Uyise Single: ntoni xa umama eshiya intsapho

Ngethamsanqa, kwilizwe lethu, ooyise abangatshatanga zithathwa ezinqabileyo. Ngokutsho manani, kuvela ukuba abafazi anamanci mahlanu ukhulisa umntwana yedwa, kukho omnye ubawo single. Kodwa kukho abazali abangakwaziyo okanye awufuni ukuba owonithemba bekhulisa ngomntwana wakhe.

Ubomi kwesinye ukhohlakele oomama ngokwawo awukwazi okanye awufuni ukuba bafundise abantwana babo. uyise Lone willy-liqhubeke ukuba ukujongana kunye nabantwana babo. Kwakhona kuyenzeka ukuba umntu uhlala umhlolo, ngoxa kunzima ngakumbi. Ngapha koko, umele nazigqibo kwilahleko uthabathe phezu kuphela izibophelelo phantsi inkxaso-mali yekhaya, kodwa nayo yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya, ukudlala nabantwana, ukupheka, ukucoca, impahla.

inye kufuneka iyiqwalasele ubomi bakhe kwaye ulandele ezinye iingcebiso eziya kumnceda ukwenza ubomi lula:

1. Imisebenzi kufuneka ingenakuthatyathwa kumntwana umsebenzi. Itakane ekhulayo, ukutshintsha, yena funny obathandayo, uxelela amabali umdla ebomini bakhe. Yena ngummangaliso, uvuyo, ukukhanya kunye nolonwabo.
2. Akukho mfuneko nangoko bazame ukurhwaphilizela superpapoy. Okokuqala kufuneka ukumamela wena nomntwana, ukuvavanya amandla abo, musa ukunqakula into. Amava iza kwexesha.
3. Inkolelo yokuba amabhinqa - amakhosikazi angaphakathi, bayaphazama. Oomama abaninzi abaselula angene usapho, wayengazi ukuba ukupheka, ukugcina indlu, ukuba awabe lwabiwo-mali. Bafunda yonke inkqubo. Ngoko ke, umntu kwisimo ukumelana zonke iimbopheleleko.
4. Kuba Okokuqala, ungenza uluhlu, nto leyo iya kuthathela ingqalelo yonke into ekufuneka yenziwe ngeveki. into nganye iya mayihlatywe ngcembe, iya kuba lixesha lokuba wena.
5. Ukuba umfazi yaphosa usapho, uyise kuya kufuneka ukuba bashiye zonke izikhalazo zabo kunye naye. Ngapha koko, lo mntwana ngaloo sibi nakakhulu, ngoko akuyomfuneko ukuba ukuva ngoko umama embi. Kuyimfuneko ukuba achaze oko umama kwafuneka ukushiya. Xa umama wam, kufuneka uxelele inyaniso, ukuze achaze ukuba umama wam uhlala apho, yena ujonga usana kunye efini, yaye uncumela kuye. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, umntwana uya kuziva ishiywe, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuze zingqonge ngononophelo. Kufuneka athathe isifungo ukuba soze ukulahla umntwana, musa ukuya kude yaye aziyi kufa, kuba mixture iya kuba woyika kakhulu, ukuba nawe wenze njalo.
6. uyise Single esoloko ijongana nale ngxaki enoba okanye ukuba ukutshata ubuncinane ngenxa yomntwana. Unakho ukucela nanny okanye au isibini, kodwa ukuba sitshate ngenxa nje ukuba umntwana, akukho mfuneko. Kodwa ukuba phakathi kwendoda nomfazi uza kuba nolwalamano onyanisekileyo, kufuneka uzame nokumisela ngokusesikweni amakhonkco onxibelelwano.
7. Ukuba uyihlo enye kunye nentombi, ngamanye amaxesha woyika ukuba iza kuba yinto ukuba bavume oontanga, kuba awunazo imfudumalo koomama. Enoba kwakuyintoni na, abantwana abavela kwiintsapho ezinomzali omnye zahluke kwezinye abantwana. Kodwa ke oku akuthethi ukuba uphumelele. Le ntombazana uyayazi indlela yokufumana kunye umntu oya kuba nako isando isikhonkwane kunye nokulungisa vana. Le nto ime phakathi kwezinye amantombazana. Kufuneka sizame ukugcina ubudlelwane bokuthembana nentombi yakhe. Phendula imibuzo malunga nezihloko isini, unike ingcebiso malunga kukhathalelo (nawe ngaphambi kokuba udibane kunye nabafazi okanye ukufunda iincwadi special) ukuze ukhethe iimpahla.
8. Ukuba ukwala ukuba ukunyamekela abo sibathandayo, izalamane, abahlobo, nabo. Akukho mfuneko yokuba kwakhiwe evela kutata owomeleleyo onke entsapho. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo amandla abo. Ukuba ummelwane-umhlala ulungele ukukhangela emva kokuba usana, uyavuma. Ukuze ufake umntwana ukunceda ngeenxa zonke endlwini, oko kuya kuba yinzuzo kubo bonke.
9. Kuyimfuneko ukuba bafunde uncedo ebinokuba imo. Ukuba ungumzali ongenaqabane, inzuzo ziza kubekwa kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Kuphela ngenxa yale njongo kuya kuba yimfuneko ukuqokelela ulwazi oluninzi kunye namaxwebhu.

Enoba kunjalo, kufuneka ingaze kukhuthazwe kwaye anikezele. Impilo iyaqhubeka. Kufuphi nalapho kukho usana, nto leyo yinxalenye yakho. Kwihlabathi kukho abantu abaninzi novelwano yaye ezilungileyo baya kukuvuyela ukukunceda uyise ngazodwa.