Ukukhetha ibhodlela lomntwana

Ukukhetha ibhodlela lomntwana kwintombi yakho okanye unyana onyanisekileyo akuyona into elula. Ngendlela ophumelelayo uza kuhlangabezana ngayo nalo msebenzi, impumelelo yoqeqesho lomntwana kwindlu yangasese incike. Ngaba kuya kukhululeka, kuya kuba lula ukuyisebenzisa, ucoceko, ngaba uya kukukholisa umntwana okanye akunjalo? Yonke le mibuzo iya kuphendulwa.

Bonke abazali bafuna ukuthenga umntwana wabo konke okusemgangathweni, emfashini, enhle. Kodwa kungcono ukukhetha ukhetho olungcono kunye noluncedo, kunokuba luhle kunabo bonke abahlukeneyo "ngeziphumo ezikhethekileyo" ezahlukeneyo.

Umzekelo, ibhokhwe yomculo iza kuqala ukwenza ingoma xa umntwana sele enze into yakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unyana okanye intombi yomculo uya kuthanda kakhulu, kwaye uya kukwazi ngokuqinisekileyo xa yonke into ilungile. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba le ngoma ingabonakalisa ingcamango. Ukuva ingoma eqhelekileyo, uyanquma ukuba ixesha lokuya kwindlu yangasese. Ngako oko, olu khetho alukwazi kuthathwa njengoluhle kakhulu.

Inketho efanelekileyo ibhobho lomntwana ngendlela yokudlala. Umzekelo onjalo uya kutsala umntwana, ncedise ukuba afunde ukuwusebenzisa ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa ukusetyenziswa ngokusisigxina, akusebenzi, njengoko kuya kumvusa umntwana ukuba ahlale ixesha elide kunokuba ufuna ngokwenene. Kwaye oku kuyingozi kwimpilo yomntwana. Ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo, akufuneki ukuba unike amathoyizi, iincwadi eziphazamisa umntwana kwimisebenzi ephambili ngexesha loqeqesho lwangasese.

Xa umntwana uneminyaka emine ubudala, unokuqala ukucinga ngokuthenga isihlalo esikhethekileyo kwindlu yangasese. Ungakulibali ukuthenga isihlalo esiphantsi okanye ukuhamba ngeenyawo.

Iingcebiso zokukhethwa

Khumbula ukuba ibhodana lomntwana kufuneka lilingane nobukhulu kunye nobukhulu beemvumba. Kukulungele ukuba uthathe unyana wakho kunye nesitoreji ukuze ukwazi "ukuzama" ukuthenga. Imodeli yenkwenkwe kufuneka ibe nomlo ophakanyisiweyo kunye nendawo ekhethiweyo ephambili. Kumantombazana, imodeli ejikelezayo iyafaneleka.

Eyona nto ingcono iplastiki. Kukhanya, kungabi kubanda, kuhlanjululwe nje. Umbala awunandaba nomgaqo. Into ephambili kukuba umntwana ayithande. Nika ingqalelo ukuba yazinza. Ngenxa yoko, isiseko sokwandisa kufuneka sinikezelwe.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ihlala ihlambulukile. Kukho imodeli eneenkcukacha ezikhethekileyo ezikuvumela ukuba uphulule iziqulatho. Akwamkelekanga ukuba phezu komhlaba kwakukho umonakalo, ukuchithwa, okukwazi ukulimaza ulusu lwentlungu.

Iintlobo zeebhotile

I-pot-sihlalo sisihlalo sabantu abaqhelekileyo esinomgodi kwisihlalo. Ibhodlela ngokwayo ifakwe ngqo ngqo.

Inkompo yomntwana yenkampu inokuba luncedo ekuhambeni, ukuhamba. Icala leplastiki liyaqhekeka kalula, i-liner ekhethiweyo ekhethiweyo isetyenziswe kuyo, leyo, emva kokusetyenziswa, ivalwe ngokukhawuleza kwaye ilahlwe. Kodwa ungakulibala ukuqhuba ekhaya ukwenzela ukuba le nto sele isaziwayo kwindodana okanye intombi yakho.

Isihlalo sezindlu zangasese sinokufakwa kwizindlu zangasese kwaye sixinzelele kwisihlalo esiqhelekileyo, okanye sinokufakwa ngokuthe ngqo kwisihlalo sabantu abadala. Inketho yesibini yinto elula kakhulu, ukucoceka. Isihlalo somntwana kufuneka siqhotyoshelwe ngokuqinileyo kwaye sigxininiswe ngokupheleleyo naluphi na uqhagamshelwano kunye nendlu yangasese. Kwizitolo unokufumana isihlalo sokubamba esiya kubaluleka kwindlela okanye ekuhambeni. Xa lihlanjwe, kuthatha indawo encinane kakhulu.

Abaguquleli bezityalo "bakhula" kunye ne-crumb yakho kwaye bakuvumela ukuba ubeke endaweni encinane ibhobho yomntwana kunye neyendlu yangasese ekhulile. Lo mzekelo uza kukusindisa ekudakeni okungadingekile.

Ngoku uyazi zonke iimfihlelo zokukhetha ibhodlela eligqibeleleyo lomntwana ozithandayo. Vumela umntwana wakho akhule kwaye avuyiswe!