. Kodwa ukuba usapho kukho naziphi na iimeko, ukuba uzame ukuthethana kunye noyise, kangangokuba umise ixesha ngamnye. Njengoko umthetho, ebandleni ukubhaptiza iintsana ezininzi, kodwa kuxhomekeke kwindlela omkhulu ibandla, kwaye kukho amalungu amaninzi. Kangakanani na umntwana abhaptizwe? Enyanisweni, ixabiso apho lukhangelwe, - yinto nje umnikelo, ukuya kufikelela kwiimfuno zebandla. Kwi-avareji, oko isusela ukususela 1000 ukuya 2,000 engange. Kodwa ukuba imeko yemali nzima intsapho mfana, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo ibandla kuhlangana kwaye nomthendeleko ziya kubanjwa ngaphandle kwentlawulo. Rite ihlala ixesha elide kakhulu, kodwa ke itakane, kakade, angakwazi kunye abangenazigqibo. Maxa wambi utata uvumelekile ukuba uthathe kuye ngeengalo zam nomama wam, nangona imithetho umntwana ephethe umngcelele. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali abatsha indlela onoxanduva utyelelo endlwini kaThixo komntwana wabo wokuqala, kufuneka baqonde indlela le nkqubo ibaluleke - ubhaptizo abantwana. Into efunekayo yonke ukuya kakuhle? Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukholo uhlala ezintliziyweni zabantu, yaye ekugqibeleni ukomeleza entliziyweni encinane yosana.