Utshilwa ntoni "uphawu lokutyulela"?

Kukho iimpawu ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kunye neenkolelo zabantu. Omnye ukholelwa kuyo, abanye abayithandi. Abantu beenkolelo bazama ukulandela ubulumko bendalo. Umqondiso "wokusasaza ityuwa" uyaziwa ngokuqinisekileyo kubantu abaninzi. Oko kuthetha oko akuyiyo imfihlo kunoma ubani. Kodwa yintoni enokuyenza, ukuba sele yenzekile, kungekhona wonke umntu owaziyo. Ndifuna ukuthetha ngale nto kwinqaku lam.

Yayiphi na inkolo?

Okokuqala, makhe sibone apho uphawu "lufefa ityuwa" luvela khona. Kuvela ukuba le nkolelo yazalwa eRashiya kumaxesha amandulo, xa ityuwa yayixabisa ubunzima bayo kwigolide. Kwaye kubiza, ngoko ke waphathwa ngokucophelela. Iitrocellar ezinkulu ezinkulu zafakwa etafileni kuphela ngeeholide kwaye xa zidibana neendwendwe. Ngenxa yoko igama elithi "hlabana nesonka kunye netyuwa". Ukuba umntu osapho usasaza loo mveliso eyigugu, kwakubonwa njengesono esikhulu. Kwakulindelwe ukuba isigwebo esivela eNkosini sokuba siqiniseke. Ngoko ke, kule ganeko, intsapho ihlala ixabana. Ngoko ke uphawu lokuba ukuba ityuwa isasazeke, lindele ukuxabana.

Ziziphi "izithembiso" lo mqondiso

Ukuphikisana ngesihloko esithi "kutheni ityuwa"? Yazi ukuba lo mqondiso awulungile kakhulu. Kuthetha ukuba ukuxabana kuza kukhawuleza kwindlu yakho. Yaye, xa ipapashwa ngakumbi, iya kuba nzima. Yintoni endiyenzayo ukuze ndikhusele oku kungenzeki? Okokuqala, qaphela le mveliso. Yeka indleko yalo incinci, kodwa isipho sendalo, kwaye kufuneka ikhuselwe. Okwesibini, ukuba ityuwa isele ihlakazekile, kufuneka kube neendlela ezininzi ezingaxakekiyo ukukhusela ubunzima. Ziziphi ezichazwe ngezantsi.

Ezinye iimpawu ezinxulumene netyuwa

Ukuba "ityuwa yokufafaza" ithetha ukuxabana, "ukunikezela ityuwa etafileni" kunokuthetha ukuba uza kutshatyalaliswa ngokukhawuleza nomntu onikwe kuye. Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, kufuneka uhlekise ekudlulisweni kwe-saltcellar. Akuyinto yesiko ukuboleka ityuwa nokuyibuyisela. Kukholelwa ukuba kule ngxaki unokutshintsha impilo yakho yentsapho. Kwaye ngoncedo lwalo mveliso unokufumana ukuba kukho isiqalekiso endlwini yakho. Ukwenza oku, uthele kwi-pan yokutshiza uze ufake umlilo. Ukuba emva kwexesha ityuwa liphosa, lungcwalise indlu, ukuba lihlala limhlophe - akukho nto yoyikekayo.

Yintoni enokuyenza xa ityuwa isasazeka

Kodwa musa ukuthukuthela ukuba oku sele kwenzekile. Ndiza kuthetha malunga nendlela yokulungisa imeko xa umninimzi othule ityuwa, yintoni enokuyenza kule meko. Zininzi iindlela:

1. Kwilayidi yesilayidi isasazeka ukubonisa umnqamlezo. Kukholelwa ukuba ngokwenza oku, ungcwelise ikhaya lakho kwaye uchithe amandla angasebenzi kuwo.
2. Sasaza umveliso kathathu ukuphosa phezu kwehlombe lakhe langasekhohlo ngasemva kwakhe.
3. Zibophe ebunzini okanye nje ukuhleka. Le ndlela ilungile kuba ikulungiselela ngokukhawuleza kwiimeko ezifunayo.

Ngaloo ndlela, sifike kwisigqibo sokuba uphawu "lokusasaza ityuwa" aluziphathelanga nto into eyingozi. Ukuze ugweme imiphumo yayo, kufuneka wenze ezinye izinto ezilula. Ungethuki ukuba into efana nale iyenzeka kakade kuwe. Landela ezi zikhokelo kwaye uya kuphepheka imiba engafanelekanga kwintsapho yakho.