Umntwana ongamphulaphuliyo ntoni? ezintathu Imithetho eziphambili enkulisa

"Musa ukubaleka", "ungatsibeli", "musa esandleni niyithathe" - kangaphi sisiva abazali siphelisa ikhontenti iingxelo ezinjalo. Umntwana, Kakade, wenza yonke into ngqo kodwa ngokuchasene - runs, utshayelwe yonke indlela, jump ubambe yonke into abangangeni. Kutheni umntwana akaphulaphuli? Ngubani na obange ngenxa yokungathobeli kwakhe? Ukuba umntwana ongamphulaphuliyo ntoni?

Umntwana ongamphulaphuliyo ntoni? - Qinisekisa ukuba intetho

i ienjini kanjalo yakhiwe ukuba isuntswana "HAYI" phantse engazange ibonwe. uyaqonda umntu abazi oko wabuza, kodwa kungenzeka emva kwexesha elithile, uya kwenza into eyahlukileyo. Umzekelo, kunokwenzeka ukuba kunjani ngokubuza umntu omthandayo omnye: ". Ukukhumbula 'ucele ixesha, ukuba' akayilibalanga ', yaye cut elilandelayo ukuze Ndithi kuni, inene, ukuba umyalelo ukukhumbula ukuba ibinzana elithi 'ukuba yenziwe ngokuchanekileyo nangokufanelekileyo, ingeyo ibinzana elithi "Musa ukulibala."

Kufuneka uzame ukubuyisela igama kwisuntswana "HAYI". Masithi: "Musa wambhakraza 'ukuya' ukuvala unkabi", "musa ukuchukumisa," ukuba "ukuhamba, wowuyeka ulale," njl Ekuqaleni, kuya kuba nzima ukuba esweni ngokuchanekileyo intetho, kodwa kwexesha iya kuba umkhwa ...

Umntwana ongamphulaphuliyo ntoni? - Chaza khona

     rhoqo umntwana ongathobeliyo ozelwe ukungaqondi kakuhle yokuvalwa: "Kutheni le nto abantu abadala, yaye andikwazi?".

Zonke kids ezintsha kakhulu, bafunda ngayo ihlabathi, izinto kunye neempawu zazo. Xa umama, umdlalo atsho kabukhali, ukuba kwakhona ungonqweneleka kakhulu ukuzama ukubasa yintlantsi. Baby bob toy le iglasi, ebethanda le kunkqonkqozwa ezintsha ucace. Kubaluleke kakhulu kwezi zihlandlo zisabela omdala. Umzekelo, umntwana unkqonkqoza yokudlala enye phezu kwetafile ngamaplanga - umama, hayi ekuhlawuleni nayiphi na ingqalelo kuso, iya sisaxakeke yimicimbi yaso. Ke wamthabatha yokudlala waza waqalisa bob kwi kwiglasi - unina xa ekhwaza kukududuzela "Nguwe! Awukwazi 'ukusondela kuye kwakamsinya. Baby ke ngokugqithiseleyo kakhulu - kungenxa yokuba wamdlwengula unina yakhe ukwenjenjalo. Mayiphindwe!

Kwakhona rhoqo kakhulu kwenzeka ukuba umntwana ucelwa ukuba wenze into ethile, ukuba akukho ibonisa njani. Ukuba ulinde kwimeko enjalo, intobelo nto ngamampunge. Kwenza akukho mqondo lokufuna ukuba usana ukucoca izinto zokudlala indawo, ukuba umdla nje kuphela, kodwa akazi nokuba bayazi apho elimfaneleyo. Kodwa ukuba unina bajike olu hlobo zokucoca xa kukho uhlobo izithethe, xa umatshini kuya kufuneka nje dibanisa gqo nokwenza igaraji, oonopopi kunye nezilwanyana ezincinane elaliswa. Kwaye nkqu izihlandlo ezimbalwa, yaye uya kusinceda, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, le nkonzo iya kuze ibe ngunobangela khalaza nosana.

Umntwana ongamphulaphuliyo ntoni? - Iyakwalela Ukuba ngokulinganisela

     Yenkani nokungalaleli kungenzeka xa nezithintelo ezininzi kakhulu kunye engqongqo. Umzekelo, umntwana seminyaka emithathu-abuze nomama wakhe:

- Mama, andikwazi ukudlala egadini?

- Hayi, akukho kubanda kakhulu.

- Mama, unako ukudlala ekhaya?

- Hayi, nithe nawaphula into.

- Mama, udle ice cream?

- Hayi, ungafumana umqala abagulayo ...

Isiphumo kwencoko enjalo aphela rhoqo kukho iinyembezi Danish, kunye nabazali kule mzuzu Ndikhalaze malunga ukungathobeli. Kufuneka ukhumbule enye imithetho ibalulekileyo - izithintelo kufuneka ube nengqiqo.

Ukuba iimpendulo kwimibuzo ebalulekileyo efana kwezemfundo njenge - "? Umntwana ongamphulaphuliyo ntoni", "? Njani umntwana ukuthobela" Sifanele sikhumbule ukuba wonke umntwana eyahlukileyo. A umntwana uzelwe andenza zinkani, ngoko oko kwenza ukuba imfundo kunye sengqondo abadala kuyo. Wonke umntwana imfuneko yendalo, ukuba abadala kufuneka malisoloko liqatshelwe - kuba yimfuneko ukuba uthando, uthando, ukuqonda, inkululeko kunye nenkululeko. Xa ukumodareyithwa, Kakade ke, imiqathango kunye nemigaqo kufuneka ukuba, kodwa kanye njengokuba kubalulekile ukuba isivumelwano phakathi kwabazali. Kwaye kufuneka ngokuqinisekileyo ukhumbule enye into ebaluleke kakhulu kwimfundo - bonke abantwana ekhalazela hayi ngokuchasene nemithetho, kodwa nxamnye iindlela ukuphunyezwa kwazo!