6 zinto kufuneka wazi zooyise kubantwana ababini

Kungenzeka, umfazi wakho akunakwenzeka ukufumana lonke iqela abancedisi kunye nabongikazi ukuba amncede ukumelana usana. ithemba lakhe lodwa - nguyise usana kunye nomyeni wakhe. Ngexesha liqabane yokuqala yokuzalwa lidla kunye mfazi wadibana zonke iingcali abanonophela kuye; kwandule ke umfazi angaya ekhaya. Ekhaya ubaba uwukhuphe kunye isiqabu, kuba akafuni ukuncancisa okanye ukwenza into enjalo. Kodwa xa umntwana wesibini, i Pope, njengoko umthetho, musa ukuba ngexesha esilichitha esibhedlele. Ke kufuneka uthathe unonophelo lamazibulo. Ngelo xesha, zonke uyise kufuneka sele uyakwazi ukunceda umama kunye nendlela yokulawula umntwana wabo wokuqala, ngoxa yokunyamekela yesibini. Ekugqibeleni, umama ingajongeka nigqibelele, xa efunda incwadi eyamazibulo ngexesha elifanayo yokondla wesibini, kodwa akazange superheroine - yena, naye, kufuneka ukuba ukuphumla. Ngoko onke amadoda abanabantwana kufuneka bazazi ezi nyaniso ezibalulekileyo, ukuba bafuna bonwabe emtshatweni.

Ngowokuba umfazi otshatileyo ezikhala ukudinwa

Uyazi. Kucacile ukuba udiniwe. Akukho namnye ekhaya akakwazi ndoqhayisa amandla xa sele kutshanje kuphela umntwana wesibini. Kodwa indoda yakhe Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba le nkosikazi wayekhulelwe iinyanga ezilithoba, wanyamezela ukuzala yaye ngoku ndinyuse ngoko nangoko, kwaye umntwana omdala nomntwana. Pope kwakhona akukho lula, kodwa hayi xa kuthelekiswa nonina. Ukuba ufuna ukukhalaza - nceda, kodwa musa ukwabelana iimvakalelo kunye nomfazi wakhe. Thetha ebulalekile inja wakhe, umntwana, lo umlungiseleli, nabani na. Kanye akamfazi wam! Yena waba nayiphi na imeko babe nzima kakhulu, ngoko ndiyenze ukuphulaphula izikhalazo nje le nto.

Musa ukulibala ukuba anyamekele umfazi wakhe

Ukuba wena udle isonka, thatha wesibini umfazi wakhe. Ukuze kunyanyekelwe umntwana akuyondlwan 'iyanetha, hayi ixesha elaneleyo, nomgudu ukulungiselela isidlo ukuze kube nje. Ukuba umyeni wakhe wayengekho apho, waba nako ukusinda, ungavele into ephuma efrijini. Kodwa into akwazi ukuyenza loo nto, loo nto ayithethi ukuba kufuneka. Ukuba indoda epheka isidlo ukuba kufanele benze nokukhonza ibe ngumfazi. Oku kukwasebenza ikomityi yeti,, yena ukuba iqabane liceba ukuba basele iti kufuneka kwangoko kuba intanda yakhe.

Umfazi ukuze abe nomona naliphi na ithuba lokuba athathe ishawa okanye uphume ngaphandle usana

Umama kufuneka kusoloko kunye nomntwana, ngoko ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ikhwele nendoda yakhe Ungaya nje emsebenzini. Kusenokwenzeka ukukhalaza ngayo kwaye akayi kuba, kodwa yiva umona. Kakade ke, yonke unina uyamthanda umntwana wakhe, kwakunye indoda yakhe, kodwa xa unayo yonke imini vozishsya Mntwana, izihlunu zakho inobuhlungu koko efunekayo ukuze uphakamise umntwana omnye, ngoko omnye, kwaye nkqu umzimba uphela ediniwe emva kokubeleka, ngoko ndifuna ukwenza phula ... Ngoko ukuba indoda kufuneka uzame ukudala umfazi ezamahala ixesha lakhe, ngoko ndihlambe kwaye basebenze into eyahlukileyo ukusuka kwimfundo yabantwana. Nokuba seyure ngosuku ingadlala indima enkulu abafazi zempilo, ngoko ke ityala iqabane - ukuqinisekisa ukuba eli xesha.

Indoda kufuneka ukulawula ixesha lokuphumla onke amalungu entsapho

Gcina umkhondo wendlela umntu eninzi ilele. Uyazi ukuba ukulala efunekayo engamandla elisandula-unina. Khangela kumkayo, iphalale yona, xa ufuna ukuba sempilweni, bonwabile kwaye uzive inkxalabo yakho.

Xa umntu ethatha ikhefu lokuthatha umntwana, kufuneka ukunyamekela umntwana

Eli khefu - hayi ithuba abuyise zonke ukuba unako ukwenza ngamaxesha aqhelekileyo. Ngoko silibale malunga Internet kunye ibhiya kunye nabahlobo, wonqanyulwa, wezangaphandle kubuncinane kwaye apho nomntwana kuphela. Zonke izinto ukulinda.

Musa ukufika ekhaya ne indebe engenanto yekofu

Yinto nje pas faux! Kakade ke, unina akakwazi ukuba umxholo, kodwa ukuba uyise ivumela ukuba mhle, kodwa qiniseka ukuba uqaphele kuyo. Kakade ke, awukwazi ucinga ngayo, kodwa cinga nje ngayo bonke aba uhamba yedwa, ukutya eshushu omnye kunye imizuzu yonke yande lokuhlamba, yaye yintoni kunye nonina, nto leyo ubuthongo ngokwaneleyo kwaye izeziphi iihomoni. Indoda kufuneka uhlale ukhumbula umfazi oyintanda inkxaso, ngokubafekethisa kwaye wenze ubuncinane izimanga kancinane. Ngoko kuya kuba qiniseka ukuba iqabane lakhe ibaluleke ngokwenene ezi ubudlelwane kunye nokuba uthatha inxaxheba yonke into eyenzekayo entsatsheni, ngokupheleleyo.