Ubulumko kumama kwindinyana kunye neprose

Umama kuwo wonke umntu-owona mntu ozalwa kunye nomntu osondeleyo. Uhlale ekhona xa engekho ngokwenyama, ngoko ngengqondo. Ubunye bunye bemiphefumlo lubeka uxanduva olukhethekileyo xa ukhetha umnqweno kumama. Jonga ngokwakho, akafanelekanga kuphela amagama amahle, kodwa ayenomdla, amnandi, iintetho ezityayo ezizalwe ngothando lwakho. Ungakhetha njani oko? Unokwenza njani umnqweno kumama kwiprose okanye ukubhala izibongo? Masiqonde.

Ingcamango ebalulekileyo kodwa iyimfuneko

Uyazi, kulula kakhulu ukuthatha iinqweno ezilungiselelwe umama wakho, uphinde ubhale kwaye uphinde ufunde ngelizwi elikhulu. Ngaba baya kuthintela umphefumlo obiza kakhulu? Emva koko, nayiphina ithemplate yenzelwe imeko yoluhlu luluntu jikelele. Kwaye unomama omnye. Ngenxa yakhe, kufuneka ahlale kwaye acinge ngethuba elithile, ezama ukuqiqa oko akuthandayo. Mhlawumbi umntu othandekayo uyaphupha ngento ethile, ithathwa ngumxholo othile. Ewe, uya kuvuya gqitha xa uthetha into ekhangayo, ibonisa ukungakhathaleli kwakho. Ukongezelela, ukusebenzisa izifiso ezilungiselelwe umama, sibeka umngcipheko wokungena kwi "callus yokugula". Ngokomzekelo, nqwenela ulonwabo kwintsapho elaliqhawule umtshato. Oko kukuthi, kulo mzekelo, kuyimfuneko indlela ethile, ekhohlisayo kunye nengqiqo. Akukho mntu ulahla ukusebenzisa izifanekiso. Kodwa kufuneka baqwalaselwe, bahlalutye uhlobo, imikhwa, ukhetho lwenyoko. Ngaphandle kokuzisola, gweba into eyenza nokuba nesithunzi sokusola. Ekubeni intliziyo ikuxelela ukuba umzali akayithandi, kuthetha ukuba kunjalo. Kwaye kutheni unomnqweno wam umama, apho uya kuhlambalaza khona, okanye, uThixo akafuni, uya kulila? Kungcono ukumbamba kunye nokuwanga ngokuthula!

Oomama bonke bathanda ntoni?

Ngaloo mbono uqedile, siya kusebenza. Ukuqala ukwenza iinqwenelelo ezimnandi kumama, kubalulekile ukuqonda oko, ngokwenene, umfazi unqwenela. Kukho amaninzi anecdotes kule sihloko. Ngokomzekelo, malunga nendlela intombazana icela ngayo intombazana ukuba ithethe igama elifudumeleyo, kunye nesoka lakhe lithi "ibhetri". Ngoko ungaba. Ubulumko kumama kumprose okanye izibongo kufuneka zihlotshwe ngamagama amahle azaliswe ngumfudumalo kunye nemifanekiso emihle. Qiniseka ukuba uthetha ukuba ngumntu obiza kakhulu kuwe. Ingcamango enjalo ayisoze ibe yinto engabonakaliyo. Unokuphinda uyiphindwe ngamakhulu amahlanu ngosuku, kodwa kuya kuba mnandi. Ndixelele, indlela enhle kwaye uyiqili ngayo. Nayiphi na ibhinqa inesithandwa sayo, iitalente, ubuchule. Qinisekisa ukubonisa ukuba uyaphawula oku. Ewe, ekuphenduleni kokugqibela, thintela iphupha lakhe eliyimfihlo. Umzekelo, ukuba umama uphupha ngokuya eGoa iminyaka, kodwa engasayi kuhamba, ngoko ke oko akufunayo. Ngaba ucinga ukuba akuyi kukukholisa ukuphulaphula kwakho? Ngokuqinisekileyo umphefumlo uya kunyikima ngomfanekiso omnandi. Ukunyundela akusiyo imfuneko. Kutheni wenze isifiso esingapheliyo, njenge-surf. Ngoko umfundi uya kutyhafaza aze alale kwindawo apho uvuyisela khona.

Umnqweno womama wakhe wokuzalwa

Emva kokuba senze imigaqo yokungaqulunqwa kwemithetho yokuqulunqa, siya kuqalisa ukwenza. Siza kunika imizekelo eyahlukileyo: kuhle kwaye ayikho kakuhle. Masithi unyoko ngumama wendlu. Emva koko mxelele oku: "Mama wam othandekayo! Ufana no-Sunny, uvuke kusasa ngemini yonke, yenza isidlo sakusasa, ungabi buvila! Ekhaya upheka, uhlambulule, usenza sifunde! Ebusuku, uthumele isandla esincinci ukuphumla. Ngeholide yakho ndiya kuthetha ngokucacileyo: ishishini lakho alilibalwanga! Zonke izaziso zeentsapho, azifuni isabelo esingcono. Ukuba nje uhlala ujabule, unomusa, unomnandi! Uvuyo lokuzalwa! ».

Yaye ukuba ngaba umzali wakho naye wenza umsebenzi, ngoko ke kufuneka ubhale umyalezo. Umzekelo, njengale: "Ndiyakuvuyela uMama, othandekayo! Ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa, siyabonga. Ukukhanya komphefumlo ovuthayo. Ngamandla okucinga, oko ukucinga kukukwenza. Ukuba nomonde nobubele, ukulungelelaniswa kweengcebiso kunye nobuhle basemhlabeni. Ndiyathanda ukuncwina ngokukhawuleza, ukujongana nezinto ngokukhawuleza, ukuzalisa iphupha, elifihliweyo emphefumlweni, ukuziva lonke ixesha le ntaka ilandele ulonwabo! ". Ewe, kuyinqweneleka ukunikela umnqweno kumama ngenxa yokuzalwa ngesipho. Kodwa le yinkampani yakho.

Inqwenela encinci kumama

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu basebenza ngeeholide zabo. Cinga malunga nokuba kuya kuba mnandi kumama ukuba ngeli suku ufanele usebenze enkonzweni okanye ulinde inzala yakho esikolweni? Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuvuyela umyalezo omncinane kwifowuni. Kwaye kwi-SMS musa ukutshintshela itekisi enkulu. Yintoni ebhaliweyo? Khetha amagama anothando. Umzekelo: "Masibe lilanga ilanga lonke, umama ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni!". Okanye kunjalo: "Ndiyathanda ukuba ezulwini uthathe isigqibo sokwenza yonke imihla yakho imikhosi!". Ibinzana elincinci ngamanye amaxesha lincinci ngaphezu kokungena okungekho nto. Qaphela kwangaphambili oko umama wakho akhangele. Myeke njengentyantyambo, ngoko unqwenela ukuba yonke imihla wanikwa amawaka e-bouquets. Yaye ukuba unomdla ngezinto zokugqoka, kubhetele ukuba ubhale: "Yonke imizila yakho, intombikazi endiyithandayo, mayifakwe idayimane!"

Indlela yokubhala inkondlo kamama?

Makhe sidlule kwenye eminye imibuzo. Ukuba ufuna ukuza nevesi-unqwenela umama wakho ngokwakho, kwaye nge talente ayinathamsanqa, ungakhathazeki. Kukho imfihlelo, ulwazi oluya kunceda ukuxazulula iphazili. Thatha ezimbalwa iimfuno eziqhelekileyo. Kukho ezininzi kwi-net, asiyi kunika imizekelo. Bafunde kwaye ukhethe ezifanelekileyo kakhulu. Emva koko wenze kwimihlaba yeemfuno zakho eziqhelekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, isingeniso asivumelekanga. Le yinyathelo elilandelayo. Kubalulekile ukucinga malunga nendlela yokutshintsha amagama ukuze ivumelane ngokuvisisana kwaye ayitshintshe intsingiselo yombhalo. Ngoko kuvela ingqangi, umnqweno ngamnye kwivesi. Ukuba usebenza, uya kuhlangabezana ngokukhawuleza. Kufana nezibonelo zokuxazulula imathematika: kunzima kuphela ekuqaleni.

Zi nqwenela

Akunakwenzeka, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukugqithisa umxholo "weevenkile" kwishishini lethu. Leli lizwi eliza kubonisa ukuba ukubhala kwesi sibhalo kungowomntu osondeleyo. Intsapho nganye ikhula zayo izithethe ezincinci. Nguwe kuphela owaziyo ngabo. Kukulungele ukuzisebenzisa ngokunxulumene nale nkcazelo "efudumele kwaye enobuhle". Emva koko umnqweno uya kuzaliswa kwaye awuvumelekanga. Ngokomzekelo, umama kaTata umbiza nge-pussy. Okanye omnye umnxeba othandekayo ababewusebenzisa. Qinisekisa ukuba uyifake kwi-congratulations yakho. Kuya kuba ngathi: "Mama! Ndiyakuthanda kakhulu, kodwa akukho ngaphezu kobawo, kukubiza ngothando. Sikunqwenela ngobisi oluninzi olufudumeleyo kunye namasikeji! Kwaye xa sinyanisekile, ngoko siyavuya gqitha xa utyhola kwaye ujabulele ubomi! Masihlale njalo! ". Okanye kunjalo: "Njenge-squirrel evili ojikelezayo!" Kwaye unobungane kakhulu noModdodyr! Sinqwenela ukuba sihlale sivuya, sihle, sinesibindi kwaye sinempilo. Kwaye asiyi kuyeka uthando, sinika iintyatyambo kunye nolonwabo kumama! ".

Isiphelo

Ukuza kunye nezifiso zakho zangaphambili, khumbula ukuba kubo akubalulekanga ubuhle bamagama okanye ukuvumelanisa kwemilolo. Umama yinto enomdla kakhulu yokuba bayayinyamekela, zama ukumkholisa. Esi sisipho esilula, kodwa esibaluleke kakhulu. Kwaye wayefanelekile ngokuhlala ecaleni kwakhe ukuxhasa, ukuzonwabisa, ukunyamezela njalonjalo. Umama unenkxalabo kunye neentlungu. Abazilahli kwaye abazibetha, kuba bathanda abantwana babo. Kwaye kuya kuba kuhle ukuchitha ixesha elincinane kunye namandla engqondo xa ubhala isicatshulwa somnqweno kumama kwiprose okanye ivesi. Enyanisweni?